You know what, I have told you many times not to get angry, as you have high blood pressure.

[Meichi, your nurse]

You know what, I have told you many times not to get angry, as you have high
blood pressure.


Meichi

[rst0]

Why must you always make up lies, Satish?
You know nothing, and understand even less.

[Satish]

On May 6, 8:39 am, rst0 <rst0w...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> Why must you always make up lies, Satish?
> You know nothing, and understand even less.
>

On May 6, 2:10 am, "Meichi, your nurse" <iche..t..tis@coneii__kki.net>
wrote:

> You know what, I have told you many times not to get angry, as you have high
> blood pressure.
>
> Meichi

rst0/9, you were born in February of 1938 in the year of the Tiger.
That makes you 75. Learn to act your age.


If you have issues, take them up with Meichi instead of flailing like
an enraged two-year old on the newsgroup.

[rst9]

[Satish]

On May 6, 9:29 am, rst9 <rst9w...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> Why must you always make up lies, Satish?
> You know nothing, and understand even less.

On May 7, 10:01 am, rst9 <rst9w...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> Why must you always make up lies about other people, Satish?

> You know nothing, and understand even less.

rst0/9, you are already 75. You can't even pee without a catheter.

The best you can mange is to pray for a less painful experience the
next time Meichi Thai changes your catheter (and your diaper).


BTW, how are your Hmong neighbors on Twilight Avenue in Merced, CA?

rst0/9, are you still trying to find an appropriate outlet for your
pent up anger?


rst0/9, all this anger is not doing any good to your blood pressure.
You need to take your tea, tai chi and majhong more seriously.


****************
http://voices.yahoo.com/anger-management-chinese-way-269796.html?cat=72
;

Anger Management: The Chinese Way
Deal with Whatever or Whoever is Bugging You (and Keep Your Composure
at the Same Time)


I pride myself on being cool. I don't "James Dean" cool (nobody could
be THAT cool) I mean cool as in "calm and collected". I took me a
while to re-direct my energy or anger or whatever into something more
positive. Maybe that comes with age. But I learned a lot form our
cousins across the water: the Japanese and the Chinese have
interesting "walk softly but carry a big stick" philosophies that I
truly believe will keep you ulcer-free and yet won't allow you to feel
like you're being stepped on.

The Chinese apparently have two ways to go about controlling anger.
The first way is a bit unconventional: according to an article posted
on BBC Online (www.news.bbc.co.uk) a bar in Nanjing city, China,
offers patrons a more legal and innovative way to relieve stress after
a hard day of work. Customers at the "Rising Sun Anger Release Bar"
can, for a price, punch their servers, smash glasses, shout and
scream. At a cost of $6.35 to $37.50, depending on your needs, the
friendly staff of 20 will dress up as your boss, your spouse, even
your mother-in-law and allow you to wail away your anger. If violence
isn't your bag, Rising Sun also offers counseling from psychology
students, though one could argue that trying to take advice from an
undergrad might instigate another fight.

The other way -- the preferred way to control anger has a more
mystical feel to it and certainly doesn't get anyone hurt.

The smartest way to respond to an insult - according to Chinese
tradition (and the book "The Noble Art of the Insult" by Chinese
author Liang Shiqiu) is simply with indifference. Don't drop down to
the level of he person who insulted or made you angry. Respond in the
same way you would to a small child: slight annoyance.

According to Shiqiu the trick (and it is certainly not easy) is to
compose yourself with dignity at all times. There's a lot of truth to
the fact that there can be no one-sided arguments.

Clearharmony.com points out that everyone has his or her own level of
virtue. An outstanding person in ordinary society and a cultivator can
reach very high realm through self-cultivation. In real life, because
of predestined relationships through many generations of
reincarnation, people have difficulty avoiding being maliciously
humiliated, threatened, defamed, criticized or envied by others. How
one deals with humiliation depends on one's level of virtue:

"The superior man occupies his apartment and sends forth his words. If
they are good, they will be responded to at a distance of more than a
thousand li (one li is equal to a half of kilometer), and how much
more will they be so in the nearer circle! He occupies his apartment
and sends forth his words. If they are evil, they will awaken
oppositions at a distance of more than a thousand li, and how much
more will they do so in the nearer circle! Words issue from one's
person, and proceed to affect the people. Actions proceed from what is
near, and their effects are seen at a distance. Words and actions are
the hinge and spring of the superior man. The movement of that hinge
and spring determines glory or disgrace. His words and actions move
heaven and earth, may he be careless
in regard to them? Confucius said: "...The superior man should be keen
in actions and prudent in speaking..."

The sitewww.pureinsight.org is a little more straight forward when it
says "...if we calmly ponder this, we'll realize that it is unwise to
deal with such things with an "eye for an eye" attitude and curse
back. If one faces curses with a charming smile and answers them in a
calm voice, he will certainly have the bearing of the wise. When you
respond to cursing in an even-tempered and good-humored way, it is the
wisdom of a cultivator. Of course, an ordinary person who doesn't
cultivate will never have the wisdom of a great enlightened being."

I'm all for enlightenment, but I've come to realize that rude people
just don't realize they are rude or insulting. It's part of their DNA.
It's like going to a movie and seeing the short commercial prior to
the film that says "turn off your cell phone and don't talk" and yet
the person behind you keeps receiving calls for the next 90 minutes
(or until I turn around and shove a box of popcorn down their throat).

That Confucius was an o-k guy. But I still think I'll hold on to the
address of the "Rising Sun Anger Release Bar" just in case.

*******

Don't forget your ginseng tablets.


Also, take some courses in anger management for your own good.

[rst9]

He (Satish) is a pain in the ass. His hygiene is rated at zero. He is
smelly and dirty with filthy odors.

Satish is a crook, a liar, a pawn and puppy dog
and a cocaine-filled crazy raving lunatic madman.

Satish is a crazy filthy dirty ugly dark-skinned stinky Indian with
twisted warp-minded lunatic lying son-of-a-bitch at it again,

making up lies about others. He has absolutely no idea what the
hell he is talking about. He has no knowledge or understand the
meaning of “sin”.
Go rape and kill more Indian women. That is about all you dumb
asshole can do.

Satish, the filthiest dirtiest god-damnest liar and the most twisted
warp-minded lunatic son-of-a-bitch in the world.
Satish has slanted eyes, slanted brain, and
slanted twisted lunatic warped mind.

Satish has crooked buck teeth and crooked backs, and bowlegged pig-
headed skunk.
Satish can't even walk straight, let alone see straight.
Ignorant liar & fool like you, Satish, persists being ignorant fool
& liar.

[Liu Pao Luong]

Who cares about you, if only you stop flooding your posts here, it would
stop.

To all posters here,
Everything here is about reciprocal of courtesy to posters here.

Remember, when writing and sending your posts here,
Courtesy begets courtesy,
Respects begets respects,

Acceptance of other views begets their acceptance of your views too.
Multiple of nick names begets back in multiplied nick names too.

Flooding of name-callings begets the same name-callings back on you.
It is up to you.



"rst9" wrote in message
news:607e78f6-b5b5-46db...@hc4g2000pbb.googlegroups.com...

[wakalukong]

Rst9 - Are these not your pages of persistent insults and attacks made by
you on almost every subject of messages on most of the soc.culltures of
Singapore, Taiwan, Malaysia, India, China, Phillipino, hk-politics, etc
except USA. Why you involve in there when you said you are interested in US
only as you live there, and not Siingapore, etc. Why?

"rst9" wrote in message
news:2690a39b-feac-4fd9...@pl9g2000pbb.googlegroups.com...

He (Satish) is a pain in the ass. His hygiene is rated at zero. He is
smelly and dirty with filthy odors.

Satish is a crook, a liar, a pawn and puppy dog
and a cocaine-filled crazy raving lunatic madman.

Satish is a crazy filthy dirty ugly dark-skinned stinky Indian with
twisted warp-minded lunatic lying son-of-a-bitch at it again,

making up lies about others. He has absolutely no idea what the
hell he is talking about. He has no knowledge or understand the

meaning of �sin�.

[rst0]

On May 21, 10:13 pm, "wakalukong" <wakaluko...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Rst9 - Are these not your pages of persistent insults and attacks made by
> you on almost every subject of messages on most of the soc.culltures of
> Singapore, Taiwan, Malaysia, India, China, Phillipino, hk-politics, etc
> except USA. Why you involve in there when you said you are interested in US
> only as you live there, and not Siingapore, etc. Why?

I only post at soc.culture.china and nowhere else. Other people cross-
post to other newsgroups.
I don't bother to check which newsgroup when I reply to a post.
Cyberthief kept changing to news.culture.indonesia and I kept telling
him to stop it.

I don't respond to "every post", only those I have something to say.

>
> "rst9"  wrote in message
>
> news:2690a39b-feac-4fd9...@pl9g2000pbb.googlegroups.com...
>
> He (Satish) is a pain in the ass. His hygiene is rated at zero. He is
> smelly and dirty with filthy odors.
>
> Satish is a crook, a liar, a pawn and puppy dog
> and a cocaine-filled crazy raving lunatic madman.
>
> Satish is a crazy filthy dirty ugly dark-skinned stinky Indian with
> twisted warp-minded lunatic lying son-of-a-bitch at it again,
>
> making up lies about others. He has absolutely no idea what the
> hell he is talking about.  He has no knowledge or understand the

> meaning of sin .