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From: 2tired2fall (Original Message) Sent: 9/29/2008 2:08 PM
I am in a major city and i work with the general public. This is what
i wonder about. There seems to be a trend of men ( i am not sure about
women) that like to date single mothers in order to worm their way
into the lives of women with preteens and teens.with the only intent
but to molest and rape the children?Now is this correct because i am
comming across this while at work and it seems to happen a lot but not
to the point that lot of women will divulge this because of either
embarassment or shame of being sham(ed). As a mother of a pre-teen and
now divorced from "P" I am more leary about dating and as i should be
for other reasons but wow, what are the signs to look for in this
type of man other than overly charming?And i am so paranoid about this
because of all the things i have already gone thru This is scarey !!!!!
Are P's a sub-catagory of this type of man or a major type of man and
the preditor a sub-catagory? I know sixth sense is what i need to pay
attention to but at sometime after healing i will wont to date may in
a year or so ..........I was just wondering?



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From: Flossie♥ Sent: 9/30/2008 3:46 AM
2tired,

I'm half asleep now but boy, do I have a mouthful on this subject!

I've seen it time and time again on the boards. It's very scary
indeed.

I'll get back with you later today, when I'm awake, lol! My cousin
has been staying with us during the day so I haven't been on much.
She doesn't seem upset at all when I log in and post some....I just
don't want to be rude to her.

Go with your gut on this one. P's that are sex addicts love
teenagers, if you know what I mean.

Hugs,
Flossie


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From: 2tired2fall Sent: 10/1/2008 12:01 PM
I am not in a situation such as the one i discribed.
It is something that i am comming across in the general public. And
since i have a pre-teen and and I have had the unfortunate experience
with a "P" , who by the way i call the spawn. I know that there is
always a possibility of anything happening. Dont get me wrong but i
trust no man around my child- i was once a teenager myself with grown
men looking at me .So I was wondering about the issue.Because my
premis is this: If a man can abuse me (mentally, physically,
emotionally)then whats to stop him from going after my child? This is
just my take on things I know all women dont look at it like this
but.... after going thru hell and back I am very protective of my
daughter and her emotional health as well as her pysical health. I
take my motherhood very seriously!!! So is there really a connection
between the two types of men/women? I hate to seem so green.


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From: Flossie♥ Sent: 10/3/2008 7:20 PM
I think you have every reason not to trust a man or woman alone with
your child. When my son was younger, I have had two different men ask
to take him to the bathroom when he needed to go. He is mentally
disabled and I have to sometimes help him but usually he can do it
himself, uless he needs cleaned. I just let them know he could go by
himself, but always wondered about them and would never let them be
alone with him.

Most P/S persons will have sex with almost anybody if they think they
can get away with it.


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From: 2tired2fall Sent: 10/4/2008 1:30 AM
Wow, flossie
that is deep and i didnt know that! So how do you tell if a "P" is a
sex addict?


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From: Flossie♥ Sent: 10/4/2008 9:37 AM
I really don't know that much about sexual addiction. Maybe Ps are
attracted to teenagers because they figure they can have more control
over them and it might also turn them on because they are so young.