>"But, David Hafler was a cheap SOB, and a socket just was not in his >repertoire. "
It's just much that. There is something called chip creep. You might want to look it up. Also, sockets can get dirty and lose connection to random pins. In some circuits this destroys other components.
If the bias regulator in a 300 watt amp is on a socket or plug, and it gets a bit dirty or corroded and loses the connection, it can burn up like over fifty bucks worth of silicon.
When you work with that solderwick, you hit it repeatedly, NOT continuously. Ad try to hit the solder first instead of the board.