Hi chrcoluk!
I suggest you to have a look at the RequestPolicy Continued project/fork at github as RP has been discontinued:
https://github.com/RequestPolicyContinued/requestpolicyThough the issues you mention haven't been solved yet, but yes, it's planned that this will be working in 1.0 stable.
In fact 1.0 already supports wildcards. If there's no option for it in the menu, you can add a rule manually. If you have further questions, please post them on github, as the community is there :)