Why white men tend to like Filipino women?
male_au...@hotmail.com
Chuy wrote:
>
> Is there a statistics about percentage of this interracial
> marriage that fails and/or succeeds happily?
>
> I know a Filipino girl who has failed twice in her
> marriages with white men, and yet still tries to date
> white men. She told me that both of the marriages failed
> because there was no respect from the ex's and expected
> her to do house chores exclusively...
Many Asian American women harbor a pathological craving for abuse by white
men. A few years ago in my town there was a notorious Asian slut who
moved from one abusive white boyfriend to another until she finally found
one that clubbed her to death with a baseball bat.
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On Wed, 06 Aug 1997 21:22:07 -0600, male_au...@hotmail.com wrote:
>Many Asian American women harbor a pathological craving for abuse by white
>men. A few years ago in my town there was a notorious Asian slut who
>moved from one abusive white boyfriend to another until she finally found
>one that clubbed her to death with a baseball bat.
And he taught you everything you know.
Imbuka
fac...@hotmail.com
>male_au...@hotmail.com wrote:
>>
>> Many Asian American women harbor a pathological craving for abuse by white
>> men. A few years ago in my town there was a notorious Asian slut who
>> moved from one abusive white boyfriend to another until she finally found
>> one that clubbed her to death with a baseball bat.
>
Women often do that. It has nothing to do with race of those
involved. Maybe a woman in this NG can tell us why.
MACOX01
> >>
> >> Is there a statistics about percentage of this interracial
> >> marriage that fails and/or succeeds happily?
> >>
questions, so I'll take a swing at. Please note that all that follows
is personal experience, opinion, or preferences. I don't have any
statistics to
quote. Yes, I am a
"white" guy, married to a filipina. Yes, I have always thought asian
women were sexier and more feminine than american girls. Mere personnel
preferences, I know some men who prefer tall women, or blondes, etc.
etc. From the time I was 18 until 27, I roamed the world in the
Navy/merchant marine and I have been to every continent except
anartica. Some places I stayed for a few weeks or months, others for a
few
days. I
met my wife in Rome, Italy, while I was in the service and she was
working as a child care/housemaid. I guess the first thing that really
intrested me in her was her character. She and another sister had left
the PI to work abroad to help their family out following a large fire in
their district. I had a hard time envisioning some of the "princesses"
I knew in high school as doing something similiar. (I may be doing
American womanhood an injustice, once again, personel opinion.) Many
months later we were married. Still are after 17 years. In
the course of my Naval career I have probably met 30 marriages between
american servicemen and asian women. Usually this occurred when the men
were stationed in the PI. I include in that number a Korean , Thia, and
a Vietnamese (ladies). Since leaving the service I have also met one
"Mail order bride" couple. I am no longer in contact with all these
couples, but I know 3 of them that ended somewhat sadly. In two of them
it appears that the man decided to switch wives, and in the other the
wife (a filipina) was fooling around and got caught. In those
3o marriages 29 were "white" guys, and one was "black". I only
know of two "white" girls marrying Asian guys. My sister has been
married to a Laotian man for 18 Years. Another sister introduced me to
a friend who was marrying as asian guy (Thia I think), but that marriage
ended in a divorce. Don't know why.
3 of my wife's sisters married Filipinos, one of them ended badly.
The other sister married an American sailor, got divorced in the states
( i suspect this could be added to make 3 for man dumping wife for new
model, but I'm not sure), married a filipino guy (who already had a wife
in the PI) so that relationship ended badly
also. that's about it. Chaio mike
Spike White
Timothy N Riordan (trio...@acsu.buffalo.edu) wrote:
: > >Hollywood movies, like Susie Hwang's World, are in that mold; and until
: > >recently the images of Asian women haven't ventured far from that ancient
: > >mold. Chinese actress Joan Chen played mostly those classical Asian
: > >female roles in American films in the 80's and only until in recent years
: > >she got more substantial roles like the one in Oliver Stone's Heaven And
: > >Earth(I think she did an excellent job there).
: Thats acting, no actor gets a heavan and earth role without the
: gtunt roles, did you see swartsinagers (sp?) first film?? I think
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Schwartzenegger. Believe it's German or Austrian for 'blacksmith'.
: it was a Brooklyn hercluese or something like that...
Pumping Iron: Education of a Bodybuilder. Arnold played himself.
Pretty lame acting. Decent movie, if you like bodybuilding.
: > Actually, she played a fair amount of non-stereotypical roles, but
: > it's also true that she gets offered a fair amount of crap. Same thing
: > with most actors in general, really, but it's more invidious with Asian
: > actors in that their roles are so constrained by stereotypical thinking.
: Yes when will they stop offering Arnold action movies, thats so
: steriotypical, they should have a movie in which despite his size
: he is a wimp...
Kindergarden Cop? Jingle Bells? I think he was a wimp in both those movies.
: i.e. he gets a comody here and there but he get
: crap roles, like Chen..
He's well-plugged into the Hollywood scene, I've read. Attends all the right
parties. And has a string of decent-grossing movies. So of course he
wouldn't get crap roles.
--
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Chisholm Technologies | sp...@chistech.com | risks -- unless it's
Austin, TX | '87 BMW K75S (motorcycle)| really, realy fun.
Disclaimer: The guys down the hall disagree with everything I say. Guess
who speaks for the company!
Timothy N Riordan
On 12 Aug 1997, R. Tang wrote:
> Vivian Chang <vch...@wam.umd.edu> wrote:
> > I think the reason a lot of Asians are bothered by Caucasian
> >male's preference for Asian woman has something to do with the stereotypes
> >of Asian women illustrated in Western culture.
> Agreed. I really cringe when I see someone write, "I just find
> Asian women sexier than white women." Ummm....hello??!?! How about things
> like personality, character and charm? Isn't most sexiness a matter of the
> brain, not the body???
To an extent, but just as I would not date the most beautifual
woman in the world if she was a bi**h, I would not date the nicest
if she were ass ugly. There is a happy medium somewhere.
About personal physical preferances, you are a lier if you say
you have non. If a man finds asian features attractive he does,
how is this different than finding a blond with big breast to be
the ideal??
> Those kind of statements make me suspicious that the speaker is
> buying more into the stereotypes than into the person.
Or they think the features are more attractive, dont tell me
you dont have a set of features you like..
> > They are usually portrayed
> >as sex toys to the "White men"--their sexiness coming from their exotic
> >looks and their femininity coming from obdientness, submissiveness, and
> >willingness to sacrifice herself for others(i.e. the man she loves).
This I agree with, this image is FAR from correct, most asian
woman I know may be slightly more reserved in public (SLIGHTLY),
but in private (a small group of friends or something) they are
every bit as assertive and aggressive as White and Black women..
> >Hollywood movies, like Susie Hwang's World, are in that mold; and until
> >recently the images of Asian women haven't ventured far from that ancient
> >mold. Chinese actress Joan Chen played mostly those classical Asian
> >female roles in American films in the 80's and only until in recent years
> >she got more substantial roles like the one in Oliver Stone's Heaven And
> >Earth(I think she did an excellent job there).
Thats acting, no actor gets a heavan and earth role without the
gtunt roles, did you see swartsinagers (sp?) first film?? I think
it was a Brooklyn hercluese or something like that...
> Actually, she played a fair amount of non-stereotypical roles, but
> it's also true that she gets offered a fair amount of crap. Same thing
> with most actors in general, really, but it's more invidious with Asian
> actors in that their roles are so constrained by stereotypical thinking.
Yes when will they stop offering Arnold action movies, thats so
steriotypical, they should have a movie in which despite his size
he is a wimp... i.e. he gets a comody here and there but he get
crap roles, like Chen..
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R. Tang
In article <Pine.GSO.3.96.970812...@joxer.acsu.buffalo.edu>,
Timothy N Riordan <trio...@acsu.buffalo.edu> wrote:
>On 12 Aug 1997, R. Tang wrote:
>
>> Vivian Chang <vch...@wam.umd.edu> wrote:
>> > I think the reason a lot of Asians are bothered by Caucasian
>> >male's preference for Asian woman has something to do with the stereotypes
>> >of Asian women illustrated in Western culture.
>> Agreed. I really cringe when I see someone write, "I just find
>> Asian women sexier than white women." Ummm....hello??!?! How about things
>> like personality, character and charm? Isn't most sexiness a matter of the
>> brain, not the body???
>
>To an extent, but just as I would not date the most beautifual
>woman in the world if she was a bi**h, I would not date the nicest
>if she were ass ugly. There is a happy medium somewhere.
"Looks may get a man into bed once, but personality keeps them
there." Personal appearance is surface; it's what you do with them that
counts. Focussing on just the physical features, like the Asian feature
set, is a bit....narrow....
There's a reason why the called the brain the most erotic organ in
the body.
--
Roger Tang, gwan...@u.washington.edu, Artistic Director PC Theatre
Editor, Asian American Theatre Revue [NEW URL]
http://www.abcflash.com/arts/r_tang/AATR.html
Declared 4-F in the War Between the Sexes
Timothy N Riordan
On 12 Aug 1997, R. Tang wrote:
> In article <Pine.GSO.3.96.970812...@joxer.acsu.buffalo.edu>,
> Timothy N Riordan <trio...@acsu.buffalo.edu> wrote:
> >On 12 Aug 1997, R. Tang wrote:
> >
> >> Vivian Chang <vch...@wam.umd.edu> wrote:
> >> > I think the reason a lot of Asians are bothered by Caucasian
> >> >male's preference for Asian woman has something to do with the stereotypes
> >> >of Asian women illustrated in Western culture.
> >> Agreed. I really cringe when I see someone write, "I just find
> >> Asian women sexier than white women." Ummm....hello??!?! How about things
> >> like personality, character and charm? Isn't most sexiness a matter of the
> >> brain, not the body???
> >
> >To an extent, but just as I would not date the most beautifual
> >woman in the world if she was a bi**h, I would not date the nicest
> >if she were ass ugly. There is a happy medium somewhere.
>
> "Looks may get a man into bed once, but personality keeps them
> there." Personal appearance is surface; it's what you do with them that
> counts. Focussing on just the physical features, like the Asian feature
> set, is a bit....narrow....
I agree, thats what I was saying.. but to denie you have personal
physical preferances is a lie. It is always best to settle with
someone you could be a freind with as the lust will eventually fade..
MACOX01
R. Tang wrote:
>
> In article <Pine.SOL.3.95q.97081...@rac6.wam.umd.edu>,
> Vivian Chang <vch...@wam.umd.edu> wrote:
> > I think the reason a lot of Asians are bothered by Caucasian
> >male's preference for Asian woman has something to do with the stereotypes
> >of Asian women illustrated in Western culture.
>
> Agreed. I really cringe when I see someone write, "I just find
> Asian women sexier than white women." Ummm....hello??!?! How about things
> like personality, character and charm? Isn't most sexiness a matter of the
> brain, not the body???
Middle east, Australia, the Far East(Asia), and North and South
America. I still maintain that Asian women are sexier and more feminine
than the females of the other geograhical locations (through Italian
women come very, very close).
+ My wife was not, by any
stretch of the imagination, the most beautiful woman I had ever met .
As I said in the previous post the first thing that really intrested me
Bun Mui
>
> Re: Why white men tend to like Filipino women?
>
> From: Vivian Chang <vch...@wam.umd.edu>
> Reply to: [1]Vivian Chang
> Date: Tue, 12 Aug 1997 11:37:40 -0400
> Organization: University of Maryland, College Park, MD
> Newsgroups:
> [2]soc.couples.intercultural,
> [3]soc.culture.asian.american,
> [4]soc.culture.filipino
> Followup to: [5]newsgroup(s)
> References:
> [6]<8709204...@dejanews.com>
> [7]<33ed330...@snews.zippo.com>
> [8]<33EFE0...@prodigy.net>
>
>On Mon, 11 Aug 1997, MACOX01 wrote:
>> Yes, I am a
>> "white" guy, married to a filipina. Yes, I have always thought asian
>> women were sexier and more feminine than american girls. Mere personnel
>> preferences, I know some men who prefer tall women, or blondes, etc.
>
>male's preference for Asian woman has something to do with the stereotypes
>as sex toys to the "White men"--their sexiness coming from their exotic
>looks and their femininity coming from obdientness, submissiveness, and
>Hollywood movies, like Susie Hwang's World, are in that mold; and until
>recently the images of Asian women haven't ventured far from that ancient
>mold. Chinese actress Joan Chen played mostly those classical Asian
>female roles in American films in the 80's and only until in recent years
>she got more substantial roles like the one in Oliver Stone's Heaven And
>Ming Na Wen(Mortal Combat, Single Guys) who play roles that Asian women,
>in US particularly, actually can identify something with. But that hasn't
>always been the case. Puccini's Mademe Butterfly(one of my favorite
>opera) and Webber's Miss Saigon are seen as romantic stories in
>Westerners' eyes, but it may not be so in views of a lot of Asians.
No Filipina women are usually very caring to their white husband and
are very obedient. We learn to be satisfied with less.
That is why white men like filipinas.
They usually treat us better then Hong Kong Chinese men who hire
filipinas as domestic workers. When they go to restaurants in H.K.,
they ask us to take care of their children there and they don't even
invite us to eat with them. At the appartments and house they
reserve the old toilet room for us to live in. How thoughful they are.
Bun Mui
Vivian Chang
R. Tang
>male's preference for Asian woman has something to do with the stereotypes
>of Asian women illustrated in Western culture.
Agreed. I really cringe when I see someone write, "I just find
Asian women sexier than white women." Ummm....hello??!?! How about things
like personality, character and charm? Isn't most sexiness a matter of the
brain, not the body???
Those kind of statements make me suspicious that the speaker is
buying more into the stereotypes than into the person.
> They are usually portrayed
>as sex toys to the "White men"--their sexiness coming from their exotic
>looks and their femininity coming from obdientness, submissiveness, and
>willingness to sacrifice herself for others(i.e. the man she loves). Old
>Hollywood movies, like Susie Hwang's World, are in that mold; and until
>recently the images of Asian women haven't ventured far from that ancient
>mold. Chinese actress Joan Chen played mostly those classical Asian
>female roles in American films in the 80's and only until in recent years
>she got more substantial roles like the one in Oliver Stone's Heaven And
>Earth(I think she did an excellent job there).
Actually, she played a fair amount of non-stereotypical roles, but
it's also true that she gets offered a fair amount of crap. Same thing
with most actors in general, really, but it's more invidious with Asian
actors in that their roles are so constrained by stereotypical thinking.
> We now see actresses like
>Ming Na Wen(Mortal Combat, Single Guys) who play roles that Asian women,
>in US particularly, actually can identify something with. But that hasn't
>always been the case.
I see this happening more with women than men (hell, I can tell of
stories of demeaning treatement of Asian male actors; a friend of mine has
a deep, resonant voice with no trace of accent, he certainly doesn't
sound like a stereotypical Asian--but he's had his voice dubbed in several
times by other Asian actors WHO HAD ACCENTS).
Matthew S. Dolbow
On 12 Aug 1997, R. Tang wrote:
> In article <Pine.SOL.3.95q.97081...@rac6.wam.umd.edu>,
> Vivian Chang <vch...@wam.umd.edu> wrote:
> > I think the reason a lot of Asians are bothered by Caucasian
> >male's preference for Asian woman has something to do with the stereotypes
> >of Asian women illustrated in Western culture.
>
> Agreed. I really cringe when I see someone write, "I just find
> Asian women sexier than white women." Ummm....hello??!?! How about things
> like personality, character and charm? Isn't most sexiness a matter of the
> brain, not the body???
>
> Those kind of statements make me suspicious that the speaker is
> buying more into the stereotypes than into the person.
Hey, I find a lot of Asian women pretty sexy because of their character,
personality, etc -- work hard, love family, value education, giving,
earnestness. Of course, there are sexy white women with these qualities
too.
Matthew
http://student-www.uchicago.edu/users/msdolbow
MACOX01
Timothy N Riordan wrote:
>
> On 12 Aug 1997, R. Tang wrote:
>
> About personal physical preferances, you are a lier if you say
> you have non. If a man finds asian features attractive he does,
> how is this different than finding a blond with big breast to be
> the ideal??
>
> > Those kind of statements make me suspicious that the speaker is
> > buying more into the stereotypes than into the person.
>
> Or they think the features are more attractive, dont tell me
> you dont have a set of features you like..
>
> > > They are usually portrayed
> > >as sex toys to the "White men"--their sexiness coming from their exotic
> > >looks and their femininity coming from obdientness, submissiveness, and
> > >willingness to sacrifice herself for others(i.e. the man she loves).
>
> This I agree with, this image is FAR from correct, most asian
> woman I know may be slightly more reserved in public (SLIGHTLY),
> but in private (a small group of friends or something) they are
> every bit as assertive and aggressive as White and Black women..
>
Thank you Tim for joining in. I would agree with your assessment of the
"submissiveness" of Asian women (in general). During the aftermath of
the Vietnam war my mother had a chance to work with many refugee
families in finding them homes, jobs, etc. Whenever I returned from
leave I was always dragged along by my mother to be shown off to these
families (not that I minded, I managed to meet some really pretty
Vietnamese, Cambodian, and Thia girls). The thing is, I didn't find
these young ladies particular "docile or submissive". Their parents
were, of course, real "old world" but what I observed was that these
couples were real partners, and that they worked together in a framework
where the duties and responsibilities of husband and wife were clearly
defined, and understood. I suspect a lot of Westerners (Oky, my
stereotypes are showing) would look at these couples and read that the
wife was docile and submissive to her husband. I never though so,
myself. Certainly when I was "chasing" my future wife
in Rome I was given to understand early in our relationship that she
wasn't particularly submissive or docile. After we were married I had a
chance to meet with various american servicemen married to filipine
women and talk with them on a personel level, and I would venture to say
that I was not the only Ameican to marry a Filipina that wasn't
particularly "docile or
submissive".
And just on a partcular point of no intrest to anyone but me, I do find
Asian women features more attractive then others. In my own opinion 7
of the 10 most beautiful women I ever met were Asians. Chaio.
Mike
Stephen Roach
On Wed, 06 Aug 1997 06:25:13 GMT, nos...@nospam.com (Chuy) wrote:
> I'm just curious about this phenomena. Why white men tend
> to like Filipino women? What do they see in them? And
> how about the reverse: Why Filipino women like white men?
> Does somebody have the answer?
It's mutual. White men like Pilipinas because they are drop dead cute,
look after their men and keep the house well. Pilipinas like white men
because they think we are handsome (looks in mirror in disbelief!),
look after their women and like the house kept well.
Now I know all this is flame bait, sooo, I am quite happy to discuss
this with any of you Pilipinos over a quiet drinky in, say, Makati one
evening and my girlfriend can explain it all to you in Tagalog
(including the bit about various ex-Pilipino boyfriends).
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Stephen Roach
On 6 Aug 1997 09:45:06 GMT, "OAU" <vs...@happypost.com> wrote:
> Because they fuck like rabbits.
Other positions too!
RC
In article <Pine.GSO.3.95.970813...@quads.uchicago.edu>,
>> Asian women sexier than white women." Ummm....hello??!?! How about things
>> like personality, character and charm? Isn't most sexiness a matter of the
>> brain, not the body???
>>
>> buying more into the stereotypes than into the person.
>
>personality, etc -- work hard, love family, value education, giving,
>earnestness. Of course, there are sexy white women with these qualities
>too.
Asian women have tight snatches, too.
MACOX01
johnn...@hotmail.antispam.com
RC <Rwar...@ix.netcom.com> wrote in article
<5st201$7...@sjx-ixn10.ix.netcom.com>...
>
> Asian women have tight snatches, too.
>
Not Malou Huang, she isn't! ROFL!
jt
johnn...@hotmail.antispam.com
MACOX01 <MAC...@prodigy.net> wrote in article
<33F27D...@prodigy.net>...
>
> What's the Rabbit position?
>
You get pulled by the ears!
JT
MACOX01
Tikki tikki tembo-no sa rembo-chari bari ruchi-pip peri pembo wrote:
> Now, what I want to know is: are Filipinos a preferred ethnicity among
> the gay community? It seems like most of the discussion on this
> newsgroup focuses on heterosexuality.
>
> -joanna
>
> --
> ]:o_ o/
> |O = joanna l. salgado __ computer greek (delta gamma) ___|--
> |_o= shower philosopher call...@leland.stanford.edu \
> @ `
Well, it was supposed to be a thread about men-women relationships
(i.e.-heterosexual relationships) If you want to start a thread about
gay relationships, go right ahead. I can tell you a story about a gay
filipino I met in Rome, Italy, but since it wasn't of a sexual nature I
don't know if it would fit in your thread. Good luck, chaio Mike
Tikki tikki tembo-no sa rembo-chari bari ruchi-pip peri pembo
nos...@nospam.com (Chuy) warbled:
>I'm just curious about this phenomena. Why white men tend
>to like Filipino women? What do they see in them? And
>how about the reverse: Why Filipino women like white men?
>Does somebody have the answer?
It's logical.
Let's start with our premises:
Heterosexual men are a subset of men.
Heterosexual men like women
White men are a subset of men.
Heterosexual women are a subset of women.
Heterosexual women like men.
Filipino women are a subset of women.
So a white, heterosexual man likes women. Since Filipino women are
also women, it is possible that white, heterosexual men like Filipino
women.
Likewise, a Filipino, heterosexual woman likes men. Since white men
are also men, it is possible that Filipino, heterosexual women like
white men.
Now, if you want to know why certain groups of people prefer specific
groups of people as significant others, it is because you are
stereotyping and so are they. Not all white men prefer Filipino
women; not all Filipino women prefer white men. Filipino women are
preferred by individuals of all races, and white men are preferred by
individuals of all races as well.
johnn...@hotmail.antispam.com
Tikki tikki tembo-no sa rembo-chari bari ruchi-pip peri pembo
<call...@leland.Stanford.EDU> wrote in article
<5svms4$5...@epic11.Stanford.EDU>...
>
> Now, what I want to know is: are Filipinos a preferred ethnicity among
> the gay community? It seems like most of the discussion on this
> newsgroup focuses on heterosexuality.
>
I don't know but maybe Ferdie LemonHead does. Hey Ferdie, "Sagana ka ba sa
kurot sa mga badaf diyan sa lugar ninyo?" ROFL!
Johnny
Stephen Roach
On Wed, 13 Aug 1997 20:36:09 -0700, MACOX01 <MAC...@prodigy.net>
wrote:
> Stephen Roach wrote:
> >
> > On 6 Aug 1997 09:45:06 GMT, "OAU" <vs...@happypost.com> wrote:
> >
> > > Because they fuck like rabbits.
> >
> > Other positions too!
>
> What's the Rabbit position?
Just checked the documentation.
There are several sub-classes to the rabbit position:
- Prone in or around the vicinity of a carrot field (best option
for a rabbit).
- Completely fucked up with bits of fur everywhere because you've
just met a:
- truck.
- farmer.
- Running around in circles 'cos:
- the mixamatosis makes you blind.
- the scientist makes you blind.
- Standing half in a hole 'cos Elmer just said 'Hewwo swewy wabbit'.
- Um, that's it really. Don't have much imagiation, rabbits.
Frank Roderus
NOBODY wrote:
>
> On 12 Aug 1997 18:02:19 GMT, Bun Mui <xBun...@usa.net> wrote:
>
> >No Filipina women are usually very caring to their white husband and
> >are very obedient. We learn to be satisfied with less.
> >That is why white men like filipinas.
> >They usually treat us better then Hong Kong Chinese men who hire
> >filipinas as domestic workers. When they go to restaurants in H.K.,
> >they ask us to take care of their children there and they don't even
> >invite us to eat with them. At the appartments and house they
> >reserve the old toilet room for us to live in. How thoughful they are.
> >
> >Bun Mui
> >
> >
> and who starts the question. If asian males are mad at white males
> for appreciating asian females, who do they think has trained the
> asian females to be the way they are that makes them attractive to
> whites. I am sick and tired of the racist inuendos of these types of
> threads and would like this rational thought out so we will know why
> these posters are really questioning the motives involved. I have my
> own ideas but am open to more ideas because consensus on one is
> useless at best.
> **** Nobody knows everything or has the sole ***********
> **** possession of the Truth, so don't ****---****
> **** believe all that you hear or read. **---..--***
> **** Signed: Nobody ***-^--****
Children, children...calm down. You are complicating something that is
essentially simple.
Personally I like a Filipina because I happened to fall in love with one.
Nuff said.
fr in fl
RC
Black dudes like filipino women too.
And nowadays all filipino kids want to be black.
Alex Kashko
Stephen Roach <ro...@NOSPAMportalinc.com> wrote:
> On Wed, 06 Aug 1997 06:25:13 GMT, nos...@nospam.com (Chuy) wrote:
>
> > I'm just curious about this phenomena. Why white men tend
> > to like Filipino women? What do they see in them? And
> > how about the reverse: Why Filipino women like white men?
> > Does somebody have the answer?
>
> It's mutual. White men like Pilipinas because they are drop dead cute,
> look after their men and keep the house well. Pilipinas like white men
> because they think we are handsome (looks in mirror in disbelief!),
> look after their women and like the house kept well.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Tell my wife that last bit about me and she'd die laughing.
>
> Now I know all this is flame bait, sooo, I am quite happy to discuss
> this with any of you Pilipinos over a quiet drinky in, say, Makati one
> evening and my girlfriend can explain it all to you in Tagalog
> (including the bit about various ex-Pilipino boyfriends).
>
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MACOX01 <MAC...@prodigy.net> wrote:
> myself. Certainly when I was "chasing" my future wife
> in Rome I was given to understand early in our relationship that she
> wasn't particularly submissive or docile. After we were married I had a
> chance to meet with various american servicemen married to filipine
> women and talk with them on a personel level, and I would venture to say
> that I was not the only Ameican to marry a Filipina that wasn't
> particularly "docile or
> submissive".
Anyone who courts an asian women on the basis they are
"submissive" deserves all they get - and it will be a lot.
> And just on a partcular point of no intrest to anyone but me, I do find
> Asian women features more attractive then others. In my own opinion 7
> of the 10 most beautiful women I ever met were Asians. Chaio.
> Mike
Sure, Some men like Blondes, some like redheads, some like the
looks of (some) Asian women. What's the fuss? When you get past looks,
its personality that counts.
Alex Kashko
Bun Mui <xBun...@usa.net> wrote:
>
> No Filipina women are usually very caring to their white husband and
> are very obedient. We learn to be satisfied with less.
^^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Not in my experience, nor that of quite a few other Husbands of
Filipinas.
> That is why white men like filipinas.
> They usually treat us better then Hong Kong Chinese men who hire
Doesn't say much.
> filipinas as domestic workers. When they go to restaurants in H.K.,
> they ask us to take care of their children there and they don't even
> invite us to eat with them. At the appartments and house they
> reserve the old toilet room for us to live in. How thoughful they are.
>
> Bun Mui
Don R
In article <1997081621...@galdr.demon.co.uk>, al...@galdr.demon.co.uk (Alex Kashko) wrote:
>Stephen Roach <ro...@NOSPAMportalinc.com> wrote:
>
>> On Wed, 06 Aug 1997 06:25:13 GMT, nos...@nospam.com (Chuy) wrote:
>>
>> > I'm just curious about this phenomena. Why white men tend
>> > to like Filipino women? What do they see in them? And
>> > how about the reverse: Why Filipino women like white men?
>> > Does somebody have the answer?
>
Why do women like white men? Hmmm!
Why do brown men like women? Hmmm!
Why do women like brown men? Hmmm!
Why do men like women? Hmmmmmm!
Why do women like men? Hmmmmmm!
You know it's funny, but I don't hear anyone asking why a white man would want
a Filipino man or vice-versa. Maybe this is just a bias of those asking the
question? Hmmm!
Joe Martin
Natural beauty is the first attraction -- seldom do I see a Filipina
lady with all the make up and packaging -- what you see is what you get
pure and simple.
The rest is in their mindset. A unique "sass" not unlike latina women,
and more mannered and refined than most other ladies that I've
encountered (including whites, blacks, japanese, chinese, korean, sud
american, centro american, indian, y medio este). I suppose
communications is easier too, since most if not all Filipinas speak
English to some degree. Took me 2+ years in Japan before I had enough
language skill to get out and meet ladies with confidence.
/
Jose Martin
Al Teh
Hmmm. I wonder where you got your figures? Could it be from an old
tabloid used as a wrapper in one of the fishmarket near your area?
Just wondering.....
huan yuan wrote:
>
> Its simple facts. Thailand is ravaged by hiv and aids and other
> STD's. Japanese women rarely marry outside the race. Ect, ect.
>
> Flip women are the biggest commodity in mail-order bride markets.
>
Filmbuff95
dav...@iinet.net.au (me) wrote...
>Could the answer be as simple as ........... Filipino women have more to
offer a white man
than a white womans does !!!
They generally have better morals , better attitude , and are less
threatening to us white
men . An added bonus is that there is much less chance of her cheating on
you or walking
out if/when things get tough .
Philipino girls today are like white women used to be 30 years ago !!!
>Good enough reason for me :)
Beautifully put! Salamat!
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>I think in general it is a male thing as if males of one race owns the
>females of that same race. It is what white males hate about black
>males dating white women and vice versa in every race. I am a male
>and I wish other males would get off their arse and figure out that we
>do not own our women and in fact most of us are owned instead. The
>secondary question begging to be asked is why males of one race fear
>other race males. In white males I am sure it is a fear of
>inferiority towards the preception of black males having larger sexual
>organs as if in real lovemaking that makes the critical difference.
>What really makes a difference is how committed you are because there
>is an unending multitude of ways to please anyone as long as we are
>willing to work at it and drop our protective inferiority barriers or
>reservatioons and love as the other wants to be loved Could be an
>interesting thread if we do not digress to racial conotations and
>accusations and let a few man feeling out of the closet..
>**** Nobody knows everything or has the sole ***********
>**** possession of the Truth, so don't ****---****
>**** believe all that you hear or read. **---..--***
>**** Signed: Nobody ***-^--****
Maybe it is simply because the Filipino girls still have the "old fashion" qualities that
many men still believe are important .
Is this a " mother image thing " ???? I wonder
Any way , It is my opinion that the majority of Filipino girls are simply more attractive
than "western" women , and you are less likely to lose your house as well !!!!
" History is an angel being blown backwards into the future "
Laurie Anderson , Strange Angels
Perseus
And to whoever started this: he or she must be ill-informed or just
working on some absurd idea. So far, I have not seen this to be true.
Admittedly, some white men have chosen Filipinas for mates, but to say
White Men in general tending towards Filipino women ? Nah !!!
Esklip wrote:
>
> Reply to whomever started this: excuse me, but what's the point?
Esklip
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On 23 Aug 1997 02:48:14 GMT, bill...@juno.com (huan yuan) wrote:
>Its simple facts. Thailand is ravaged by hiv and aids and other
>STD's. Japanese women rarely marry outside the race. Ect, ect.
>
>Flip women are the biggest commodity in mail-order bride markets.
>
The difference between filipino/thai and japanese is due to economic
reasons. The first are poorer than japanese so prostitution and mail
order brides are more common than in richer japan.
