Hi Brian!
Thanks for your support. <3
Opening an issue so we can discuss is probably the best place to start. If possible, giving us the entire Gemfile is also reasonable—we can use it as an example for the resolver performance tests.
In general, the best way to speed up the resolver is to add version constraints to your Gemfile. Instead of setting no versions, set pessimistic versions like “~> 4.0.0”, or whatever is appropriate for your situation. If you open a ticket with your Gemfile, we’ll be able to tell you more.