The Truth About Islam & Women - Islam is POISON For Women
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Yasmin Alibhai-Brown: The truth about Islam and women
'Muslim sisters are burning, dying, imprisoned without a voice all in the
name of one of the greatest religions in the world'
01 October 2001
How embarrassing. For the first and (I hope) only time in my life, I found
myself agreeing a little with the irritating Boris Johnson as he argued with
Harifiyah Haleem, a Muslim writer, on BBC Radio 4's Today programme. They
were discussing Johnson's latest claim that the terrorists who attacked the
US did so because they despise the liberation of women. Ms Haleem (who was
at a disadvantage because she did not have the confidence of her antagonist)
responded by saying that Islam gives women many rights and by quoting some
gem by the late puritan Ayatollah Khomeini.
Excuse me? Why should I care about what Khomeini said? He was an astute
politician who knew how to manipulate his population. I abhor what he did to
women, particularly educated women who refused to bow to the harsh, grey,
controlling, joyless Islam he promulgated. Some of these intellectual women
were tortured, often killed; others, such as the brilliant Iranian child
psychiatrist Homa Darabi, burnt themselves to death in public places because
they objected to the draconian laws which forced women to cover themselves.
Vocal British Muslims and their organisations hate it when these examples of
female oppression are brought up. They want the focus of public debates to
be only on the many and growing examples of Islamaphobia. Other apologists,
such as Haleem, withdraw into ideals, responding to concerns with "proof"
that Islam is supposed to be a religion which promotes and protects women.
This knowledge is not used to change sexist attitudes and behaviour; instead
it is used to placate or silence the real outage many of us inside and
outside the Muslim communities feel.
I don't want anyone else to enlighten me about what the Koran says on women;
what I would like is a robust dialogue about what we can do to stop the
cruelties against women and girls in the Muslim world. This oppression is
not confined to Muslim countries, of course. But we have an obligation to
clean up our own back yards and to tell and confront the complicated truth.
This does not mean that I am part of the brigade which declared its own
jihad this week against Islam and other faiths which have never succumbed to
their post-enlightenment values. This is only another kind of fanaticism.
Some liberal principles – respect for the individual and equality, for
example, deserve to be embraced as part of a universal human rights culture.
But western lifestyles which are now so crushingly hedonistic and
narcissistic have created new problems. It is right that those who are not
yet caught up in these should question them. Women's rights, too, need to be
assessed more intelligently, but let us stop making excuses, please. Young
Muslim women in this country have significantly higher rates of suicide than
do white women. People working in burns units in city hospitals know, but do
not talk about, how many of these women end up there.
In the first few days of September, a litany of horrors occurring in
Pakistan emerged on a website set up by a brave Muslim academic, Riffat
Hassan, a woman of deep faith who has given her life to campaigning for
Muslim women's rights.
Among those horrors was the case of Shafugta Bibi, who has two children. She
was killed by her father, husband and uncles because she wanted a divorce.
Seventy cases of incest were suppressed in Islamabad; several rape victims
were "punished"; Naziram Bibi, who had seven children, was murdered by her
son who thought she had been "dishonourable"; 20-day-old Alia, and toddlers
Mehwish and Sahnish, were shot dead by their father, angry that his wife had
only given him daughters. Family murders happen here too – "so what?" you
may ask. The point is these violations use Islam and "values" as excuses.
That means Muslims have got to become engaged.
We know that the worst oppression of Muslim women and girls is found among
the poor, often rural and illiterate groups around the world, here included.
But middle-class Muslim women even in volatile countries, are still – just –
effective and autonomous and many of them, like Dr Hassan, use their
influence to confront the inhumane treatment of women and girls.
In many ways it is an immense privilege to be born female, Muslim and middle
class. You get immeasurable family support and respect plus all the freedoms
you need to do what you wish. Pakistan, Bangladesh and Indonesia elected
women leaders who never had to prove that they could bake biscuits (remember
how Hillary Clinton had to do this when the American public felt she was too
robustly political?) and here Baroness Uddin is a forceful and clever
operator whose five children ( including one who is disabled) have not
stopped her ambitions.
Shagufta Yaqub, the young editor of a magazine for British Muslims, is a
worthy role model because of her intelligence. Bollywood actress, activist
and politician Shabana Azmi fights tirelessly for street women and their
rights.
Sisters Asma Jehangir and Hina Jilani, both admired international human
rights lawyers, risk their lives in Pakistan to protect women. Both live
under death threats. Kabul once had educated and militantly independent
women, many of whom are joining perilous resistance groups, protected,
ironically, with the shroud which they are all obliged to wear.
What worries me is that the influential intellectual and politicised Muslim
woman around the world are now being targeted and silenced. As the effects
of the Iranian revolution spread to neighbouring countries, women who lived
free and fulfilled lives as Muslims found themselves under scrutiny or
worse. They have had to prove they are real Muslims by giving up their
independence, aspirations and all that their own mothers had taken for
granted. This fact remains largely unknown in the west.
In the first half of the 20th century in most Muslim countries there was no
sense of contradiction between Islam and modernism. You only have to look at
the world of art to see this clearly. Surrealism, Cubism, Abstract
Expressionism all flourished in Baghdad, Amman and Tehran.
Real faith should be confident and not fear that it will be knocked away by
new technologies or ideas. Today we see panic in too many parts of the
Muslim world and this leads to grotesque denials of basic principles.
The Moroccan writer Fatima Mernissi says in her book, Women's Rebellion and
Islamic Memory: "The waves of religion based on terrorism in the 1990's are
based on the tormented response of a mutilated Muslim society whose
progressive forces have been savagely emasculated. Why on earth is the Arab
world so hostile to women? Why can it not see women as a force for
development? Why so much desire to humiliate and retard us despite our
efforts to educate ourselves and become productive?"
Mernissi and others like her are described even by highly educated Muslims
as "traitors". But we will carry on, because we cannot collude in the
physical and emotional genocide of our sisters who are burning, dying,
imprisoned without a voice in the name of one of the greatest religions in
the world.
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