On Thursday, January 25, 2018 at 2:08:53 PM UTC+5:30, blackx...@gmail.com
> What I am looking for is really quite simple. I am a black American born African girl in my late 23's looking to find a white single or married men who likes me is unsatisfied in their marriage — and I don't necessarily mean only for interracial sex - girls for dating. The ideal person would be Late 30's to early 60's age range, drama free and looking women to recreate a "spark" so to speak. I am looking for a one night thing, but rather longer term. Some people may not agree with what I am dating for, and that is OK. I am one of the down to earth girls, and know what I want.
Please be advised that this might be a very long winded post, as I am at the point in my life now where I am not into playing games or being lead on for the purpose of sex, so if that is what you had in mind, please keep looking I'm not your lady!
After spending almost half of my life with the same person, most of which was wasted due to abuse, neglect and lack of interest, I have decided that it is time to get back out to the world of meeting new people, in hopes of finding a connection with someone new. It is beyond scary, as I haven't been on the market since high school, so ideally seeking someone "normal" and fun loving.
What am I hoping to find?.. First and foremost, please have a personality! If you lack the ability to show a range of emotions or compassion, so not interested! Please don't be emotionally unstable, needy or seeking validation through a connection with me, as I am very independent and grounded. A sense of humour, even a sarcastic undertone is awesome!
Physical appearance, though there should be an attraction, isn't high on my list, though I would love to find someone taller than me (I'm 5'9ish), but not a total deal breaker. I would prefer not to send photos, rather our first meeting be the first time we see each other (no, I'm not horribly disfigured or completely revolting), as I would rather build a connection first.
Please have gainful employment and a vehicle, as I would expect nothing less in someone that I would like to have a long term relationship with. I am gainfully employed in a couple of different areas, and have a vehicle, so a means to connect for dates, outings, etc. Ideally have your finances in order, and be fiscally responsible as well.
I'm not looking for someone to support me financially, as I have older children (yes, I snuck that in there), so between my former partner and myself, they are taken care of. I can't say that I would necessarily want more children, but I am not opposed to the idea. I don't want to be one of those women that come out of a relationship with children, and start all over again to not have it work out.
I guess it is time to offer up some information on myself, so at least you can see if reading through my posting thus far is worthy of popping me a quick note... I'm in my mind 30's, average build (I am not anorexic nor am I obese), quite comfortable in my physical appearance as well as my self confidence, brownish below shoulder length hair and blue eyes.
Well, if I haven't managed to offend you or bore you beyond belief, and you're interested in have chat, please send me a message and let's see where things take us :-)