Is the lamp body metal/exposed?
Capacitive devices detect a loss of charge from the plate, so you need a large enough capacitive body to draw off the charge. For instance touching it with a piece of metal won't do it, but if you touch the metal that touches the switch plate it'll trigger because the surface area of your body is enough to steal the charge from the plate. If the lamp body is metal around the switch contact area you could get some conductive adhesive grounding tape (foil tape won't do it, needs to have adhesive that can carry a charge) and tape across the contact area and the lamp body. You can test this with aluminum foil or a piece of wire to bridge from the plate to the body.
In short I'd take a very close look at your lamp and figure out how to take it apart so you can bypass the switch :-)
Chris