This is the story of a women in NIT Campus

[aditya dogra]

I dont know what to comment on this . Till when we will see all this kind of things going on . I know many of teachers and seniors alumni's will bang me for my next words but i can't stop myself writing the truth. Because i believe in "Don't apologize for speaking the truth, apologize because they can't see like you do." . Is this what we call Society ? When i joined the NIT, i had a different view of the world . I thought education is the only cure for the ignorance . But in my second year only I realized that educated people are more ignorant when i came to know about of our professor (I am not naming but at least from 2000 onwards batches , all know him) who really does what you call "harassment of girl students" and no one took any actions against him for many years to till now. All know but still we follow ostrich algorithm . Shame of us being an human being and being soo culturally rich , educated , egoist , ignorant fools. I am one of you all.



Now replying me on mails with questions can't help that poor lady in our campus  or the girls students which had faced the harassment by our honorable teacher. In the campus , everyone knows about the poor lady and every one knows that pervert professor .

Sorry I have no intended of defaming our teachers, i love them more than myself but i hate that professor more than myself also .

जय हिंद,
आदित्य भावशून्य
"समाज में मेरी भूमिका या किसी भी कलाकार की या किसी कवि की , लोगों को बताने के लिए एक उपदेशक के रूप में नहीं  है या नेता के रूप में नहीं है ,लेकिन हम सभी का एक प्रतिबिंब के रूप में है."

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Date: Wed, Mar 16, 2011 at 9:21 AM
Subject: This is the story of a women in NIT Campus
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It's about a small business owner who runs a retail outlet in front of a ladies hostel of a reputed engineering college. She has been facing physical and mental torture for the past three years by a man who initiated family relations but had altogether different intentions in his mind. The victim is a widow, with two kids, an old mother and a non-supportive brother. 

It all began when he saw her at the market-place buying stuff from the whole seller to run her shop. He approached her through a common contact and told her about his wealthy family and offered help in case she needed. She declined the help he offered, but he continued maintaining contact calling her like his own sister. He found our about her whereabouts and where she lived and brought his wife along with his son to her place to encourage family contacts which she could not refuse owing to persuasions of his wife. With time, he started making advances towards her which she complained to his wife. His wife assured her she would stop him, but it never happened. In the meanwhile, he started visiting her at odd hours in the night creating disturbances and breaking stuff in and outside her house. The neighbours got irritated and held her responsible. Instead of helping her, they asked her to leave the place and move somewhere else. They were perhaps scared of his political connections and did not want any trouble for their families. But where could she possibly go? It was the only dwelling she had. She endured and kept appealing to his wife to put an end to this as she thought herself close to his wife. But it didn't happen. Finally she appealed to the police. The police took her lightly at first, saying why she didn't approach them earlier. So she appealed to the local media. The next time he broke her door she called the media persons and they caught him red-handed. The police was also called and that was when they took some action and put him in the lock-up. He was granted bail soon owing to help from his contacts. As soon as he got bail, he attacked her and threatened to kill her child. 

This man has been sexually abusing, physically torturing, and blackmailing her for quite a long time. Off late the assault has increased to such an extent that made her attempt suicide many a times. He has been intimidating her by means of physical assault at her home at odd hours in the night. She has been raped a number of times in front of her own son. She has been hospitalized a number of times, during which she could not run her shop, leading to severe financial problems. He is not scared of showcasing his brutality even in public. She is not able to stay at her own home, and has fled to a friend's place.

Finally an NGO was approached. It was by chance that a prominent local political leader could be contacted and he raised the matter to his party to which the abuser was also associated. They pressurised him to lay low and not spoil the image of the party. He has stopped for now, but it remains to be seen what happens after the elections scheduled in a couple of months.