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Shoes and boots drive some men about 375,000 of us in the U.S.A. and
who knows how many women into an erotic frenzy? It could be the way
a
shoe or boot helps accentuate and outline the erotic curves and shape
of the foot and leg, or the way we look in a hot pair of shoes? For
some it might be that particular leather, wear lines, inner linings,
or perhaps the blend of odor that develops after a long day spent in
a
hot pair of shoes or boots? It could be that, or a one of a number
of
wonderful elements that have helped propel this fetish into
mainstream
culture! However, as sexy as shoes and boots may be, very few
except
for the 375,000 or so above have ever really experienced the joy and
passion of a true penetrating shoe and boot fetish encounter. Not
surprisingly, nor do they really understand it and confuse it with
fashion passion.
The true shoe fetish is also referred to as retifism. The term may
have come from a French educator by the name of Retif de la Bretonne
(1734-1806) who was known for his passion for footwear. Over the
years, workers in the sex trade have come to refer to those who enjoy
the fetish as ‘bootmen’, and for good reason, most enjoy making love
to shoes and boots and generally the sex trade got to sit back and
relax while the bootman did his thing.
Take a moment and consider how many people, including perhaps
yourself, that you know really understand what having a true shoe
fetish means? Enjoying wearing a particular pair of shoes or boots,
or having a preference, or taste for buying lots of shoes is not
really a shoe fetish. Even though the media keeps calling that
fashion passion a shoe fetish. Grossly put, having full orgasmic
sex
play with a pair of well worn shoes or boots with them as the focal
point of your passion most certainly can be. Carrie, of Sex In The
City, certainly bought lots of shoes, she always said she had a shoe
fetish. But did she? Probably not !!! Carrie had shoe fashion
passion. She just spent a lot of money on fashion for self esteem
reasons. My guess is that she never did have an orgasm with them in
any way as a true male or female shoe fetishist might? However with
Carries curiosity and passion increased, if she fully understood the
fetish, she might have tried it.
Again, a few interesting unverified facts taken from another online
note included “that those who practice the fetish are not known for
violent crimes, as may be the case with other fetishes”, and,
estimates may suggest that the true shoe or boot fetish may be shared
between 1/10th to ¼ of the adult male population and an unknown
portion of the female population but certainly much less” In a
country
like the U.S. that might be 375,000 people with a true shoe fetish.
Not too shabby, there might be more if others could feel what we shoe
fetishists feel. – My shoe fetish clearly beats any form of
masturbation I am aware of and I do just fine with taking care of my
partner as well.
Those who enjoy retifism know that in most, not all cases, it matters
little what else is around – a shoe or boot is necessary for proper
arousal to climax to take place. The properly selected erotic
shoe(s)
or boot(s) alone are enough to place the shoe or boot fetishist into
a
passionate love making session to full climax, many times inside of
the shoe. This means the woman or man wearing them or a sweaty foot,
moist after a long stroll in the park, might do very little compared
with the fragrance of an office shoe worn all day that is left laying
at the front door.
Like many fetishes, the root is often thought to derive from
experiences in childhood. One such theory may involve children
crawling around on their hands and feet next to a member of the
opposite sex’s footwear or playing in the closet coupled with erotic
comments about a woman’s erotic sexy shoes. Whatever the case, those
who enjoy a shoe fetish know the power of its attraction. For me the
jokes about stinky feet in shoes lead me to try smelling them when I
was little. I liked the smell and also have stiletto heels to smell
as well. As I grew older my member began to respond to the smell
with
firmness. Not knowing what to do with it at that young age I decided
to place it inside of one of the shoes while I smelled the other.
Early on that was all I did for a long time because even though it
got
hard it was unrelated to anything else and placing my member in it
was
just interesting. One day for what ever reason I began to kiss and
lick the inside of a shoe while I smelled it, and it was great. I
never considered masturbating. Then I rolled over on top of the shoe
and just laid there for a few times. As time went on, I would say a
few days, I rolled over and also began to move my now more excited
member. The one day in doing this something new occurred – I
actually was pulsing my member deeper in and out of the shoe while I
laid on top of it At the time I had no idea this is what was done
during sexual intercourse, but I found out that day as I actually
exploded deep inside of the shoe. That first sexual orgasm was one
of
the most memorable experiences of my young life and from that point
on
I was a true shoe fetishist.
I did not masturbate, I did not manipulate the shoe with my hands in
any way. I lost my virginity to not a woman, but by being on top of
and easing my member into and having intercourse sexual relations
with
one of a pair of erotic shoes while I kissed the innersole of the
other. To this day the way I make love to a shoe is not all that
much
different than how we as a people all make love to each other. In
almost everyway my passion is identical to intercourse and if the
shoe
is worn prior it may even be at, or near, the temperature of a
vagina. If you think a shoe does not respond, sorry, I disagree.
Ok,
if you choose to hold it in your hands and masturbate probably not.
If you want it to talk with you, well no to that as well. But, if
you get on top and ease yourself inside a high quality leather
fashion
shoe or boot and make passionate love to the other, oh my. To me
this
is the third sex, the inside of a well worn high quality leather shoe
is almost identical to the penetrating feeling entering a person.
There are hetero’s, gays, and then in my mind, there are shoe
fetishists. The shoe does not replace people for relationships, but
let me tell you if the shoe fits, and it is erotic to you, and sex is
what you need, it can enhance and for some even replace sexual
intercourse experiences.
The type of shoe that someone wears is often enough to set the shoe
fetishists mind aflame with desire. It could be well worn Jimmy Choo
office heels, high-heeled Manolo stilettos, or Gucci zippered fashion
boots, or for that mater, any other shoe or boot that you consider
erotic. Some devotees focus on parts of the shoe, such as the long,
delicate nature of the heel, the inner side of the sole which mimics
a
second skin for the foot inside, or the wear lines worn gently into
the upper surface of the boot, some enjoy the toe impressions creased
into the leather surface, etc. Various materials used to make
footwear can also be the focus of interest. Leather looks and acts
differently than rubber or nylon so it really all depends on a
person’s specific interest. Thankfully, there are so many different
types of people seeking various types of footwear that fans have a
virtual smorgasbord of options to choose from. But for me a well
worn
used high quality kidskin or leather shoe with lots of wear lines and
foot impressions and marks worn into a leather innersole of a very
erotic shoe are the hottest and turn my temperature up.
For some, the fetish stems less from the shoe itself then the effect
it has on the wearer. Some shoes, such as high heels, lead the
wearer
to walk and move in different ways such as lengthening the leg or
giving more prominence to the butt. Others, such as thigh-high
boots,
accentuate the covered area itself, such as the calf or thigh, in
such
a way as to waken primal desires. Some shoes suggest the owner is a
certain personality type. A girl in a pair of platform boots is
different than one tromps around in combat boots. Although you may
see
a disassociation between the footwear and the interest in the result
produced by wearing a particular shoe, rest assured it’s part of the
same fetish. Maybe, maybe not! The effect is important, but the
focus, for fans and followers of retifism, is always on the shoe or
boot being worn and eventually a true fetishist wants to ultimately
make love to and with the shoe or boot as well perhaps the wearer.
For me the shoe I consider as part two of every relationship. I
always make certain to take care of the woman who wears the shoes.
However, I ask her to keep them on while in bed, I also ask if we can
bring a few more out and place them on the bed. When you take care
of the one you love first, and generally once her joys are fully
pleasured by simply telling them I am attracted to her very hot legs,
feet, and those incredible sexy shoes or boots, I then simply ask if
I
can play with them. Then I slowly go down for the shoes and although
I might stop for a little oral sex along the way, I am heading toward
trying to have sex with her shoes or boots as my second or third
play. Honesty has worked well for me.
But occasionally to their surprise sometimes when I am down there, I
might start to get them aroused with oral sex, and then I might
gently
take one of her shoes off and while she thinks I am going to smell or
have sex with it I can take one and lubricate the tip with KY gel and
while I continue to give the woman oral sex I can ease the shoe
around
the back and gently touch the all so soft leather pointed tip to her
now re-stimulated clitoris ultimately gently stroking her clit with
the gently lubricated shoes. She will enjoy it if you are patient
and
gentle, and if she is at all open minded you will be doing her with
her own shoes gently rubbing the whole toe box against her clit and
vagina. (PS – If you get the chance make sure they are cleaned before
you start. I use alcohol and ask he if she will wear them to bed and
then I clean the walking soles with alcohol and a cotton swab or
three.)
If you are gentle, and do it slowly, and make sure to lubricate the
tip penetration for a woman is not needed, you can do it with the
shoe
with oral stimulation and move to gentle shoe stimulation on her
clit. Believe me she knows she is also doing a shoe, she can feel it
and it feels good. Once she is comfortable, generally a few times
later, she may guide and do the shoe with clitoral stimulation adding
more or less pressure depending on what she desires. If your oral
sex
is really good, or you touch is very gentle and erotic, and she is
really aroused she might just let you, or she might just push you to
ease an inch or two of the pointed tip inside of her using the shoe
tip as a dildo. (To succeed – it must be very lubricated and you must
be very gentle- if you do I promise it works. If your not patient,
or
try to go to deep, it hurts and it is the end of the game. When I
am
allowed to have sex with a shoe and I am doing a woman with a shoe
and
oral sex there is no greater turn on than to see her orgasm to the
shoe while I do her other shoe. That is clearly why they call shoe
fetishes kinky. Sure it is, but if consenting adults enjoy it, who
gives a (expletive),, well you get the point.
However, the original article I read did not go far enough to explain
what it is a fetishist does. By now you understand a true shoe
fetishist does more than look at shoes and boots on beautiful people.
In their erotic passion they might make passionate love to the inside
or outside of one, kissing, smelling, and fondling every curve and
line worn into the shoe. Just as one might make love to any lover.
As
the passion builds I assure you most will reach climax, many males
will use a lubricating gel and place his member inside of the shoe
humping the shoe and actually having passionate intercourse with the
shoe. I have had one female partner who loves shoe during oral sex
and loved to have the lubricated tip of a very erotic high heel
stimulate her to orgasm. I once had a friend who enjoyed lubricating
the tip of a well chosen pointed toe all leather fashion shoe or boot
(high quality leather shoes often have very little leather hangover
at
the tip of the shoe making penetration easier) I have actually used a
shoe to as a dildo to slowly and gently penetrate a woman’s vagina.
At first it would be correct to say it is part of the make fetish.
That is until she wants to do it again and again. Then would it be
fair to say it is a woman also getting off on erotic shoes?
Where would a shoe fetishism be without an interest in the smell?
Some
find the scent of new shoes or boots fresh out of the package
attractive. Others gravitate towards the mixture of sweat and
material
that is generated by hours walking. Some may be partial to leather –
the smell of leather and the wearers moisture can bring more than a
few fetishists to their knees. Others may find rubber covered with
the sharp vinegar of foot sweat more to their taste. New shows or old
shoes, leather or rubber – all have a scent that is enough to turn
the
frown on a foot fetishists face upside down!
If shoes and boots are keeping you up at night – relax! Go ahead and
do one. No one will get hurt and it really does feel great.
“e” -- elliott
You can always find me if you need to insideshoes
