Hallo,
I haven't found a good solution for Chrome yet.
There are two Chrome extensions which do it 'The-One' and 'One Window', both doing the same.
They move newly created windows into a tab.
The new window pops up for a moment is then moved into a tab, which is producing a kind of 'flicker'.
Not the nicest thing, but may work for you.
Regards
Dieter