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Abuse of U.S. Muslim Women Is Greater Than Reported, Advocacy Groups
Say
Thursday, January 31, 2008
By Julie Kirtz
Jan. 31: Fozia Sadiq, a Pakistani immigrant in Northern Virginia,
hides her identity. She alleges her husband physically abused her for
not cleaning.
Jan. 31: Fozia Sadiq, a Pakistani immigrant in Northern Virginia,
hides her identity. She alleges her husband physically abused her for
not cleaning.
WASHINGTON -- Two months into an arranged marriage, Fozia Sadiq, a
young Pakistani immigrant, found herself trapped in the suburbs of
Dallas, Texas, with a violent husband.
She says he routinely beat her and intimidated her into never going
anywhere in public without him.
"My neck had so many bruises, and I had scratches all over my arms,"
Sadiq told FOXNews.com through an interpreter.
A practicing Muslim, Sadiq finally escaped in 2006, during the Muslim
holy month of Ramadan.
She says she stayed up all night reading the Koran and was physically
abused by her husband for not cleaning up the kitchen the next
morning.
"He yelled at her, kicked her and punished her," says Mazna Hussain,
an attorney who is helping Sadiq remain in the United States.
"And when she was on the ground [during the beating], at that point
she finally decided to leave before he killed her."
There are no solid statistics on the rate of domestic violence within
the Muslim-American community, and it is difficult to determine
whether Muslim women are victimized more than women in the general
population.
But advocacy groups say Sadiq's story is not an isolated case.
On New Year's Day, two teenage Egyptian-American sisters, Amina and
Sarah Said, were shot dead in Irving, Texas. Police are searching for
their father, Yaser Abdel Said, who reportedly was angry with their
American-like behavior, which included dating.
According to the girls' great-aunt, their father had been abusing them
for years. She says they, along with their mother, fled after he
threatened to kill the girls.
The great-aunt called the murders "honor killings" for bringing shame
to the family, a charge Islam Said, the girls' brother, denies. Police
say they are looking into motives.
Allegations that the girls were killed for dishonoring the family's
name has brought greater focus on all forms of abuse in the Muslim-
American community in what some say is a bigger problem than is
reported because, they say, it is veiled in secrecy.
"I suspect it's happening a lot more than we think," says Hussain, who
works with battered Muslim women at the Tahirih Justice Center in
Northern Virginia.
"We hear again and again from [abused] women who say, 'I can't tell my
parents back home because if they find out, my younger sister can't
get married,'" says Meghna Gozwami, client services coordinator for
DAYA, a South-Asian immigrant group that provides legal and financial
assistance for abused families. The name "DAYA" means "compassion" in
Sanskrit.
DAYA, which runs a domestic violence hotline, has seen a dramatic
increase in distress calls --almost 20 times more -- in the last five
years (from 189 calls in 2003 to 3,308 last year).
Click here to read more about DAYA.
It isn't clear if the increase in calls is due to more abuse or
whether more immigrant women, exposed to America's open culture, have
felt the freedom to seek help.
But Gozwami says she is sure that the women who call the hotline are
afraid not only for their own safety but for fear that reporting the
abuse will shame their families.
Those working to stop the violence say part of the problem is that
women, often recent immigrants, face intense family and religious
pressure to keep quiet.
Many Muslim immigrant women do not even know that they are victims of
a crime. That's because in their home country it may be legal or
acceptable for men to physically punish or even kill their wives and
daughters for dishonoring the family.
And when an immigrant woman tries to get help, advocates say, an
abusive husband often will threaten to have her deported.
"Within our community we are still struggling with the issue of
domestic abuse," says Hadayai Majeed, who runs the Baitul Salaam
shelter in Atlanta, which caters to Muslim women.
She says women and girls who come to the shelter sometimes have been
physically punished for what their fathers, husbands and brothers
believe is behavior that dishonors the family.
Dating a non-Muslim or not wearing a traditional head scarf can
trigger a beating.
"This can be interpreted as being extremely rebellious or be an excuse
for abuse," Majeed says.
Not only is this behavior culturally accepted in many Islamic
countries, but it is encouraged. Last year a prominent Saudi cleric
went on television to tell Muslim men how to properly beat their
wives.
In the video he instructs viewers: "Beating in the face is
forbidden ... even if you want your camel or donkey to start walking,
you are not allowed to beat it in the face. If this is true for
animals, it is all the more true when it comes to humans"
Click here to play the video.
Here in America, advocacy groups say those who turn to their community
for help do not always find it, in particular from some religious
leaders who, although they are in the United States, still hold to
cultural traditions of their homeland and do not clearly reject
violence against women.
"I had another client facing severe domestic violence from her
husband, and her Imam kept going to the woman and persuading her to go
back" to her abuser, Hussain says.
Author Phyllis Chesler, who writes about Islamic gender issues in the
United States, believes domestic violence against Muslim-American
women, not just immigrants, is covered up by an Islamic culture that
treats women as second-class citizens.
"I'm not saying every Muslim family does it or that every Imam
encourages it or that only Muslim men beat their wives, but Muslim men
have control over their wives," she says.
"And monitoring the chastity of their women is an obsession, because
if she loses it, or has a boyfriend or wants to marry who she wants to
marry, this could be a death sentence."
The practice of murdering a woman or girl who is believed to have
damaged the family honor is culturally accepted in countries including
Jordan, Pakistan and the Palestinian territories.
According to a 2000 report by the United Nations Population Fund, as
many as 5,000 women worldwide are murdered each year in so-called
honor killings. But reported killings in Europe and North America have
raised concerns that Muslim women in the West are becoming
increasingly vulnerable.
The most recent case came in December when a Canadian teenager died
after an alleged attack by her father over a dispute about whether she
should wear a traditional Muslim head scarf.
To date, there officially are no documented cases of honor killings in
the United States. The recent slayings of Amina and Sarah Said,
however, have triggered a debate over whether this is the first, and
if the deadly ritual has been exported to America and more killings
are on the way.
Members of groups such as the Tahirih Justice Center say they are
watching the case closely.
"There is a very conservative, twisted view out there about Islam,"
Hussain says.
Shariq Siddiqui, the executive director of the Muslim Alliance of
Indiana, says some Muslims manipulate their faith and culture to
justify abuse.
"I hate to use him as an example, but Usama bin Laden is doing this at
a macro level, and Muslim-American men who abuse women are doing it at
a micro level," says Siddiqui, who works with Muslim domestic violence
victims through the Julian Center, a non-profit agency in
Indianapolis.
But many are reluctant to quantify to what degree Muslim faith
perpetuates the problem.
Practicing Muslims, even battered women, do not want to portray Islam
as an abusive religion or demonize all Muslim men.
"There's domestic abuse in every community," says Rafia Zakaria, an
Indiana University scholar and writer who is working to educate
Muslims about spousal abuse.
"Like American women, Muslim women who are abused face psychological
pressure from their abusers, and they're afraid to speak out."
Muslim-Americans just recently have started to confront the problem.
Some domestic violence shelters have opened for Muslim women, mostly
in big cities. And activists are beginning to reach out to sympathetic
Imams who will teach Muslims in the United States that domestic
violence is unacceptable.
Zakaria has launched a legal defense fund to support Muslim victims of
abuse.
"I won't lie, it's a controversial problem to talk about," Zakaria
says. "But the problem is within."
Fozia Sadiq knows that all too well. She was one of the lucky ones who
got out of her abusive relationship.
"In my culture there are men like this, even well-educated men, who
call women ignorant and backwards," she says. "But they are the
ignorant ones.
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sunny
Where did you get this hell of information, in Pakistan killing women
is accepted. I think Killing women and childerns are accepted in the
western countries. Bills are especiall passed to attack innocent
civilians in Iraq and Afghanistan. You look a very ignorant anti
islamic ut freak. Did you ever showed anything or talked about
anything on the following Statistics.
Over 30% (some estimate over 50%) of all murders of women in America
are committed by intimate partners.
Up to 6 million women are believed to be beaten in their homes each
year. Four million incidents are reported. Up to 90% of battered women
never report their abuse.
On the average, a woman is battered in the United States by a partner
every twelve to fifteen seconds!
50% of all homeless women and children in America are fleeing domestic
violence.
50-70% of men who abuse their partners also abuse children in the
home.
The average batterer is held less than 2 hours, and less than 1% serve
any jail time.
Make sure these statistics are not islamic. Stop spreading hatred
against islam. If fozia was harrassed or abuse. Take her as an
individual not as muslim or pakistan. By the do you have any authentic
document that says Pakistan appreciates murder?