"savair" <
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I think Tyson channelled his childhood issues into his boxing, which made
him the fighter he was. Like many people, I think he was probably an
awkward, shy but angry kid who, for various reasons, needed the "release"
that boxing gave him. I suppose it's lucky for everyone around him back then
that he *did* take up boxing because I get the impression he was always
ready to explode.
Maybe a lot of his later problems came as a result of his success; when he
was young, he looked like he just turned up to a fight, forgot his socks,
borrowed someone's shorts and gloves, knocked the guy out and went home
again to watch some boxing DVDs. But I suspect he later became surrounded by
the usual low-lifes (including Don King) who got into his head, kept telling
him "hey, you're Mike Tyson, you can do and have anything you want". He
obviously had issues with depression as well, and it must have been very
intense and confusing for someone with his poor social skills to deal with
everything. He strikes me as a simple guy, I don't mean retarded but just a
guy who never expected much from life. To suddenly have everything given to
him, millions of dollars, people treating him like a God and plenty of
hangers-on who he couldn't say no to (and who introduced him to drink and
drugs???), must have messed his head up. I don't think he ever really
understood what was expected of him, at press conferences for example. I
think he just wanted to go to the arena, fight and leave again and be left
alone.
And then I suppose later, once he'd started to deal with all these issues,
the realisation that it wasn't going to last must have started messing him
up. I'll never forget the way he looked in the dressing room before the
Lennox fight, there was something in his eyes and I recall saying "he's
already lost this fight". In my opinion, that's when he gave up on boxing.
In all, I think he started off as a quiet, generally respectful guy who
needed to hurt people to make up for his early years and found a way to do
it. I think that's the real Tyson, but I think he's got the anger out of his
system now. Along the way, he got overawed by boxing and the people around
him and tried acting up to what people expected, and thought, of him. I
don't know about his finances but I would bet that he got ripped off by most
people around him because he was too eager to please everyone. I think he
was extremely uncomfortable with the public side of his career. I wonder how
different things might have been if D'Amato had been around for the
"troubled" years?