If You are Having Marriage Problems, Can Your Relationship be Saved?

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Over the years, I've seen so many people give up on their marriage
because it got a little rocky along the way. It astounds me how easily
couples are willing to give up on their marriage without even trying
to save the relationship.
That is why I've become a huge fan of Dr. Laura's daily radio show.
She has good old-fashioned moral values that are sadly lacking with
young couples today. Her advice is good common sense that is always
spot on, in my opinion.
She believes in preserving a marriage at all costs if there are
children involved. Children need a solid foundation on which to grow
up and learn solid moral values themselves. Divorce is so common
today, that parents often overlook how traumatic it is on their
children. It is a devastating and frightening ordeal for young
children and will affect them the rest of their lives. With that in
mind, isn't it worth the extra work and effort it may take to save
your marriage? I think the answer is a no-brainer. Kids need to feel
secure as they are developing. They need that family unit. I cannot
overemphasize that enough.
If you are unhappily married, and it is causing you to be depressed,
that is an issue you definitely should address. Women are more likely
to seek treatment for depression and negative feelings that may be
occurring, such as feelings of hopelessness or worthlessness, although
increasing number of men are now seeking therapy sessions.
People who are unhappily married separated or divorced have high rates
of major depression. The rates of major depression are considerably
lower for those who are happily married. That alone should give you
good reason to get some relationship advice. You should also realize
that your depression will seriously impact your children's lives as
well and can wreak havoc in their small and very vulnerable universe.