MISCELLANEOUS RAMBLING ABOUT SHOE FETISHES;
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If you are shoes only and don't ever want a partner, please enjoy
your fetish, there are great shoes out there and its still very very
pleasurable, and this site will be great for you. However, for me,
and I encourage others, that with a little effort they will find
infinitely more fun and pleasure with your shoe/boot fetish with an
open minded partner. When you find that partner let me share that
there is nothing like taking a putting a pair of boots like the Jimmy
Choo’s (above) on and then later taking them off of your partners
feet, or your own, during an evening of play and doing your partner or
having your partner do you with those very same very hot and fragrant
designer shoes or boots. I have found and concluded that indirect
fair and gentle fetish play can be incredible for both partners. Even
though I can fully enjoy a pair of shoes or boots without my partner,
it is much more fun to have my partner do it with and to me.
Cheap advice --- whether you are gay/lesbian/or straight --
Golden Rule - Even open minded partners need their needs met. Always,
"ALWAYS", make certain if you have a partner that they get their needs
met first.
Consider not forcing or dominating your partners with your shoe/boot
preferences.
Consider letting your partners know early what you enjoy bringing them
into your sex lives and that you have a shoe fetish so you won't hurt
your relationship later.
Find out early if your partner has an open mind, consider not
surprising or forcing your fetish on them.
There will always those who will totally reject your fetish, as well
as, other forms of open minded sex play and sexuality.
I consider a closed mind as their problem and my view is why start a
closed ended relationship.
It is not fair to anyone for you to keep this secret only to surprise
and hurt your relationship later. No loving partner deserves that!!!
Last, there are plenty of places to buy used shoes, I have over 300
pairs not one of them was stolen.
Also I am not concerned if someone finds out I have a fetish or a
collection. Remember my earlier phrase --- Yes, I have a shoe fetish
and "really" so what !!!
There is no crime in having or doing any pair of shoes or boots you
own. - when anyone treats a shoe fetishist as a criminal in most cases
it is absurd.
But -- "Don't ever steal them" a pair of stolen Jimmy Choo's is valued
high enough that "it's a felony" - there are no designer shoes in
prison and that is criminal.
When you get enough confidence in your fetish you can shop at resale
stores, garage sales, buy on EBay (thousands of choices in every brand
but not cheap), go to Amazon, or buy them in your size by shopping on
the internet, etc., braver yet try garage sales you will know who your
buying them from - but the fun is in almost every case they won't know
what you’re going to do with them and if they figure it out, so
what !!!. For garage sales if it makes you more comfortable buy them
in other neighborhoods.
I have found that there is plenty of room to have, and to share, a
shoe fetish with open minded partners. It is amazing, a couple with
an open mind, a little adventure, and some sexy lingerie/underwear and
nice new sexy pair of shoes or boots can become the sex toys that add
that special spark to any long term relationship. Are shoe/boot
fetishists more sexually active? As time goes, my maturity and
techniques that include my open minded and now very receptive partner
have expanded. I can only speak for myself, the answer is yes, and it
seems so. My partner and I hear of many couples whose sex lives
include once or twice a month. To this we consider and laugh, we
conclude that everyone needs to find toys they can share to add
excitement. In our lives things may appear a little kinky, but oh my
goodness seeing my best friend and partner wear the shoes of my dreams
is incredible. In our situation things have stayed hot and exciting
for years. I can only note that for us, a new pair of, perhaps a bit
too expensive, designer shoes or boots have kept the excitement high
and it is still 3 or 4 times per week.
In answer to the next question, do I do shoes without my partner? Let
me be very clear --- YES, and OFTEN, and YES we have discussed this
(which is fair) and my partner is OK with it. Why is my partner OK
with it? Because my fetish is in the open and we make certain that
our relationship provides for each other’s passions, needs, and
desires? Does my partner use shoes when alone? The answer is, I
don't know? My partner will tell me when and if they want to.
Whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, TS, or just love lots of sex
toys and the many forms of sex play and masturbation and you find all
acceptable as much of modern society does today, and now you are able
to add to that list the gentle deviations – e.g. -shoe and boot fetish
play. Then perhaps, we are for you If asked, “So, you like going
shoe shopping with your partner, it seems strange a guy knows what
Jimmy Choo Peony, Rose, and Daisy boots are and the various heel
heights. Do you have a shoe fetish or something?” My answer is YES,
aren’t they great, looking at these who wouldn’t? These boots are
very very sexy and erotic just as they are displayed and they look
even better worn by my partner.? Then she tries on a pair of knee
high 3 ½ inch heel black kid skin leather Jimmy Choo Peony boots – my
partner slides one foot in and then gently lifts her leg and zips the
back zipper up over her calves – then the other and gets up to walk
toward a mirror – nothing against Nine West, they look good,
sometimes, but Jimmy Choo's are in a whole different designer class –
so hot they can burn your eyes just to look at them and they can put a
solid bulge in response. – then hopefully my partner buys, or lets me
buy them. – Very hot, Very Erotic, and very exciting! As they get
worn they get even hotter over time.
I would agree even today with open gay/lesbian rights that for some we
still live in a world where stories and discussions about having a
shoe fetish continues to have the stigma that the gay lesbian
community once had long ago. As some have noticed in these pages.
Some of those men and women with a shoe/boot fetish are beginning to
accept their passion and preferences and are trying to get “out of the
closet”. Don't be surprised if most of them can do just fine in a
partner relationship as well. Interestingly, very low adultery rates
--- Consider men with a shoe fetish buy shoes, they don't look for
other partners, just their shoes. We do live in a very interesting
world --- keep an open mind.---- "e" -- elliott