Google Groups no longer supports new Usenet posts or subscriptions. Historical content remains viewable.
Dismiss

Y filipino guys cheat on their girlfriend

70 views
Skip to first unread message

Anna Rubi Pascual

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to
hi, im just curious about something. i just wanna know why some filipino
guys cheat on their girlfriend

Anna

Kuya.Cesar

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to
"Anna Rubi Pascual" <rpas...@sprint.ca> writes: > hi, im just curious about something. i just wanna know why some filipino

> guys cheat on their girlfriend
>
> Anna
>
Dear Anna:

Seems to me that you are aching in your heart finding out that
your boyfriend is cheating on you.

Nevertheless, do not be broken hearted, dump the guy and look
for other fishes in the ocean. I know in your stage, your
hormones overtake your reasoning. Do not fear of being alone.
It is good that you find him unfaithful earlier in your
relationship than later when you are married.

On a sociological point, the guy has this machismo thing,
treating you sort of trophy. You know what I mean:
"wham bam thank you anna!" So off he goes to his next conquest.

Be rational and not emotional in your ways.

Kuya Cesar


piano

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to
wake up little susie? it's not just filipino guys who cheat on their
girl. that doesn't go with the nationality, it's in the personality.
bakit pinoy din naman ako, hindi ko naman niloloko ang g.f ko, ah.

why, has your boyfriend cheated on u? i pity u. anyway, get a grip. life
has to go on. after all, hurt will be replaced by another love.

RPX Host

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to
http://members.tripod.com/rpx to read the love problems of Filipinas


Anna Rubi Pascual <rpas...@sprint.ca> wrote in message
news:NFfh3.6549$jl.15...@newscontent-01.sprint.ca...

NICHOLAS TORNY

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to Anna Rubi Pascual
BECAUSE FILIPINA ARE SO CHEAP

NICHOLAS TORNY

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to Anna Rubi Pascual

Anthony B Pineda

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to Anna Rubi Pascual
Simpleng simple lang...KALIBUGAN !!

nabi

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to Carl
Here's mine:

Nangpe-pek ng orgasm....laging me-headache....puro dahilan. (Carl, huwag kang
makikialaam dito..this topic is too intellectual for you)

CSRA

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to
why do people cheat to begin with?
Anna Rubi Pascual wrote in message ...

Naz Reyes

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to
In article <NFfh3.6549$jl.15...@newscontent-01.sprint.ca>,

"Anna Rubi Pascual" <rpas...@sprint.ca> wrote:
> hi, im just curious about something. i just wanna know why some
filipino
> guys cheat on their girlfriend
>
> Anna

Don't take it personal, dear. I've heard (and have also experienced
this for myself) that the main reason why men cheat on their significant
others is because it's something MEDICAL (and psychological). If men
don't get enough women (the more, the merrier!), they tend to feel
WORTHLESS and they can become physically and mentally "ill". So if
you're an understanding female, you will just let this pass and look the
other way :-)

-Naz


Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/
Share what you know. Learn what you don't.

BurienMann

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to
>BECAUSE FILIPINA ARE SO CHEAP
>

Your response to this question is the saddest and most shallow anyone could
give. I pity you and anyone who listens to your worthless remarks.

Amy Reyes

unread,
Jul 9, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/9/99
to
Filipino guys cheat on their girlfriends the same reason why
guys of any race would do so. I think it's perhaps due to
insecurity, lack of self esteem, feeling boredom with the
relationship and wanting to test it, or maybe because
of the supposed excitement it brings, to engage in the
"forbidden" act - the clandestine meetings in some deserted
carpark - I guess for some it gives it that exta thrill. It
pretty much boils down to the maturity level of a person
that is whether they have the ability to first consider the
dire consequences their actions may bring.

Another poster stated you seem melancholic but you actually
come across as perky to me (although u gave very little
information about your situation). But if you're the type
who hides her emotion who has a brave front but inside
you're really hurting well let me paraphrase to you a qoute
from one of my favorite novels...it says that pain is like
an open window, but as time passes by that window slowly
closes....
Friends has the tendency to advice to just forget about it
pretend it didn't even happened but experiences good and bad
makes us who we are we shouldn't dwell on them but we
shouldn't forget them either, so in retrospect try to find
the hidden lessons....


Amy (that'll be $50 thanks *grin*)

**** Posted from RemarQ - http://www.remarq.com - Discussions Start Here (tm) ****

JT of Oz

unread,
Jul 10, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/10/99
to
Anna Rubi Pascual wrote in message ...
>hi, im just curious about something. i just wanna know why some filipino
>guys cheat on their girlfriend
>

-------------
Hiya the simplest truth is: IT'S ALL WOMEN'S FAULT. Think about it: if there
were no other woman tempting the boyfriend, there wouldn't be any cheating,
would there? And if we look back to the beginning of time: imagine if Eve
didn't tempt Adam to eat that damned apple, hey, we men would still be in
Eden playing nekkid volleyball with that swimsuit girl on the centrefold of
Sports Illustrated. Does that make sense? <wink>

--
Talk to me at
Johnn...@Hotmail.Com


JT of Oz

unread,
Jul 10, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/10/99
to
Anthony B Pineda wrote in message <37860EFC...@jpmorgan.com>...
>Simpleng simple lang...KALIBUGAN !!
>

-------------
If you don't mind me asking, is that your real name? Did you attend Lourdes
School in Quezon City? If so, then you maybe our long lost classmate. If
you're just a namesake, my apologies.

mata...@my-deja.com

unread,
Jul 10, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/10/99
to

Men and women cheat on their loved ones, Anna Rubi, regardless
of race.

As for you JT of OZ, there are two things I would like to point out
with no offence;

1) It's up to the man to resist the temptation (or a woman vice
versa).

2) No Mother Eve; no swimsuits (who was going to wear them?), no
girls, not centrefolds. You guys would be there in Eden by yourselves
eating watermelon, playing volleyball and doing DIY everything
including sex. ;) intended as a joke.

In article <7m6bct$obb$1...@metro.ucc.usyd.edu.au>,

> --
> Talk to me at
> Johnn...@Hotmail.Com
>
>

Carl

unread,
Jul 10, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/10/99
to
MWAHAHAHAHA MAYBE IF U FAILED TO MENTION MY NAME, BAKA PINAGBIGYAN KITA
GAGO. HEHEHE

nabi <na...@intergate.bc.ca> wrote in message
news:37861ECA...@intergate.bc.ca...


> Here's mine:
> Nangpe-pek ng orgasm....laging me-headache....puro dahilan.

> makikialaam dito..this topic is too intellectual for you)

Palibhasa kse puro tira ka ng tira at sarili mo lang ang iniintindi mo kaya
puro fake ng orgasm, laging me headache,puro dahilan ang inaabot mo. Kung
ako sa iyo, ayusin mo sexual performance mo - paunahin mo muna ang babae
bago ikaw.

*Multiple orgasms for the girl first is HIGHLY RECOMMENDED.

Dirty Sick Pig

unread,
Jul 10, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/10/99
to
For the same three main reasons that "some" American, Chinese, Sudanese,
Iraqui and males of all other nationalities cheat on their girlfriends:
(1) they ask stupid questions; (2) they ask stupid questions; and, (3)
they ask stupid questions. I hope this helped somewhat. Keep on being
curious. :)

Anna Rubi Pascual wrote:
>
> hi, im just curious about something. i just wanna know why some filipino
> guys cheat on their girlfriend
>

> Anna

nabi

unread,
Jul 10, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/10/99
to
Sinasabi ko nga ba....nakakawala na naman and hinupak na ito. Why don't you
just leave the country and come here to Canada as a refugee. With only one or
two shoplifting convictions, you should be able to make it. And oohhhh....you
can leave home without IT.

Carl

unread,
Jul 12, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/12/99
to

nabi <na...@intergate.bc.ca> wrote in message
news:378766E6...@intergate.bc.ca...

> Sinasabi ko nga ba....nakakawala na naman and hinupak na ito.
wow pare hebi...

>Why don't you
> just leave the country and come here to Canada as a refugee. With only one
or
> two shoplifting convictions, you should be able to make it. And
oohhhh....you
> can leave home without IT.

ayaw kitang gayahin GAGO! MWAHAHAHAHAHA

pining...@my-deja.com

unread,
Jul 12, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/12/99
to
their girlfriends/wives got fat, they want someone will who offer a
little spark in their sex lives (magaling sa foreplay).

pining_garcia@sila

In article <NFfh3.6549$jl.15...@newscontent-01.sprint.ca>,


"Anna Rubi Pascual" <rpas...@sprint.ca> wrote:
> hi, im just curious about something. i just wanna know why some
filipino
> guys cheat on their girlfriend
>
> Anna
>
>

ketty

unread,
Jul 12, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/12/99
to
anna dear, don't worry, this isn't an isolated case. imo, these guys are afraid of responsibilities, walang mga balls!!!. or sometimes, i should say, we (girls) are also liable in this matter, we often times forget to look over at our very ownself on how we harmonize and give some break to our partners, they end up napipikon o kaya nasasawa...let
them breathe or try to change in image paminsan-minsan...
men (some) are polygamous in nature and are born to cheat their girls.;) there's only one thing why guys are after us...*sex*! since mahirap silang ma-identify, i'll give you tips; never trust a man who never kiss their eyes while you kiss, he's a probable deceiver. know the guy para hindi mabiktima. isa pa, trust your instinct, kung walang ma-feel
na sincerity sa kanya dapat i-tsugi na!!!

ketty

unread,
Jul 12, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/12/99
to
hey! now that you've told us something about yourself, got anything profound
to share?

NICHOLAS TORNY wrote:

> BECAUSE NICHOLAS TORNY THE LOUSY POSTMAN IS SO CHEAP

guest

unread,
Jul 12, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/12/99
to
Carl, I must admit...this one is good....one of the best.

Amy Reyes

unread,
Jul 12, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/12/99
to
Correction: meant to say *some* filipinos and *wallow* not
dwell. Haste makes waste.

Amy Reyes

unread,
Jul 12, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/12/99
to
Torny wrote:

>>BECAUSE FILIPINA ARE SO CHEAP

TRANSLATION: pimps and loser bigots only attract the loser
kinds from each race.

Carl

unread,
Jul 13, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/13/99
to
nabi, bumalik ka na sa nick mo..wag na guest
i wont disturb u na promise

guest <na...@intergate.bc.ca> wrote in message
news:378A4F7C...@intergate.bc.ca...

Will eye

unread,
Jul 13, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/13/99
to
"as if" Filipinas don't cheat on their husbands! HA!

benll

unread,
Jul 13, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/13/99
to
been following this and one thing i still don't get it, how
do we (pinoys/pinays) define cheating? if i'm attracted to
another girl, talked to her, took her to dinner and had a
meaningful conversation and nothing past that, would that be
cheating? what if i took her out straight to a hotel room
and had ourselves a ball, without any kind of
"get-to-know-you" talk, would that be cheating? what if i'm
really attracted to another girl with her physical
appearance, her personality, her outlook in life, her wit,
her conversational talent, her dreams and goals and values
to the point i wish my GF would be more like her - and did
not do anything with her beyond speaking, would that be
cheating? what if i was in another city/country and had a
one-night stand with someone i'll never see again, would
that be cheating? is cheating based more on the physical or
emotional pain or the betrayal of trust?
ketty <ke...@netscape.com> wrote in message
news:37899ADD...@netscape.com...

Dirty Sick Pig

unread,
Jul 13, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/13/99
to
Then I admit to being a deceiver. GUILTY!!!!! I've tried all sorts of
facial contortions but I can't kiss my eyes. How about you, other guys
out there?

benll

unread,
Jul 13, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/13/99
to
ditto...but i think she meant "close" their eyes...although
to "kiss" with just the eyes, no physical contact, could be
quite erotic - the mind being the most sensitive erogenous
zone...what do you guys think?
Dirty Sick Pig <dirtys...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:378BDB10...@hotmail.com...

taco kwiki

unread,
Jul 13, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/13/99
to
guys cheat on their girlfriends because they're horny. most
guys like sex with girls. sex feels good.

pining garkocia@sila

unread,
Jul 14, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/14/99
to
On Tue, 13 Jul 1999 19:34:24 -0500, Dirty Sick Pig
<dirtys...@hotmail.com> wrote:

>Then I admit to being a deceiver. GUILTY!!!!! I've tried all sorts of
>facial contortions but I can't kiss my eyes. How about you, other guys
>out there?

can't do it unless you're pugak or tugak.

LeeBat

unread,
Jul 14, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/14/99
to
Dirty Sick Pig asked:

>I've tried all sorts of
>facial contortions but I can't kiss my eyes. How about you, other guys
>out there?

Well, I can lick my eyebrows.........

MarcL

unread,
Jul 14, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/14/99
to

Dear, its not just Filipinos. Besides, Filipino males too are just human
beings that
can be tempted with better looking, moneyed and what-else chic. 8-)

Jolly

unread,
Jul 14, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/14/99
to
would kissing another guy consider to be cheating?


Will eye wrote in message <19990713181400...@ng-fs1.aol.com>...

Dirty Sick Pig

unread,
Jul 14, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/14/99
to
taco kwiki wrote:
>
> guys cheat on their girlfriends because they're horny. most
> guys like sex with girls. sex feels good.

Yeah! And tastes good.....and smells good.....and.....

By the way, I used to cheat on my girlfriend and never got caught.
She's no longer my girlfriend but now my wife. I still intend never to
get caught.

nabi

unread,
Jul 15, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/15/99
to
I'm honest.

ketty wrote:

> benll wrote:
>
> > been following this and one thing i still don't get it, how
> > do we (pinoys/pinays) define cheating?
>

> in a relationship, cheating is a failure. failure to the test of
> integrity and faithfulness. there should be no exemptions, unless you're
> very good in hiding it.....


Dirty Sick Pig

unread,
Jul 15, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/15/99
to
ketty wrote:

>
> benll wrote:
>
> > ditto...but i think she meant "close" their eyes...
>
> yeah right, thanks...
>
> mr dsp, "close" iyun...
>
> my previous responses seemed not to be appearing, got newsfeed prob
> since wed. anyway, if it did in your newsreader pls accept my apology...

I knew that was what you really meant. I was just pulling your .....

And WHY should I close my eyes when kissing? That's for the woman to do
by instinct. Mine is to enjoy watching her enjoy herself. Also, when I
kiss I want to be able to see her from the bellybutton and up. Hehehe.

AC21209

unread,
Jul 16, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/16/99
to
Men cheat on their girlfriends because that girlfriend is not meeting a need
(or want) of that man. Could be conscious, could be sub-conscious.


Pursuant to US Code, Title 47, Chapter 5, Subchapter II, '227, any and all
unsolicited commercial E-mail sent to this address
is subject to a download and archival fee in the amount of $500
US. E-mailing denotes acceptance of these terms.


ketty

unread,
Jul 16, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/16/99
to

ketty

unread,
Jul 16, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/16/99
to

ketty

unread,
Jul 16, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/16/99
to
did i say you're not? anyway, i'm happy for you, konti na lang ang honest na
nagsasabi ng totoo ;p

nabi wrote:

> I'm honest.
>
> ketty wrote:
>

ketty

unread,
Jul 16, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/16/99
to
Dirty Sick Pig wrote:

> I knew that was what you really meant. I was just pulling your .....

my...... what?? alin du'n ituloy mo!!!!;p

> And WHY should I close my eyes when kissing?

mas intense, kapag na-pikit kasi walang ibang iniisip di ba? since, i'm very
emotional about kissing, i would love my partner to feel what i'm feeling, i
require him to close his eyes or else... *^_~*.


> That's for the woman to do
> by instinct. Mine is to enjoy watching her enjoy herself.

nakaka-conscious ka naman...

> Also, when I
> kiss I want to be able to see her from the bellybutton and up. Hehehe.

iba naman pala ang hinahalikan mo eh!!!


benll

unread,
Jul 16, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/16/99
to
this is really profound - failure to the test of integrity
and faithfulness. call me a left-wing liberal, but i will
not consider it cheating if my GF slept with another
man/woman as long as that was what she wanted to do and that
made her happy. i define "integrity and faithfulness" in our
relationship as "her happiness" and she defines those terms
as "my happiness."

going on now for 6 years...and they're all blissful years.

benll
ketty <ke...@mot.nobasura.com> wrote in message
news:378E9BAB...@mot.nobasura.com..

SoundsXtreme.com

unread,
Jul 16, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/16/99
to
Cheating:
Trying to get something from another person that you would like to get
enough of from your partner.

benll <be...@san.rr.com> wrote in message
news:9qPi3.14030$tb6.1...@newsr1.san.rr.com...


> been following this and one thing i still don't get it, how

> do we (pinoys/pinays) define cheating?...

mata...@my-deja.com

unread,
Jul 17, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/17/99
to

Just how enough is enough? The more you get the more you want?
:)

In article <PTMj3.29241$ga.4...@news21.bellglobal.com>,


Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/
Share what you know. Learn what you don't.

mata...@my-deja.com

unread,
Jul 18, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/18/99
to
Sorry SXtream,
I've just realised the tone of my post. I wasn't
personally attacking you. What I meant is that the more that
person (cheater) gets, the more (s)he wants. :-)

And as to why I think people cheat? I guess It's because
they don't have that much self respect.

Mata Reyna


In article <7mpgff$85v$1...@nnrp1.deja.com>,

Amy Reyes

unread,
Jul 18, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/18/99
to
Will eye wrote:

>>"as if" Filipinas don't cheat on their husbands! HA!

where in my post did I say that filipinas don't cheat on
their husband? And the topic I believe is "why filipinos
cheat on their girlfriend" not why "filipinas
cheat on their spouse" that's another thread.


Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com/?z The Internet's Discussion Network
The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet - Free!

Amy Reyes

unread,
Jul 18, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/18/99
to
I do not agree in your definition of faithfulness and
integrity in a relationship sounds like those open
marriages. Too flexible, but theres gotta be balance in
almost everything. I know my own boyfriend would hit the
roof if I suddenly say to him "uh hon I just could not help
myself so I slept with this guy from one of my lecture
class, it was just a blissful experience it meant happiness
for me". Sorry but I just don't think there's respect in a
relationship when your bedhopping or changing partner call
me old fashion but I'll stay faithful with my guy as he is
to me. If I feel that theres no more spark in the
relationship then I'll move on rather than sleeping with
other ppl behind his back or requesting to do so whilst were
still together. But that just my point of view.

benll

unread,
Jul 18, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/18/99
to
good for you, and if your way works for the two of you, even
better. and i applaud you for your opinion. i think it's all
my fault - i did not explain fully what the spirit of my
"definition" is. honesty, in its bare bone definition means
telling the truth to other people, integrity, on the other
hand, means telling the truth to yourself. respect, well, it
can be defined and expressed in a lot of ways. one, as you
inferred, is not sleeping around. that's fine and that may
well apply to a lot of people.
somehow, i fail to accept that the core of a worthwhile
relationship is being sexually exclusive to one another.
sure, sex is important - one way to express your feelings -
but it's not all inclusive of all the things that should go
into a relationship. more to my point, if it's my GF's
happiness that i take only her to bed, then i will do so.
but somehow, that topic of exclusivity has never come up,
nor has it been a source of problem. i guess we're both too
busy helping each other to grow and develop professionally
and as human beings; been too busy making our goals, common
and individual, professional and personal, the foundation of
each being the happiness of one another. it's been like a
business deal, only difference is that the bottom line is
not profit but each other's wellbeing.
respect, well, i believe we show it by sticking to the
spirit of our relationship and by not betraying the thread
that binds us - the need for each of us to make each other
happy...no rules, no boundaries, no expectations, no
promises - just acts and deeds to achieve our loftiest
common goal: to be the best human beings we can be so we may
start having children.
i understand this is not the norm, but then again, look at
the divorce rate......

benll
Amy Reyes <anon...@web.remarq.com> wrote in message
news:9322863...@www.remarq.com...

Bob Horgan

unread,
Jul 19, 1999, 3:00:00 AM7/19/99
to
Filipina Girl ay masmaganda. Thats why I married one.

BurienMann wrote:

> >BECAUSE FILIPINA ARE SO CHEAP
> >
>
> Your response to this question is the saddest and most shallow anyone could
> give. I pity you and anyone who listens to your worthless remarks.


RAULIO

unread,
Aug 17, 1999, 3:00:00 AM8/17/99
to
Why doesit matter if you're a Filipino and you cheat on your girlfriend?
Granted it's not alright to cheat, but are we supposed to be nicer or meaner
than other races of guys?? Do white, black or hispanic women think that by
dating a Filipino man, you get a supplicating wimp who caters to your every
need and want at his expense?? Wake up and ask a universal question on why guys
cheat in general. Guys will be guys, girls will be girls.

Jeanette Lascano

unread,
Aug 18, 1999, 3:00:00 AM8/18/99
to
Hey Raulio,
 
    Where are you from?  Yes I do believe that in matters such as these Girls will be girls and Boys will be boys (gee, that sounds like that ad for Coke).  But I do think that there is this aspect of being a Pilipino na we value relationships so much that we do not just throw it away.  I guess for those Pinoy boys that didn't really grow up in the Philippines well, there is much to say.  I don't know, I still have this fascination over Filipino Boy's being such a gentleman.
 
What do you think?
Jenny
 
 
RAULIO wrote in message <19990817020947...@ng-fz1.aol.com>...

runr...@gmail.com

unread,
May 19, 2019, 9:29:47 PM5/19/19
to
On Friday, July 9, 1999 at 1:00:00 AM UTC-6, Anna Rubi Pascual wrote:
> hi, im just curious about something. i just wanna know why some filipino
> guys cheat on their girlfriend
>
> Anna

Because they are inconsiderite asshole who think wemon are here just to suck dick and make children
0 new messages