Make a MO model of both and I think you will see that the electron
density around the terminal atom in acetylene is a lot greater than the
with the delocalized pi orbitals in benzene. You've probably forgotten
this stuff; it's usually 1st quarter organic chem material...
How do you like proton NMR? I've never had access to the machine but
regular NMR's are getting cheaper because of it so I might be able to
buy one soon ;^)