In a situation where the audience is mature and largely rejects sensationalism, even when prodded by Rakhi Sawant's considerable assets, the media needs to grow up. And if it can't, it needs a nice nanny. And no one is more aunty-like than Ambika Soni. There is no reason why a show like UTV Bindass' Emotional Atyachar where screeching women sting suspicious looking boyfriends into "compromising" positions should be on prime time. Or why Channel V's Axe Your Ex exists, where former girlfriends/boyfriends suffer ritual humiliations that range from having their bikes dismantled to them being accused of shoplifting. Is that what we want? A generation of youngsters with no respect for the opposite sex? And even less for themselves?