Maybe that's one reason we get paid less for the same jobs!
Here is a great article on negotiating a higher salary:
Negotiate for Salary & Benefits
Which of these is true?
1. Most new employees negotiate their salaries.
2. Asking for a higher salary is usually unpleasant.
3. It's tricky to know what salary to ask for, since finding salary
information for jobs in your community is so hard.
4. Companies and organizations are often shocked when people who
receive a job offer ask for more money.
5. Getting a slightly higher salary at the beginning doesn't matter
that much in the long run.
Actually, all the statements are false. Here's why.
1. Almost two-thirds of men negotiate their salary or benefits when
they apply for a job. But fewer than 10% of women do.
Professor Linda Babcock and writer Sara Laschever researched
why. In their book "Women Don't Ask: Women and the Gender Divide,"
they report that women want to get money discussions over as quickly
as possible. Employers who realize this may offer lower salaries to
women. They think that women will accept a first offer.
Does the idea of negotiating with a new employer make you feel
uneasy? Push yourself as much as you can to do it anyway. It's worth
it.
2. It is possible to negotiate politely for more money or better
benefits. Harsh words or confrontation are not necessary.
You can practice what to say. Examples include:
* Can you go higher?
* I was expecting more/that's less than I was expecting. Is that
the maximum?
* What can you offer in the range of $____ to $____? That's what
similar jobs in our region are paying.
* Let's talk about benefits. Can you increase the vacation days?
* Is there a signing bonus we can discuss? (This is not unusual
for hard-to-fill jobs. Or for jobs in small towns where companies want
to persuade applicants to live.)
Stay silent after asking one of these questions - for 30 seconds, if
you can. It's easier if you look down. This is worth rehearsing with a
friend. Let the interviewer fill the silence with a new offer.
Of course, if the offer meets or exceeds what you expect, you can
answer honestly. "That's great." "That's in the ballpark." "That's in
the range I was thinking of."
1. It's usually pretty easy to figure out what salary to ask for.
Give a range. Base the range on what jobs like this one pay in your
area.
Older workers will usually want to move the bottom of that range
up, to reflect your experience and the value of your age to an
employer.
Knowing what similar jobs in your geographic area pay is one of
the best things you can do before your interview. You can find this
information easily, for free. The Internet is best, since books with
salary information go out of date quickly.
Start your salary search on America's Career InfoNet, sponsored
by the U.S. Department of Labor. You can also use private Web sites to
refine your search.
2. Almost all employers actually expect new employees to negotiate
for a higher salary or better benefits. They prepare for this. They
usually offer you less at first, waiting for you to request more.
Most government jobs are exceptions. The salary for each pay
level is already set. But you can negotiate for a higher level or
grade.
3. A little more money can add up to a huge difference over time.
In their research, Babcock and Laschever found that negotiating
$5,000 more for a first job could result in $360,000 more in earnings
over a career. The difference for you may not be that great - but
there will always be a difference.
Think of your salary and benefits as a reflection of the skills
you bring to your new employer. Value yourself by knowing what you're
worth. Then ask for that.
How to Handle Salary Discussions
Follow these tips to increase your chance of getting the salary and
benefits you deserve.
* Before your interview, write down your salary and benefit
priorities.
Making a written list helps you remember later, when you may
feel a little tense.
What is the highest possible salary for this job? Stay
realistic. But the upper edge of realistic is fine. Know the lowest
salary that you will accept.
Figure out the benefits that are most important for you. Know
which ones you'll try to change or increase if the salary offer isn't
as high as you'd like.
* Do everything you can to postpone a salary discussion until you
have a job offer.
Why? When you have an offer, you know the employer wants you.
You are at an advantage then.
It's also important to avoid discussing your past salary. You
want your job offer to reflect your future work, not your past. And
for older workers, it is more likely that past salary does not show
what you can do now.
If you are pressed to give your salary history, you can say:
"It feels a little early to talk salary. First, I'd like to talk
more about how I can contribute to the company."
"I've been lucky to work for companies that pay well. I know
that you do too."
"I think I bring the skills this organization needs. My salary
history doesn't determine the good match we have."
Then, try to change the subject. Ask a question about the job.
If you can't get out of giving some salary history, give the
widest range you can. For the low end, tell your lowest salary without
benefits added in. For the high end, give your highest salary with
every benefit you can think of added in. At this point, you want to
avoid under- or overpricing yourself.
If you are pressed to state your salary requirements for the new
job, give the range you have researched. If the lower end of that
range is too low for you, don't say it. Move the range up. Once you
describe your acceptable salary range, it's hard to negotiate higher.
* Stay calm and reasonable. Approach the negotiation as a win-win
- for you and for the employer.
Practice some negotiating phrases before your interview. Show
the employer that you are a skilled problem-solver and communicator.
That's the kind of person they want to hire.
If you're getting nowhere on salary, briefly review your skills
and experience. Stress your value to the employer. Refer again to the
salary range you've researched.
Or, switch the discussion to benefits. Ask for more vacation
days, more flextime, time off for caregiving - whatever your priority
is.
Once you've reached an agreement, review it briefly, out loud.
Then move on right away. Show your enthusiasm for the job. Stress how
much you want to work for this company or organization.
* Talk about money or benefits only in person, not on the phone.
And get the job offer, with money details, in writing. Either a letter
or an e-mail is fine. You can ask for this after you've reached the
agreement.
* Ask for a few days, or up to a week, to think about the offer.
You can come in again if you need to negotiate more. Give yourself
some time to think calmly about the match between the offer and what
you deserve.