Even I stumbled across the same situation when I studied Molecular Biology and Cell Biology.. The only answer I got was that even though water is polar, in comparison to other molecules diffusing through the bilayered membrane its size is pretty small.
I hope there is a stronger reason for that !
Will let you know when I found out..
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In knowledge there is only Mathematics. All the rest is stamp collecting. ( I know it is supposed to be Physics, but who cares ? )