I would not say it is impossible, but I think you would get a very hard time convincing anyone to merge this to upstream Gerrit.
Other alternatives are creating your own plugin or own internal fork of Gerrit. A plugin would be easier to maintain but this approach assumes there is a way to hook in and change the properties you mention.
I have not looked further into the code that control these properties but it could require quite some work to maintain a fork for this considering Google and the Gerrit community is no stranger to rewriting the whole Gerrit frontend with a new web-framework.
Also interleaved posting should be used here.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Posting_style#Interleaved_style