On 11/26/22 9:35 AM, *skriptis wrote:
> Sawfish <
sawfi...@gmail.com> Wrote in message:
>> Yet bmoore is a thoroughly decent person.
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> No he isn't. He calls other people names for disagreeing with him.
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> You can say "bmoore was decent im communication with me and I have no issues with him", that would be fine, I guess.
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I see your point, but I have a different worldview, I guess.
I really don't care what others do if it does not affect me, personally.
Things that happen to friends/family *do* affect me, and so I poke my
nose in uninvited, pre-emptively some times.
Here on RST we are acquaintances--in some cases good acquaintances who
would be candidates for close friendship--tribal initiation and all
that--but this could never happen without direct personal contact and
exchange, preferably over drinking. Maybe shooting off guns in
celebration... ;^)
So if people go at each other here, I stay out, or try to as best I can.
When I fail to do so it's less over attempting to side with an
individual over another individual, but that the particular statement is
so devoid of logic and integrity that I am almost compelled to call it
into question.
I've become aware over time--and I sure didn't realize this the last
time I was on RST--that many who post here live in a VERY MUCH different
social/political environment than I do here in the US. I think where
there are serious differences, a lot of it is that the US is very
different from Europe--in fact, all of the western hemisphere is
different from Europe in this profoundly important way:
"nation" has never equaled "ethnicity" ever since European contact.
So until recently, if you were from France, it was very likely your were
of French cultural identity for many generations. Same with Germany,
same with most nations there. I realize that over the last 60 or so
years this has changed but the remnant of deeply rooted cultural
affinity--multiple centuries worth--is still there, good and deep. So if
a Hungarian longs for the good old days of "pure" Magyar tradition, you
don't have to go back very far to find it in the general populace.
But here in the US, and Argentina, too, especially, not only did
multiple national identities settle (after exterminating the native
population in the US, mostly, don't know about Argentina) but there were
national policies that encouraged immigration from various
ethnicities/nations, and even races to some degree, forced or otherwise.
Here in the US this national reality started about 1850 or so, and has
not stopped still, except for comparatively short periods. I see no real
evidence of this is any European nation until after WWII, and it seems
to me to have started after de-colonization, a sense of debt something
like happened here after the Vietnam war, when significant populations
of Vietnamese (a completely decent group of folks, in my opinion) were
given residency because of a sort of moral debt.
Now here's the payoff--and it took me many paragraphs as usual. For most
of the immigration period, various ethnicities/cultures were welcomed
here, with one proviso: we don't care what you do at home, but in public
you are now an American and you will appear to contribute to the
American culture.
So you can celebrate Xmas on another day, shoot off guns for
celebration, but it needs to be among your own group. DO NOT EXPECT
EVERYONE ELSE IN THE US TO RESPECT OR CELEBRATE YOUR CUSTOMS. THEY ARE
YOURS, NOT THOSE OF AMERICA.
And by default, the American customs were largely those of
England/Scotland/Ireland, and that was the baseline that all new
peoples needed to adapt to *publicly*.
Here where the irony sets in, and it makes one laugh. You were expected
to do to your cultural traditions what homosexuals had to do until
fairly recently: keep them largely in the closet.
And guess what? This worked REALLY well for a very long time! My own
ethnic group has no troubles/complaints, and I suspect that it made
common sense to them: when in Rome, do as the Roman do.
And we were left the fuck alone to do whatever we wanted, on our own
time, in our own society.
I repeat: this was not hard to do and it seemed fair enough.
At the same time you had Jews celebrating their own holy days as they
wished, and no one was expected to say "happy hannuka" to them, nor did
they expect it. Nor did we all celebrate Mexican victory over Maximilian
(cinquo de mayo) and certainly not Juneteenth or Quaansa , both
recent politically manufactured "holidays".
This all worked very well, indeed, but basically broke when politicians
realized that they could court a block vote if they represented a
district that had a large Italian population, and he favored honoring
Italians by supporting Columbus Day, and this may have been the first
such divisive celebration, followed by many others honoring specific
*groups* within the overall population.
So now what we have is not only out-of-the-closet homosexuality (and
every other sexual descriptor, even beyond imagining), with constant
whining about how unfair it had been before, but now every other
ethnicity/nationality/racial identity is out of the closet, as well,
weeping about how they miss female circumcision, or what have you.
No shit. One the US decided it was NOT a melting pot, but a stinking
sack full of precious and *diverse* cultures, it was all over.
...and my guess is that your national/cultural reality has nothing like
this, so far as magnitude/pervasiveness and relatively currency. What
happened there was mostly in the past, and has stabilized over time, as
it had multiple times in the past, and what's more, the core cultural
identity has remained the same, mostly.
So it is realistic in places like Hungary/Croatia/etc. to imagine that
you can "take back" the cultural direction of the nation, but over here
this only existed as an overlay--a conformity to--Anglo cultural
norms--which are good, decent, understandable norms, work/accomplishment
is valued, personal responsibility, basic honesty. etc.--and that has
only been fairly recently, not for many centuries like in Europe.
So now the underlying US culture--Anglo--is discredited, we have no
dominant culture. We have a cultural war for dominance, and the way
things are, the cultures that demand the least from the individual, and
that allow and celebrate the self, and immediate gratification, will
most likely win out.
Can you dig it, skriptis?
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--Sawfish
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