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>> John is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood
>>and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how
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>>was doing, he would reply, 'If I were any better, I would be twins!'
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>> He was a natural motivator.
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>> If an employee was having a bad day, John was there telling the employee
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>> Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up and asked
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>>'I don't get it!'
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>> 'You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?'
>> He replied, 'Each morning I wake up and
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>>say to myself, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good
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>>mood or...you can choose to be in a bad mood
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>> I choose to be in a good mood.'
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>> Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or...I can
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>>to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.
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>> Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their
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>>or...I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side
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>> 'Yeah, right, it's not that easy,' I protested.
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>> 'Yes, it is,' he said. 'Life is all about choices. When you cut
>>away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react
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>>situations. You choose how people affect your mood.
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>> You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's
>>your choice how you live your life.'
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>> I reflected on what he said.. Soon hereafter, I left the Tower Industry
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>>to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when
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>>I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
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>> Several years later, I heard that he was involved in a serious accident,
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>> After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, he was released from
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>> I saw him about six months after the accident.
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>> When I asked him how he was, he replied, 'If I were any better, I'd be twins...Wanna
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>> I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his
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>> 'The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon-to-be
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>>born daughter,' he replied. 'Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that
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>>I had two choices: I could choose to live or....I could choose to die. I
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>> 'Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?' I asked.
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>> He continued, '...the paramedics were great.
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>> They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me
>>into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses,
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>>got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man'. I knew I
>>needed to take action.'
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>> 'What did you do?' I asked.
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>> 'Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me,' said John.
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>>asked if I was allergic to anything 'Yes, I replied.' The doctors and nurses
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>>stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled,
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>> Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live.. Operate on
>>me as if I am alive, not dead.'
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>> He lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing
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>>attitude....I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live
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>> Attitude, after all, is everything.
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>> Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
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>> Each day has enough trouble of its own.' Matthew 6:34
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>> 02. Forward it to the people you care about.
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>> You know the choice I made.
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