A detector vp and his group will learn a good leadership

Yaj Tshaj Koob

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Jan 1, 2010, 1:44:05 PM1/1/10

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Qualities a good leader, one of the characteristic of a good
leader, is the ability and willingness to listen to others and be
responsive to what they want and value:
.....the effective leader has keen perception of how others in and out
of his own group think and feel, supplemented by an appreciation of
their values. Consequently, he is not negative in his attitudes
toward others. Rather he is cooperative by nature and adjusts his
thinking readily to changing conditions and the new leadership
requirements they bring. Furthermore, he is able to guide his group
in satisfying its needs. he takes various roles. Now he is a
listener, now ready with a suggestion. At moments of group decision
he can either serve as a guide for the group or take a firm hold on
the reins. The good leader delegates authority wisely and maintains
strong group cohesiveness and pride. The effect of all this is that
the group makes progress in reaching its goals, ua cas tsis ua li
txoj kev yuav ua kom muaj qib duas xij xuas ncauj hais tsis muaj ntaub
ntawv li.
Qhov no also emphasizes the importance of hard work in the role
of the leader. Many leadership role require it. The fact that the
leader must assume responsibility puts him in the position of having
to assume many duties others can avoid. It is doubtful if the
average person who is not in a leadership role can understand or
appreciate how much time, energy and willingness to give up other
things many of these tasks demand. Do you know that the
Psychological studies show that in understanding leadership, as in
understanding any other complex form of behavior, it is important to
consider all of the various influences and sources of pressure which
are involved. In the case of the leader this would include all the
pulls and tugs of the leader's, own personal needs and desires, all
the need and pressures coming from members of the group he is
leading, and all of the difficulties presented by whatever problem
the group might be trying to solve. All of this points up the fact
that a leader needs to have a strong and balanced personal disposition
(emotional balance). It also suggests that the leader, in any but
the simplest kinds of situations, must also be an intelligent
person, its is not such as a detector vp and yours group did in the
pasts.

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Yaj Tshaj Koob

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Jan 1, 2010, 1:44:34 PM1/1/10

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Thorn...@yahoo.com

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Jan 1, 2010, 3:36:43 PM1/1/10

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> the reins. The good leader delegates authority wisely and maintains
> strong group cohesiveness and pride. The effect of all this is that
> the group makes progress in reaching its goals, ua cas tsis ua li
> txoj kev yuav ua kom muaj qib duas xij xuas ncauj hais tsis muaj ntaub
> ntawv li.

Yawm Yaj Tshaj Koob awd, raws le kuv tug laug tsis paub ntaub ntawv
nuav pum xwb mas vp qhov leadership yeej zoo kawg lawm hab ov, nwg
yeej maitain tau pej xeem lug poog nwg hab txaus sab rua tej yaam nwg
dlaag (pride) kawg, yuav muab has tes vp yeej muaj zoo psychological
ua kas moos but nwg tsuas ua rua kuas nwg tug kheej tau noj tau haus
xwb, nwg siv tug theory ua laag luam xwb, qhov twg nwg saib yuav ntxim
tau noj tes txawm phem hab zoo los nwg yeej ua moog le, nwg ua dlaab
tsi mas nwg always muaj 2 lub goals xws le personal goal hab the fake
goal, he always make sure kuas nwg lub personal goal mas yuav tsum
fulfill huas lub fake goal tes yeej paub has tas nwg will never
fulfill le because lub goal hov qhov purpose yeej yog set lug dlaag
Moob xwb, huas has txug qhov nwg ua tsis muaj qib dluas pheej has
ntawm ncauj tsis muaj ntaub ntawv mas tub yog vp ntse kawg le nwg
txhaj le ua kuas NO ONE can trace tau nwg tug footprint rua qhov nwg
yeej paub meej meej has tas yog yuav ua kuas muaj ntaub ntawv tes kawg
tuag ib nub xwb, le hov nwg txhaj le dlim huv tsev loj cuj lug lawm,
tsis le hov tes nwg kawg tuag tseeb tseeb zag nwg raug moog hlob kaav
hlau taag lug nuav.

> It also suggests that the leader, in any but
> the simplest kinds of situations, must also be an intelligent
> person,

Nyeem koj le analysis mas sov, kuv tsis grasp koj qhov intention hlo
le not sure koj has dlaab tsi tej zaag nam tuab laug lawm tsis to taub
ntawv askiv zoo txhaj tsis paub tas koj has dlaab tsi, kuas has txug
tug tuab neeg muaj intelligence mas no doubt vp yeej muaj zoo
intelligence nwg ua yaam twg los txhaj le nce teg puv ntoob le hov,
lwm leej lwm tug le yeej ua tsis tau noj kuas nplua nuj le vp.

Yaj Tshaj Koob

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Jan 1, 2010, 4:06:39 PM1/1/10

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hi tus kwv thornp kuv has rua koj paub tias qhov tseeb tiag hmoob yeej
tsis paub tias xyov vp ntse npaum li cas yuav ua tau rau hmoob siv lub
neej pem suab tab sis hmoob tsuas hais txog thaum ub nyob looj ceeb
xwb, sij hawm nyob looj ceeb tsis yog vp tus peev xwm, yog america
tus peev xwm xwb, ces hmoob txawm ntaus nqi tias yog vp li tag
nrho, li ntawd es hmoob lub neej ua kaas moos thiaj li tsis hloov
li, feem coob mus ntseeg qhov niag tsis tau noj xwb qhov tseeb ces
yog li koj hais lawm vp tsom seb qhov twg yuav tau noj ces vp ua kiag
qhov ntawd xwb.

Yk

Cat

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Jan 1, 2010, 8:34:36 PM1/1/10

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theories are different from actualities and real practices.

ploojsiabtsistuag

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Jan 1, 2010, 9:32:31 PM1/1/10

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On Jan 1, 5:34 pm, Cat <hmong...@hotmail.com> wrote:
> theories are different from actualities and real practices.

Hey Mr yaj tshaj koob koj puas yog ib aib tub hmoob yaj
nyob st paul es tsis muaj family thiab muab lwm tus neeg
lub npe mus nqiv nyiaj los siv es tam sim no lawv muab
tsa uas manager hauv lub koos haum 411.
hahahahaha..

Thorn...@yahoo.com

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Jan 1, 2010, 9:54:05 PM1/1/10

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Yaj Tshaj Koob, koj yeej has yog lawm mas kuas qhov Moob pum yaav taag
lug ntawd tseem ua rua Moob ca sab has tas luav yeej tseem pw luav le
qub zeg vim le hov luag tug laug laam taab meeg dlaag los Moob txhaj
le cas le qee qhov muag nti cev rua vp noj lawm, txawm tas tej tug tub
txawg tub ntse puab yeej paub has tas he lied hab tej yaam nwg ua yeej
impossible le nua lo puab yeej ca le nkaag kawg huv vp ob ceg nrug nwg
qw txij tog txij peg le lawm hab txhaj le ua rua tsoom Moob laug le
peb cov nuav lub sab ywj faab ywj fwj rua vp, qhov hov ntaag lauj,
qhov kuv has tas vp yeej muaj zoo psychological play politic os, luag
lwm leej lwm tug le tseev luag yuav qw npaum le caag los Moob yeej
tsis quav ntsej vim yog puab tsis tau prove tau le vp, yog yuav muab
has le txuj kev ntseeg tes yeej yog vp tam ntawv lug ua tub saab nyaag
Moob pej xeem noj nwg txhaj le noj Moob paaj hlwb txij puag thaum nwg
pib ua tsov rog lug txug naj nub nig nuav, even thaum nwg tub raug
moog hlob kaav hlau lawm los kuv yeej tseem pum Moob nqa nyaj moog
tsaa nwg ua neej coob kawg le, but kuv xaav tas nwg lub kee nyag Moob
tes taag rua nub nwg lug paj kaj has tas nwg yuav moog chaws puj qha
tais ob ceg nuav lawm.

> hi tus kwv thornp kuv has rua koj paub tias qhov tseeb tiag hmoob yeej
> tsis paub tias xyov vp ntse npaum li cas yuav ua tau rau hmoob siv lub
> neej pem suab tab sis hmoob tsuas hais txog thaum ub nyob looj ceeb
> xwb, sij hawm nyob looj ceeb tsis yog vp tus peev xwm, yog america
> tus peev xwm xwb, ces hmoob txawm ntaus nqi tias yog vp li tag
> nrho, li ntawd es hmoob lub neej ua kaas moos thiaj li tsis hloov
> li, feem coob mus ntseeg qhov niag tsis tau noj xwb qhov tseeb ces
> yog li koj hais lawm vp tsom seb qhov twg yuav tau noj ces vp ua kiag
> qhov ntawd xwb.
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Hmoobvajusa

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ploojsiabtsistuag

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Kuv tsis yog hais txog hlob vaj pov tsis hlub hmoob ov
kuv hais txog rau peb cov me tub txawj thiab tub ntse
nyob teb chaws no nej hnub sib tog vim tias nws ntshais
tsam kuv ho tau uas huab tai kuv los ntshai tsam nws ho
tau uas huab tai. ntshe yuav yog lis ntsuab xwm hai lawm
lau cov tub txawj thiab tub ntse yuav sib tuas kom tuag tas
es tshuav cov ruam lawm xwb mam lis los uas kes tau
uas pab uas pawg.vim tias tsis muaj tus yuav khwv lub
tswv yim los sib txov lawm..

sok dee..

Yaj Tshaj Koob

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Jan 2, 2010, 11:24:05 PM1/2/10

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On Jan 2, 4:02 pm, Hmoobvajusa <ddkv...@comcast.net> wrote:
> Yawg YajZabtsajHmoob es,
> I saw you talked and talked but you never walked and walked . GVP had
> never been elected by us and claimed to be the leader of all Hmong
> people . However , the majority of Hmong ,inclunding you , called him
> our leader and expected him to solve all problems. Please show us some
> thing that you had done for Hmong before you critisize this old man .
> Here was the proof that GVP did for Hmong in the past and present :

tus kwv hmoobvajsuav sab es, kuv hais rau koj paub tias lub caij nyob
looj ceeb koj lub qhov muag puas tau pom kev huv, kuv nyeem tsis tau
koj cov ntawv English li koj cov nriav lus tob daus lawm, koj puas
paub txog Dr. vaj riam, vaj kiam thiab tooj va vaj lawv, koj yawg
koob vp tua lawv tus kwv tij ua pab vp yug vp twm neb, tus neeg uas
pab saib vp cov twm nyuam qhuav yuav tau poj niam los tau peb lub hlis
xwb naj, vp tuaj txog ntua xwb cov twm los tsev tas ndho tab sis
tshuav tus phaws twm tseem tsis tau los vp txawm tias ua cas tsis pom
tus phaws twm lawm tsis yog koj muab nyiag muag lawm puas yog, tus
neeg zov vp cov twm hais tias yawg hlob kuv tsis tau nyiag li, vp cia
li rho loo rab yaj phom tua tas nrho tsib phom rau tus zov twm phiaj
siab, tus neeg zov twm tsis tuag thiab tseem tsa hlotxhais tes thiab
txhos caug ntua thov hais tias yawg hlob kuv tsis tau tua tiag tiag li
os, ces vp thiaj hais rau vp tus kav dawm kuas tias koj cia li xuas
phom rau nws, ces vp tus kav dawm kuas thiaj tib zag phom tus tub
saib twm tuag kiag rau ntawd, ces tus tub zov twm tus poj niam thiaj
tawm ntawm qhov rooj ntsias ib muag rau nws tus txiv xwb ces rov rau
hauv tsev lawm, ces 30 nas this tom qab ntawd ces vp tus phaws twm
ho tshwm npliv tim ntug zos los, ces vp thiaj hais tias muab tus phaws
twm ntawd tua rau nws, tab sis tsev neeg tu siab heev kuj tsis need
muab vp tus twm ntawd tua rau nws tus tub thiab, tej no puas yog
Detector maj tus kwv, kuv tsuas muab qhov tseeb hais rau koj tau paub
me me li no xwb, koj yuav kag siab zoo, thawj coj yuav tau saib meej
meej tsim nyog tua mam li tua, koj tsis paub cov ntxa uas faus rau
ntawm qab tshav nyooj hoom looj ceeb feem coob yog cov vp tua, los
nyov koj twb tsis paub looj ceeb zoo li cas.

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