“ Don’t just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a
balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful.
Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all
in good order.
There is no point of getting a promotion on
the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back
hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions. Life
is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a
marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no
point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationships are
the marble.
Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your
life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of
being excited and alive, will start to die…One thing about nurturing
the spark - don't take life seriously.
Life is not meant to be taken
seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a prepaid card
with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years.
And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends.
Do we really need to get so worked
up? …It's OK, bunk a few classes, scoring low in couple of papers, goof
up a few interviews, take leave from work, fall in love, little fights
with your spouse.
We are people, not programmed devices... Don't be
serious, be sincere.”
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