I'm not following the discussion on that ticket completely, but it's hard to see a situation where there'd be a speed benefit to trying coercion first. Here's why:
Given two parents A and B, if you try to convert an element of A into B Sage computes and stores a convert map. However, in order to ensure that this convert map is reasonable, the first thing it tries when computing it is to compute the coerce map instead. If that succeeds, it just stores and returns that. So the computation of a coercion map is built in to the computation of a conversion.
This is a one-time cost for each pair of parents. Afterward, when you try to convert an element, it looks that map up in a hash table and applies it. Depending on the implementation of the map, you can get speedups by improving how it computes its image. You can also get speedups if you're doing a loop of some kind by ensuring that you call the map only once rather than many times (e.g. setting one=RBF(1) outside the loop rather than adding the python int 1 each time). But I doubt that explicitly calling coercion before conversion will help.
Of course, the coercion system is complicated and I could be wrong. Benchmarking is the actual arbiter.
David