Flarm receivers dying from ESD happened in the early days of Flarm on standalone Flarm boxes and on the LX7007 receivers.
On more recent products, more or less the ones produced after 2010, all Flarm receivers are protected internaly against ESD, so no damages from ESD should happen.
As for VHF radios, I believe all of them are protected against ESD since the 60's.
Now this is protection from usual ESD found on gliders fuselage, if you happened to be close of thunder lightnings, this protection might not be good enough and any avionic equipment can suffer from that, receivers being usually first
Both VHF and Flarm antenna are located in the leading edge of the rudder.
What happens from time to time on glider, is that humidity and/or insects gets there and degrades seriously the antenna, but it takes many years to happen, less time for gliders being much exposed to humidity. Testing with swr meter (or better a VNA) is the way to check the antennas at the plugs side simply by disconnecting them for their receivers. Also a good way to check coax cables integrity (mouses are another enemy of glider electric cables)
So far I have never heard of Arcus being affected by this problem, but it might be worth checking.
Cheers
Daniel