Hi Ed and welcome to the group. I sent you an invite to the Rez Slack. It's slow at times, but not dead or empty :)
As a quick heads up, Allan is currently on Vacation and will hence be silent until he is back.
In regards to your questions:
1. There have been slight changes (depending on when you last checked) as in more people besides Allan becoming contributors (as in permissions, not as in contributing, this has happened before already), ASWF is not involved as of now. This was brought up before, and so far Allan said he thinks the project needs to mature in some areas before formally approaching ASWF.
2. Yes it should be. Report bugs if you find any! Feel free to check the github Actions, tests are currently being run on 2.7, 3.6 and 3.7, Windows support is still lacking a bit, but not so much on the feature level but on the testing level (yet there are more issues on Windows than Linux)
3. There were quite some substantial additions. Payload caching being one of them. Allan did just implement Ephemeral packages and is working on bundles (
https://github.com/nerdvegas/rez/issues/1009) which might be a part of what you are looking for.
With these said, packaging up packages (how meta) can be done quite nicely with the rez-cp command.
Hope that helps a little, i am usually idling around on Slack if you want to chat (please excuse slow responses during the day...lockdown, homeoffice and homeschooling are taking there toll these days :) )
Cheers,
Thorsten