Hi Benjy,
SJ.out.tab contains only the junctions that passed filtering with --outSJfilter* parameters.
You will get more junctions if you extract junctions them directly from the SAM file.
Column 7 is the number of uniquely mapped reads per junction, while the column 8 is the number of multi-mappers.
Note, that for paired end reads, if both mates overlap the same junction, the read will only be counted once.
If you take all of the above into account, you should get the same counts from the SAM file.
I have a simple awk script to extract these counts from the SAM file in the STAR source extras/scripts/sjFromSAMcollapseUandM.awk.
Cheers
Alex