How do I let my fiancŽ know how much planning I've done?

[Danielle L. Benware]

In article <mgudio-0803...@204.72.199.177>
mgu...@mail.district.stpaul.k12.mn.us (Maureen Gudio) writes:

> > This may sound blunt, but that is how it seems you have to be! Ask him
> straight out if he still plans on getting married. Is he taking it serious?
> Has he changed his mind?

First of all, I wanted to thank everyone who decided to email me
suggestions, they were great, and very helpful!

I did talk it out with my fiance and it seems like he just isn't sure
of what he *can* do. He wants to help, but said he sees how much it
means to me and didn't want to screw up my dream-planning...(i think he
was trying to be sincere, even though it almost sounds like he was just
trying to get back in my good graces...)

ANYway, I will home in a few days for spring break and hope to talk
more with him, as well as my parents and future in-laws, to settle on a
budget and let them in on the details as well...

Thanks again, what would I do without these newsroups?!?
:o)

Danielle (and Todd)
6/28/97

[Adrienne & Philip]

Danielle

As I have said before.. I made up little folders with different titles on
them.

Eg: Cars, honeymoon, Cake, Catering, Venues etc..

I then went through them all and Philip chose half of the ones I had for
him to look into (do ground work - picking up pamphlets, quotes). After
we have compiled our folders we are going to get back and swap
folders. We will then talk about which bits are more appealing and decide
from there our choises on each of the matters.

We will then present these to our parents (Shared payment) and let them
know our views on each ones.

I hope this helps :)

Talk to you soon

Adrienne (and Philip - who loves to plan *once told it is HIS day too*)