How might dualism work? An answer is "Like quantum mechanics." The
quantum mechanical wave function is nonphysical; it exists in a 3N
space (for an N body system) not in (x,y,z,t) 4 space and does not
possess physical properties. But real physical things like energy
(which do exist in our world, 4 space) influence the wave function
(of, say, a particle in a well) and the wave function, in its turn,
influences real physical things like where the particle can be found
in 4 space.
The coupling between the spirit-like wave function and things found in
the real world (like energy) is via mathematical equations like the
Schrodinger equation and Born normalization. A dualist theory of
reality, then, might similarly be of a purely mathematical nature.
The problem becomes one of finding the right set of equations.