So, how have others dealt with sometimes incessant barking?
TIA for any advice...
cover wrote:
> Thanks in part to advice from the Puppy Wizard (thanks again,
> Puppy Wizard :-) ,
You're welcome...
> I have pretty well behaved puppy with the exception of
Ooops! There's NO EXXXCEPTIONS. ALL temperament and behavior
problems are CAUSED BY MISHANDLING. Re read your FREE copy of
The Amazing Puppy Wizard's FREE WWW Wits' End Dog Training
Method Manual and DO ALL the EXXXORCIESES and your dog will
be PERFECT or The Amazing Puppy Wizard will get the heel HOWETA
this business <{) ; - ) >
> excessive barking at times
BARKING is a SYMPTOM of ANXXXIHOWESNESS or FEAR.
> (well, more often than at times but).
You can CURE EXXXCESSIVE barking NEARLY INSTANTLY.
LIKE THIS:
Estel J. Hines" <ejhi...@comcast.net> wrote in message
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Until i read the Jerry method of Bark reductioon,
it went something like this with our 11 month old
puppy "Yoshi"
Yoshi: Bark, bark,
us: HUSH Youshi
Yoshi Bark, bark......................
us: Hush Youshi
Yoshi BARK, BARK, BARK, ..............................Â...i
it stopped when Yoshi got tired barking
We decided to try the Jerry method
Yoshi: BARK, BARK
US: GOOD Yoshi, Good Boy, who is it?
Yoshi Bark, Bark
US: It's ok, good boy Yoshi, We know them
Yosh without fail, now stops after we say that
I must say, it is so much more fun, when we
can praise him, to deal with things like this
Thanks Jerry
ps: We are just starting to go thru the Jerry
Papers, and learn how to live with our son
"Yoshi", whom we love very much.
Best Regards,
Estel J. Hines
==============
AND LIKE THIS:
"Brandy Kurtz" <KraftyKur...@wmconnect.com> wrote in message
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KraftyKur...@wmconnect.com (Brandy Kurtz) wrote in message
<news:2f66e35d.04072...@posting.google.com>...
Today a salesman knocked on the door, and Pokey
was going balisstic. I calmly go to the window to see
who it is, and off-handly say Good Boy, It's a stranger,
Good Boy. Pokey shut right up, gave me a quizical
look, and came and sat beside my feet! OMG, I could
not believe it!
I was totally floored, as this has been his
behavior since a pup. Just wanted to update,
and Pokey and I are hitting the sack...;)
Brandy
> I've heard of noise emitting devices
You mean AVERSIVES.
> that may help to control this barking
The Amazing Puppy Wizard teaches HIS 100% CONSISTENTLY NEARLY INSTANTLY
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After all, it's all the same same same same... NUTHIN CHANGES in
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or you'll VIOLATE the SCIENCE of BEHAVIOR as taught in your FREE copy
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IOW, we got THE SCIENCE Of BEHAVIOR D-HOWEN Pat...
> and thought I would put a post here to see how others have resolved
this.
Hey? Can you send The Amazing Puppy Wizard a couple of WHATEVER you
been takin???
You're askin PROVEN LYING DOG ABUSING ACTIVE LONG TERM INCURALBE MENTAL
CASES who's own dogs GOT THE SAME SAME SAME SAME PROBLEMS for THE SAME
SAME SAME SAME REASONS, for ADVICE, Cover <{) ; - ) >
> We keep him in as much as possible
To AVOID trainin the behavior on accHOWENT of your neighbors get
upset...
and you'd be EMBARRASSED PRAISING YOUR DOG FOR BARKING. So you'd PREFER
to
HURT and INTIMDIATE your dog JUST LIKE HOWE the MENTAL CASES do theirs,
Cover.
NUTHIN CHANGES IN BEHAVIORISM, Cover. THAT'S HOWE COME THIS IS The
Amazing
Puppy Wizard's HUMAN BEHAVIOR RESEARCH LABORATORY, Cover. We AIN'T been
talkin dog trainin and behavior for a couple years NHOWE, Cover.
> but sometimes he's out and since we've already had a neighbor
complain about it,
So you CHOSE NOT TO TRAIN YOUR DOG on accHOWENT of you're TOO BUSY
brining him
inside when he GETS UPSET and barks at his phantasams or the neighbor's
passin bye...
JUST LIKE HOWE the MENTAL CASES who GOT THE SAMESAMESAMESAMESAMESAME
PROBLEMS, Cover.
> thought we'd try to get this issue in check before the cops
> are at the door or the neighbor tries to do something on his own.
Is THAT HOWE COME you REFUSE to FOLLOW THE METHOD???
> So, how have others dealt with sometimes incessant barking?
THEY AVOID the PROBLEM or HURT THEIR DOGS, Cover. LIKE HOWE YOU WANT TO
DO.
> TIA for any advice...
BWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAHAHAHHAHAHAAAA!!!
From: "The Puppy Wizard"
Date: Sun, 11 Jul 2004 12:03:56 GMT
Subject: Re: Naughty Puppy
HOWEDY cov,
"cov" <c...@NOSPAMmail-gw.fsr.net> wrote in message
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> We recently purchased a german shepard puppy
A dog is a dog.
> and though we love this little guy,
HOWER dog lovers will have you reward
puppy nipping with alternate chew toys or
treats to REINFORCE the nipping to elicit
a toy or treat and lock your dog in a box for
a time HOWET and ignore IT when IT cries
and tell you to make yelpin S-HOWENDS
and turn away and ignore IT when IT puts
ITS teeth into you and turn your back and
IGNORE IT someMOORE and spray IT in
the eyes with aversives and jerk and choke
IT on your pronged spiked pinch choke collar
and throw IT to the grHOWEND and climb all
over IT like a raped ape and grHOWEL into ITS
throat and bite IT on ITS ears and shock IT when
necessary, and to KILLFILE The Amazing Puppy
Wizard for PROVING those are the principle reasons
HOWER MENTALLY ILL LYING DOG ABUSING
COWARDS HURT and MURDER their best dogs.
> we cannot seem to get him over his juvenile
> deliquent behavior of biting.
Puppy MHOWETHING is BONDING.
Your puppy is tryin to BE FRIENDS.
Takes only a few minutes to break ALL
behavior problems and you can use the
same effective non physical non force
scientific behavior modification techniques
on your children and spHOWES as you'll
learn in your FREE copy of The Amazing
Puppy Wizard's FREE WWW Wits' End
Dog Training Method Manual available for
FREE at http://www.doggydoright.com
> He's the 3rd german shepard I've had in my
> lifetime but the first I've had where trying to
> raise a dog with younger children is concerned
> which may be making the difference here.
The problem is the children ain't able to
force control of the puppy. When you do
and they don't, you've variably reinforcred
the BAD behavior, making it worse for the
kids.
> He's growing fast and with his razor teeth,
> has already caused more than his fair share
> of "owwies" and torn clothes with the kids.
Yeah. Do you have a crate and some aversives
like bitter apple and teach him the meaning of
"NO!"?
All behavior problems are caused by mishandling.
> Does anyone have any ideas on breaking
> young shepards from this where they get
> the idea that they are actually the pet and
> the kids aren't fellow puppies or otherwise,
> chew toys?
That's where the crate and aversives come in
handy. Locking your dog in a box will teach him
the difference, like it done for tara o. aka tee's
DEAD DOG Summer.
> He's normally a pretty good dog but at times,
> one would swear he'd gotten into cat nip and
> then gets pretty rambunkious.
He's playing. Or he's hyperactive from being
crated and havin his behaviors repressed and
punished.
> Would very much appreciate any thoughts or
> comments from others who have experience this
INDEED. You're in EXXXCELLENT company.
> and found a way around it.
Ooops!
Well, you ARE in EXXXCELLENT company!
> It's more of a playful biting that's going on
That'll change as he gets abHOWT 6-8 months old.
> (on his part) but getting it through to
> him that it hurts the kids and so on,
HOWE do you show him that?
> isn't working too well.
Right. You can't teach a dog not to
do what he ain't doin and you can't
force a dog not to do what he IS doin
withHOWET REINFORCING the behavior.
Every time you force control you lose
control and teach the puppy to HOWEtwit you.
> He's a good boy for a while and then
> seems to lapse back into a playful kujo. :-)
Yeah. Cause you respond by teachin him
not to do that. THAT'S MUCH MOORE FUN
than just layin arHOWEND bein NICE.
> Chris
> coverland914 AT yahoo DOT com
From: cov <c...@NOSPAMmail-gw.fsr.net>
Date: Mon, 12 Jul 2004 10:52:09 -0700
What's with "Jerry's manual" and "Wit's End" ??? I have a playful
biter that I'm trying to get control of (not fear biting) and what HAS
worked probably best to modify his behaviour is placing him in his
"Pet Porter" for a 30 - 45 minute time out. He's usually a pretty
mellow puppy when he's been let out.
HOWEDY cov,
"cov" <> wrote in message
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>
> I have a 6 month old German Shepard pup.
You came here to learn HOWE to HURT
and INTIMIDATE your dog ENOUGH to
CON-TROLL IT. Didn't you.
> He's not my first dog or my first German Shepard
> but he is unique in that he's a pretty aggressive
> dog for being this young and being in a good home
> where he's treated very well.
That so? That's a OXYMORON, cov:
"It is by muteness that a dog becomes so utterly
beyond value. With him, words play no torturing
tricks.........., " John Galsworthy.
Like a confessor Priest? Don't bet your dog won't
tell on you... Their behaviors reflect our words,
actions and training quirks. Jerry HOWE, The
Puppy Wizard. <{} ; ~ ) >
<snip>
> I need to find a way to calm him down a bit.
You'll do that by BONDING with him.
> He has a very kind & loving side who wants to
> be your buddy but also has a rough aggressive
> side
Was your dog taught to be aggressive by
living with his littermates till IT was 12 weeks
as the EXXXPERTS recomend, to teach
puppy manners?
> that makes it hard for my wife or younger
> kids (age 8) to deal with.
Seems this goes far beyond dog behavior, cov:
ALL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS ARE
CAUSED BY MISHANDLING.
A Dog Is A Dog As A Kat Is A Kat As A
Birdie Is A Birdie As A Child Is A Child As A
SP-HOWES Is a SP-HOWES.
ALL Critters Only Respond In PREDICTABLE INNATE
NORMAL NATURAL INSTINCTIVE REFLEXIVE Ways
To Situations And Circumstances Of Their Environment
Which We Create For Them.
Damn The Descartean War of "Nature Vs Nurture."
We Teach By HOWER Words And Actions
And GET BACK What We TAUGHT.
In The Problem Animal Behavior BUSINESS
FAILURE MEANS DEATH.
SAME SAME,
For The Problem Child Behavior BUSINESS.
> So... my question on neutering -
Will you castrate your male children if their
behavior goes HOWETA CON-TROLL on
accHOWENT of your MISHANDLING, cov?
> will having him neutered cause his disposition
> to 'chill out' a little bit?
Surgical sexual mutilation is inapupriate unnecessary
veterinary malpractice to unjustly enrich themselves
at the EXXXPENSE of the dog an his guilible owners,
RESULTING in 15% INCREASED FEAR AGGRESSION,
cov.
The VETERINARY GETS PAID to MURDER dogs
that become FEAR AGGRESSIVE thanks to their
MALPRACTICE, cov.
> I've been advised by some people (bystanders)
As opposed to the EXXXPERTS you're askin here abHOWETS?
> that if I wait too long, neutering won't have
> the affect of calming him down and hope to
> get some of your experiences???
That's INSANE. You're askin MENTAL
CASES who HURT INTIMIDATE and
MURDER dogs if surgical mutilation
is not effective after the dog is HOWETA
CON-TROLL. HOWE would these dog
abusing mental cases KNOW? They
MURDER dogs like that, cov.
> I hadn't planned on neutering him if I didn't need to
Other than as a medical necessity, neutering is INSANE.
> and had thought about at least, waiting until
> he is fully grown but if there's any truth to "do
> it when they're young if you want to calm them
> down", then I'm willing to proceed just for family
> harmony and my dogs sake - ASAP...
You mean instead of NOT HURTING and
INTIMIDATING your dog to train IT, cov?
> Would very much appreciate any input on
> this and feel free to email me at my email
> listed below (after removing the words NOSPAM
> and removing spaces from my address below... :-)
The Amazing Puppy Wizard will reply to your
personal emal to HIM in this Post.
> I love this dog but seem to be constantly defending him.
Yeah. You've taught your family well.
> Don't know about the 'trainer' advice cuz
> as I said, when he's in his calm state of
> mind, he's a real joy to have around and
> a buddy but when he feels rambuncious,
> he's more than most want to handle and
> is extremely strong for his age.
HOWER DOG LOVERS HURT dogs like you got, cov.
> thanks very much in advance -
For WHAT, cov?
> Chris
----- Original Message -----
From: c...@nctv.com
To: The Puppy Wizard
Sent: Monday, September 27, 2004 11:49 PM
Subject: Re: Neuter Question
> That's some pretty heavy shit, Jerry.
The Amazing Puppy Wizard calls 'm like HE sees 'm.
There ain't nuthin PERSONAL abHOWET it, so there's
no need to be OFFENDED, that'll only further CL-HOWED
your thinkin, cov.
After all, we're BOTH after THE SAME RESULT.
> Hope the vent made you feel better.
The Amazing Puppy Wizard wasn't VENTING,
cov, HE was simply pointing HOWET the
REALITY of your situation, cov.
> I did gain some things from your manual
That so? You musta MISSED the IMPORTANT parts
on accHOWENT of ALL behavior problems are
CAUSED BY MISHANDLING, not TESTICLES.
> and respect your opinions
BWEEEEEAAHAHAHAHHAAAA!!!
The Amazing Puppy Wizard doesn't TEACH OPINIONS,
cov. The Amazing Puppy Wizard works within the
BHOWENDS of NATURAL LAW and SCIENCE, cov:
"The Methods, Principles, And Philosophy Of Behavior
Never Change,
Or They'd Not Be Scientific And Would Not Obtain
Consistent, Reliable, Fast, Effective Results
For All Handler's And All Dogs
In ALL Fields And Utilities,
ALL OVER THE WHOLE WILD WORLD,
NEARLY INSTANTLY,
As Taught In Your FREE Copy Of The Puppy Wizard's FREE
WWW Wits' End Dog Training Method Manual,"
The Puppy Wizard. <{} ; ~ ) >
> but the truth is,
The TRUTH is, you got NUTHIN to say to
The Amazing Puppy Wizard on accHOWENT
of EVERY THING HE SEZ is FACT and BACKED
UP IN WRITING.
> I don't have all the time to devote to this cause
You mean, pupperly handling training and raising
your dogs and children, cov? What's your hurry?
You got THE REST OF YOUR LIFE to work on it.
> when I have so many other causes in
> my life that require my time & attention.
MOORE important than the mental heelth
of your family and the life of your dog, cov?
> One area where we obviously don't agree
> is that you seem determined that animals
> can do no wrong -
Oh. What you mean is you need to DEFEND your
alleged RIGHT to HURT and INTIMIDATE your
dogs and children and you'll try to do likeWIZE
with your SP-HOWES if she'll let you get away
with it, you miserable coward.
Don't be OFFENDED at that, cov, it's NUTHIN
PERSONAL, just a FACT, pure plain an simple.
> I think that's bullshit but you have your right
> to your opinion as I do mine -
HURTING and INTIMIDATING and MURDERING
dogs AIN'T a matter of OPINION, cov, it's a matter
of CRIMINAL INSANITY. AIN'T IT. And THAT'S
HOWE COME you'll DO and SAY ANY THING
to DEFEND your alleged RIGHT to HURT INTIMIDATE
and MURDER your dog, when the time comes.
> animals ARE fallible and when they are,
YOU HURT and INTIMIDATE them.
ALL Critters Only Respond In
PREDICTABLE INNATE NORMAL NATURAL INSTINCTIVE REFLEXIVE Ways
To Situations And Circumstances Of Their Environment
Which We Create For Them.
ALL TEMPERAMENT And BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS
Are CAUSED BY MISHANLDING.
> it's not ALWAYS the fault of the owner.
Would you bet your life on that, cov?:
The Puppy Wizard's SYNDROME is the perfect
synergy of love, pride, desire, self will, greed,
ego, fear, hate, arrogance, disbelief, jealousy,
embarrassment, embellishment, shame, guilt,
anger, aversion, attraction, revulsion, change,
permanence, enlightenment, insult, attrition,
and conditioning.
It's the perfect fusion of The Word...,
in the physical.
> Our dog has been anything but abused.
Perhaps he LEARNED his aggression from watchin T.V.?
> He has an extremely dominant personality for a puppy
You mean, he OBJECTS to your fear force
and intimidation, eh cov? There's only SO
many words you can use to describe INSANITY.
> that must be curbed
THAT'S HOWE COME your dog is AGGRESSIVE, cov.
> if he's going to be the family beloved dog for the long haul.
Or you'll MURDER IT an get a other.
> At any rate,
You mean, anyHOWE, cov. SPELLIN C-HOWENTS.
> you'd get a lot further with people by masking your anger
The Amazing Puppy Wizard ain't angry, cov.
You THINK The Amazing Puppy Wizard is
angry on accHOWENT of HE'S TRUTHFUL.
EVERY THING The Amazing Puppy Wizard SEZ, is FACT.
> and cutting the fucking insults
The Amazing Puppy Wizard doesn't INSULT, HE QUOTES.
> just because people may not have done
> everything YOUR way
You mean, NOT HURTIN and INTIMIDATING innocent
dumb critters and helpless children, cov?
> and hence, become instant incorrigible
> fuckups in your mind.
The Amazing Puppy Wizard cannot FORCE you
to do the only honorable thing left to do, cov.
> I will re-read your manual but need to also take
> steps to get a nice doggie for my family versus
> a dominant police dog mentality as I have now.
STUDY your FREE copy of The Amazing Puppy
Wizard's FREE WWW Wits' End Dog Training
Method Manual and ASK The Amazing Puppy
Wizard if you need any additional FREE HEELP.
> He's not my first shepard and certainly not my first dog
Robert Crim had three GSD'S PRYOR to MURDERIN
his Wonder Dog Fritz, thanks to the DOG ABUSERS
here abHOWETS he was askin for heelp.
> but he IS unique in that the tactics I've tried
> that worked with other dogs,
You mean, fear force intimidation avoidance
crating alphalpha rolling spraying aversives
and crating, cov?
> have not worked with this one.
DAMN?
> Not being a quitter though, my interest in
> resolving these issues continues.
You've only got two options, and they BOTH
are the ONLY honorable thing to do in this
kinda situation, cov.
<snip>
LUCKY THING The Amazing Puppy Wizard
got ADVICE for BOTH tactics, whichever you
prefer. If you'd PREFER NOT to learn HOWE
to pupperly handle raise and train your dogs
and children, there's always a other way HOWET.
HERE'S HOWE The Amazing Puppy Wizard's
STUDENTS DO IT GENTLY NEARLY INSTANTLY
and FOR FREE:
"Ama...@DCFWatch.com" <Ama...@dcfwatch.com
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>
> This makes me wonder. If the dog taught himself to get
> the kid off of it by biting, why can't you teach it another
> method.
When my dog nipped to protect my kids, i taught
her with distraction and praise.
> What did you teach her to do instead of nipping?
First we used distraction and praise to teach her
biting is not ok. 2 weeks ago we had to separate
her from the puppy in order to feed them.
She would run over, bite him then take his food.
If he licked the carpet where juice was spilled he
got bitten. just examples.
Then during meals, when she moved toward him
we (me, my husband, jerry and his wife) used sound
distraction and praise.
We trained her to stay away from him.
Then we let them get close, when she looked like
she was thinking of biting (snap) good girl! good
dog... and she would let him close.
since he advanced to eating her food she began
laying down and allowing him to take over. so we
taught her to find his food and eat his.
Just doing this has taught her to share. If he's too
roudy and the kids aren't inviting.. she will find her
rope and give it to him. if he takes her kong, she
does and finds his and either gets him to take his
own kong or simply lets him have his.
we did this by feeding her as much as she wanted,
giving her plenty of toys. we taught her there is always
more.. we broke that instinct of self preservation.
now they share from the same bowl. not even a growl.
then when she growled because my friends kid went near her
while she was nursing, we put her on lead just long enough to
come 1 foot from the kid. just in case. we put the kid on the
floor in her mum's lap with the puppy and used distraction and
praise if she seemed upset. then when she went near the kid in
a fashion like she was going to protect something.. the kids,
their food what have you..
we used praise and distraction. then it progressed to
the other day.. the kid was smacking kelly in the face.
pummeling beyond all belief she has taken from my
own kids.. like if the 23 lb 19 month old goes to stand
on her, kelly will brace herself and hold still so the baby
doesn't fall off.
when the baby stands on her we distract the baby and
praise kelly for waiting. so anyway.. she's being smacked
in the face by the same kid who likes to try and dig eyeballs
out. kelly snarled her lip.. no sound.. just showed her teeth...
sound and praise!
and she broke her thought and came over to me. when
the puppy was biting her so hard she cried (pits dont cry
easily) we used sound and praise when she went to defend
herself.
then we would go to him and distract him off. in less
than a week she learned to either a. drag him to me
or my husband still attached and shaking her ear/neck/leg
or b. distract him herself.
she sees us use distraction and gentle measures and
she does them too. when he's trying to dig a hole she
engages him in play.
when the kid is going somewhere she shouldn't.. kelly
will run over to her.. and seperate the kid from say the
kitchen and guide her in another direction.
when the puppy is biting something he shouldn't.. she
finds a kong and offers him the appropriate chewing method.
Dogs are smart. She only knew to nip or growl or bite. We
taught her gentle ways and she learned them. Dogs don't
want to bite kids or puppies or people.. but they want results.
if they know the food will never run out.. why should they
bite over food? if they know someone else will distract a
biting pup why would she bite him?
all she has to do is find me and i will do it... why does
she need to nip the lil kid again? she knows i will stop
the kid from hurting her. yes it still requires alot of
supervision, because this kid does in fact hurt her alot
and she is not part of our pack.
but that ispart of my responsibility as well.
Jerry calls it allomimetic behaviour.. i think its plain logic.
the dog won't bite if it knows a whimper or cry will
attract help. but if no one else is in control... as we
were not two weeks ago.. the dog will take matters
into its own hands.
And for Donna who asked how safe setting up an incident is?
it is very safe. If you know the dog will bite the kid if it
goes near its food.. you put the dog on lead and have someone
hold the lead securely. MAKE SURE the lead will not reach
say.. 1.5 feet away from the food dish. then let the kid go
near the food. the dog couldn't reach if it tried, and if it
did you are right there to priase distract.
It is much more difficult in the OP's situation since
the kid is close enough to bite. i'll let jerry elaborate
on that. and i wouldn't try that without his advice.
but if you know your dog likes to lunge through the
front door at the mailman.. put the dog on lead and
open the door and use praise/distraction.. the dog
won't go anywhere, but you can set it up to stop the
thought.
it's really a common sense thing. i knew i needed to set up a
situation and knew i couldn't risk a bite.. so i used a
freaking leash that wasn't long enough to reach the lil kid.
voila. by the time the dog realized it wanted to do something
bad.. it forgot it was on lead... and you distract/praise and
break the behaviour before the dog is mid lunge at the end of
the leash.
Amanda.
Whose vicious, aggressive, hopeless pit bull who should
be watched carefully walked by a barking dog who was off
lead as it growled at me and heeled immediately to "protect"
but never used more than 1 foot of the lead and didn't bark or
growl back.
From: Ama...@DCFWatch.com(Ama...@dcfwatch.com)
Subject: Re: when to start obedience
training classes Date: 2003-01-06 22:14:14 PST
w...@msn.com (Lt. Joel Walton, CPDT) wrote in message
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> Start training your puppy now using lure/reward and/or
> clicker training. Do not use any physical punishment.
>
> Find a great puppy class and get started at the earliest
> possible time.
>
> Good luck with your pup.
>
> best, Lt. Joel Walton, CPDT http://www.joelwalton.com Walton
> Family Dog Training LLC aggressive behavior cases
> Washington DC area author of: Positive Puppy Training Works
> Labrador Retrievers for Dummies
I used reward based training with limited results. When my
dog was hungry she obeyed and when she wasn't.. well she did
whatever she wanted. Her behaviours steadily increased to
overly protective tendencies, guarding etc.
She had previously been abused so I knew not to even
attempt any physical punishment. Eventually we had
a hard time walking if another dog was around. She
wouldn't try to escpae my grip, but she would become
very defensive and eventually i would have to sit down
with her and calm her down.
Fast forward to us bringing home a new puppy. She
wouldn't allow him near us. If he tried moving toward
us she bit him. Since he was 5 weeks old I needed an
expert to help me solve this problem and quickly.
Within 5 minutes of an email, Jerry Howe phone me at
home at 10pm on a sunday night. Sunday before christmas
to be exact. I followed his methods.. no punishment, no
scolding, no treats.. just praise and distraction.
Within two days my 20 mo female's milk came in and
she was nursing this pup every two hours or so for about
a half hour.. despite her raw nipples that were cracked and
bleeding.. she would become upset if i took him off of her..
preferring to nurse him.
Despite hearing many bad things about him, personally, and his
methods this dog continues making great strides. for instance
she had nipped my friends daughter for going after my child's
food.. while my child screamed and this lil girl continued
Kelly (my pit/staffy) took it upon herself to nip the child to
get her to leave my child alone.
Highly unacceptable, I phoned Jerry.
We followed his advice/training and today I found
my dog on the floor.. cornered.. being poked in the
eyes and hurt by this lil girl with her only response
being to show her teeth and growl quietly.
Whereas this is most unacceptable in my eyes.. my dog who
would have nipped this child restrained herself.. and when
praised and distracted showed remorse.. knowing she did
improperly.
Then later when this lil girl was bugging her again did not come
close to her. Given that merely a week ago my dog snarled at
this lil girl while she approached the nursing pup, this is
marked improvement.
She now eats in the same area as the same pup she
was biting two weeks ago.. and also lets him eat treats
even when she finishes hers. Previously our nights
were filled with endless barking due to our dog being outside
barking in response to our neighbors dogs.. now a Good girl!
Good dog sends her right into the house to lay down and
ignore them.
Why is this training so advanced and easier than the
reward/clicker methods? Why is jerry's methods giving me
incredible results with minimal effort and no treats/bribes?
Why are you advocating treat training when in reality you are
relying on the dog's desire for a small kibble being stronger
than its desire to run.. and sad to say.. you cannot treat
train when it comes to overly protective tendencies.
I used these methods to the t.. and i did receive results...
she does well at sit, stay, down,speak and shake.. she
knows off and come and git... but it simply came down
to their hunger pains being stronger than their wishes...
and you simply cannot train a dog to not be protective by
food. A good dog will ignore food and protect its pack.
As they should or all a burglar would need is some beggin'
strips.
Discipline - The "NO!" Command - HOWE Dogs And
Children Learn To Tell You "NO!" And HOWE COME
They RUN HOWET On You
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Amanda [mailto:ama...@dcfwatch.com]
> Sent: Tuesday, January 14, 2003 7:14 PM
> Subject: Re: Discipline
>
> On Tuesday 14 January 2003 20:47, T__ wrote:
>
> funny you bring this up... i met the most wonderful
> couple.. man and wife.. he's a dog trainer.. all his life
> who uses a technique that is ONLY praise and distraction
> with some family pack exercises.
>
>They spent the day with us sunday helping me on my
> two pits... one is a protective/aggressive 20 month old
> female who is my bubby :) and our 7 week male pup.
> anyway.. not only did i nip any and all aggression issues
> in mere minutes...he and his wife helped me with my kids.
>
> I was and always have been a spanker.
>
> It is all i knew how.. i never, ever wanted to be..
> but i was. my house/kids were out of control..
> i was always stressed.
>
> Since he and his wife came down sunday we've
> had a HUGE change... for the first time the kids
> didn't destroy my house before i woke up... my
> 3yo was in my bed coloring waiting for us to wake
> up... this is the first time she ever used paper
> :) she usually does walls, furniture.
>
> Anyway.. he told me to use sound/praise.. and it works.
>
> I have a 6 yo, 3.5 yo who is psycho child :) and a very
> bad-a$$ 19 month old. They are all smarter than I am and
> know it :) There has not been a temper tantrum in two
> days in my house.
>
> You guys have no idea how great this is.
>
> But best of all.. this method does NOT use the evil eye
> or a tone of that is in any way short of absolute praise..
> no shouting.. not even a quiet Chloe!.. nada.. ONLY
> praise.
>
> They even taught my kids not to take candy unless
> i say so.. (my oldest will literally let you pierce her
> ears for candy..
>
> it's been done twice and i keep taking em out) and
> now the bag of blow pops i forget on the floor in my
> closet (where we keep the girl's dressed) is still there
> and NO ONE has eaten one! My 3 yo is even helping
> me pick up the house.. the baby took my lingerie chest
> apart.. and she cleaned it up! first time!
>
> They don't even go out the open door without my
> offering it! they helped me sort laundry.. clean the
> living room... im amazed. The 3 yo got some yogurt
> from the fridge andwalked to our kitchen table, sat
> down and ate it.. she REFUSES to sit at the table
> and eat!
>
> We also taught them and the dogs to sit pretty so
> when they're climbing on my couch.. i go Can you
> show me how you sit pretty?? and they ALL hop
> down and show me to sit pretty with their feet NOT
> on the cofee table.. hands friggin folded.. i almost
> fell over..
>
> thanks for reminding me to share my joy!
>
> I'm not a spanker! I don't even yell! lol!
>
> here i picked names that shout well and i don't need em!!!
>
> > how old is your bub amanda? waht's the bub doing?/
> > Hello again ladies,
> > Amanda, I love your signature. I also do not spank my
> > daughter, however, she is at an age where she really is
> > asserting her independence.
> > Can anyone help with ideas of what I can do? Blessings,
> > T.
Subject: Re Discipline. Also, SLEEP!
Date: Wed, 15 Jan 2003 02:38:46 -0500
From: Amanda <ama...@dcfwatch.com>
> Can you go into this a little more? How did they
> accomplish all this in one day?
My learning is progressive. I email or call him with
questions. But, i'm getting most of it myself. Something
clicked.
How would we do it with our families?
that is kind of broad.. ask me specifics... or i'd still be
typing when your kids are in college ;)
> I really have problems controlling my temper when I am
> already stressed out and then C__ is hurting me:
Me too.. i was abused... my mom was psycho... and i had
problems with anger.. i took it personally when my 6 yr old
wouldn't clean her room... i would sometimes cry is was so
strung out.. i didn't wanna spank but i didn't know what to do
instead.. so i spanked.. and then spanking didn't work.. and
then my dogs went nuts and i called this trainer and he showed
me how to do it.
pulling my hair, scratching me, slapping me, etc.
Mine hit me on purpose alot.. scratching.. climbing on me..
hurting me and then laughing.
Now as I post.. please don't think im trying to be a know it
all.. i simply wanna relay what i have learned... as it is
i've only been spank free for a week now and yell free for two
days (my neighbors two streets over are happy :)
Children, dogs, people.. they do thinks wrong because it
ellicits your ultimate attention. Does your 3 year old enjoy
fingerpainting on walls? no... do they enjoy fighting the minute
you pick up the phone?? No.
They *know* they can command your attention.. and that's
what they
want. same reason your dogs fight.. they think it is
controlling you.
Your kids want you watching their every move.. making sure
they eat.. dont talk to strangers.. because it means you are
watching THEM and not them watching you as it should be. they
should stay within x feet of you.. because they like mom and
she's cool and she keeps em safe... they shouldn't run and
expect you to chase them.. because you won't always be there
to chase them... that's how kids die or get lost.
When they learn to follow you.. it's all good.
Now, take my 19 mo old. She had this habit of sipping 4 oz
from her bottle and demanding more. if i didn't refill it..
she threw a hgue fit. Now she hands me her bottle and says
more.. and i tickle her... then i pick up her bottle and
pretend im drinking it.. i offer her a drink and snatch it
back saying MY Baba!! She wants that bottle.. so she takes it
and drinks it.. even tho i didn't refill it. we had a huge
problem with them taking things they cant have and when i
wanted it they ran... now i give the baby (19mo) my finger..
and she grabs it.. and i wiggle and shout My finger! that's
mine! Gimme it back.. playfully.. and she resists.. and i go
"Ooh.. can i have it please?" and she gives it to me and i
gleefully say Thank you! and she says you're welcome.. and i
give her the finger back... then i hand her say a lighter...
and we wrestle for a minute.. and i say... can i have that???
and she gives it over etc. Of course sometimes she'll have a
cool! book! and ill ask can i have that.. and shell say No.
and i say that's ok! and tickle her or snap my fingers and
say good girl naya.. good job.. then ill start my game again
and wrestle and try to take it gently... then.. can i have
that??? she gives it over. this works with everything now.
> Or when he's ripping up my homework or something like
> that.
Yea... with the dog training you hide nothing.. no forced
control. you set the dog up for fail.. so you can distract
and praise and erase the thought.. same with the kids. Put
some unimportant paper all over.. when he goes to touch it..
make a sound and distract him.. then good boy, that's a nice
baby!... then repeat.. the minute he goes for the paper and
breaks the thgouth you throw him in the air and praise like
mad!
> How would I apply this in those situations? Also, what do
> you do in 'danger' situations (until you're close enough
> to distract them) - climbing on things, sticking metal
> objects into electrical outlets, trying to get into the
> oven, etc.?
Use your judgement.. if you have the distance/time to
distract... do it.. if you don't... pick them up and away..
but act like it's to throw em in the air.. so they don't know
youre forcing control by phsycially removing them... cuz when
you force control.. with the come command when you want your
dog away from something... or when you pull a dirty shoe from
your baby's mouth.. you put value on it.
Like when your kid puts a penny in its mouth.. youll try to
pry its mouth open to get it... and he'll clamp right down..
you gave that penny VALUE! it's not just a piece of crap..
mom WANTS IT!
so.. instead you make a game.. say you want em to smit it
out... walk somewhere else... attract their attention.. be
kinda sneaky... odds are the thing in their mought will get
annoying and they'll spit it out when they walk toward you...
if all else fails.. pry it outta their smiling jaws... snatch
em up away from falling down... but only when you have to..
then work realy hard to overcome that forced control.
Also don't make a big deal about it.. or else theyll learn not
only to command your attention, but also mom will always catch
me so she is watching me.. not me watching her.
> I never realized how spirited C__ was until I started
> tending other kids.
those are my kids. I have had social workers with their
degrees in child development stop offering me services cuz
they couldn't handle my kids... my friends call mine the
obstinate kids.
> They're docile kittens compared to C__! This brings up
> another question - what do you do when YOUR child is the
> bully?
if you catch it before it happens.. loud sound.. big
distraction and PRAISE. if you catch it afterward... distract
and say oh my goodness! and pay attention to the other kid...
he wont get the attention... then explain how that hurts.
odds are your kid won't hurt another kid if he truly
understands its not nice.
> C__ is always beating the other boy over the head when he
> comes over.
> We don't hit in anger in our family
i have.. everyone does in my family... i did it a few times
over 4 years... but that is because i didn't know how not to.
i know now.. and i wanna tell everyone i can.. so someone else
doesn't spank their kids due to a lack of knowledge.
> (we do it playfully sometimes, so we are curtailing that
> in case it is giving him ideas)
my kids, 6yo, 3yo and 19 month old, favorite game is chasing
around the house (all 4 of us) with wooden spools yelling at
the top of our lungs "I'm gonna beat your a$$.. HA HA HA... no
IM gonna beat YOUR a$$ MU HA HA HA" my neighbors prolly
think im nuts.. but the kids love it dog even plays too
> but I admit that after I have been trying to get him to go
> to sleep for 45 minutes, I get a little rough sometimes.
> It's really frustrating. He'll be dead tired - eyes
> bright red, fussy, eyes almost closing every 5 seconds.
It gets worse... they all do it around that time.. they don't
want to sleep.. andyou know what? they don't grow out of it
until they're parents :) it's one of those times you have to
use your patience and keep distracting and praising.
> So I'll take him into the bedroom, and lay down to nurse
> him. He'll nurse for about 5 seconds and then jump up and
> run to the window and start bending the blinds.
he wants you upset.. he wants your undivided attention. you
have to refuse it.. no evil eye.. no "conner" quiet or not..
no anger.. complete nonchalance.. they have to have a total
complete entire lack fo negative attention.. and all they'll
be able to do is sit back and enjoy the positive!
One shout.. one name call.. one No! and it takes awhile to
work up to the positive only.
> So I gently pick him up and lay him back down.
try not to.. but if you have to ok
> And we repeat the process over 10000 times.
when he goes to sit up.. when yous see the thought on his
face.. distract with sound and follow with praise or a song or
giggle.
> Then I get frustrated and lay him down less gently.
better than my method of plop em in the crib and let em cry.
No anger.. stay calm.. meditate, pray.. breath.. try to
remember they will not always be this small.. and youll never,
ever for anything get it back. it's what im using
> That makes him cry, which is the last straw that
> FINALLY gets him to nurse to sleep.
He got you riled up.. what he wanted.. time to sleep.
> Writing it out, I thought of something. He must have a
> lot of excess tension he needs to release before sleeping,
> and finally crying releases it for him.
no way... crying isn't a release.. sometimes.. maybe for
some people.. crying is frustration, pain, hunger,
sadness... sometimes joy.. sometimes tension.. but not
because of his life.. because he's insecure... their dealing
with negative and positive.. and thats what makes em
insecure.
> Any good ways to do this that don't involve crying?
distraction and praise.. if all else fails get up and dance..
fast for day.. slow rocking at night.
> Turning on soft music and swaying in the sling used to
> work for us, but now he either grabs at everything he can
> reach or bends over backwards until he's hanging upside
> down.
cuzhe knows what you're doing. hold him instead.. or sit him
in your lap on the bed and rock
> Putting the sling over his shoulders to prevent that
> doesn't work either. He acts like he is being tortured
> and screams and fights to get out.
becuase it is forced control.
> Katie
Amanda
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