On Monday, 7 December 2020 at 11:36:18 UTC+5:30, Healthcare wrote:
I’ve been having an affair (with the same man!) for 14 years. Ask me anything.
Hi, friends! This sub has been a treat for me the last couple of days. I decided to make an account to share my story.
I [38F] and my boyfriend/“AP” [40M] have been having an affair for the last 14 years. It’s been on and off, but mostly on.
We went to a very large high school together, but we did not know of each other at that time. I graduated with his younger sibling, and we met that way years later.
We started having sex regularly when I was 24 and he was 26. We were both married to different people at this time. I have three kids with my husband, and he has two kids with his wife.
No, our spouses have no idea that we’ve been doing this for almost 1.5 decades. We’ve hid it for so long that it’s become an ingrained part of our lives.
Feel free to ask me anything! I can’t think of anything else to add, but I’m curious if anyone else has had an affair lasting this long.