-I-have no prom date!
~~meaghyn
have a dress because my fiance can't go with me. After much pleading,
his boss refuses to give him the night off. The boss's reasoning is
that he asked tom (my fiance) in JANUARY if he was going and he said no,
and that his boss can't bend to him because he changed his mind. But
things change in _5_ months. I'm so pissed. Tom's upset, but he still
wants me to go, so I had to send a pathetic email to my friends to see
if someone will go with me. Because I was supposed to be going with
tom, no one thought of me as a potential date, and now everyone is
paired. so now I have to sorta import someone. I asked the only guy at
work I know well enough, but he can't. argh.
~~meaghyn
Aimee Lortskell
> my prom is in about 3 weeks, which isn't much in prom time. I don't
> have a dress because my fiance can't go with me. After much pleading,
> his boss refuses to give him the night off. The boss's reasoning is
> that he asked tom (my fiance) in JANUARY if he was going and he said no,
> and that his boss can't bend to him because he changed his mind.
is your fiance also in HS, in a typical HS job? 'cause if he is, then
maybe he should just call in sick that night or quit. if this is
important to you guys, then some crapass job really shouldn't stand in the
way.
once a boss of mine wanted me to work instead of going to my sister's baby
shower. like it was worth it to do a minimum wage shift to miss that. no
way.
Aimee the Magdalene
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~~meaghyn
Aimee Lortskell wrote:
> ~~meaghyn <tori_...@usa.net> wrote:
> > my prom is in about 3 weeks, which isn't much in prom time. is your
> fiance also in HS, in a typical HS job? 'cause if he is, then
He would, except this is his full time job. he graduated last year, and this
is what he does instead of school. His boss told him that if he didn't come in
that night, he's take away his medical coverage, which starts just 3 days
before the prom. I wanna kill the boss, but at the same time, I don't want
tom to lose his job...he makes good money there.
~~meaghyn
Christopher Gould
: > have a dress because my fiance can't go with me.
: once a boss of mine wanted me to work instead of going to my sister's baby
: shower. like it was worth it to do a minimum wage shift to miss that. no
: way.
Hey Aimee! Why don't *you* go to the prom with her?
cag (who'd go himself, if meaghyn wanted to date a couple)
Icarus
~~meaghyn wrote:
>
> Aimee Lortskell wrote:
>
> > ~~meaghyn <tori_...@usa.net> wrote:
> > > my prom is in about 3 weeks, which isn't much in prom time. is your
> > fiance also in HS, in a typical HS job? 'cause if he is, then
>
> He would, except this is his full time job. he graduated last year, and this
> is what he does instead of school. His boss told him that if he didn't come in
> that night, he's take away his medical coverage, which starts just 3 days
> before the prom. I wanna kill the boss, but at the same time, I don't want
> tom to lose his job...he makes good money there.
First, I highly suspect it must be illegal for his boss to hold his
medical coverage over his head like that.
Second, IMHO, making good money does not equate to a good job or
happiness. Personally, I couldn't work under someone who could be such
a hard-ass, especially one who made threats like that.
Tom should check into whether that is even legal.....
higs
icarus
Aimee Lortskell
> Aimee Lortskell wrote:
> > my prom is in about 3 weeks, which isn't much in prom time. is your
> > fiance also in HS, in a typical HS job? 'cause if he is, then
> He would, except this is his full time job. he graduated last year, and this
> is what he does instead of school. His boss told him that if he didn't come in
> that night, he's take away his medical coverage, which starts just 3 days
> before the prom.
how the hell does that work? i dunno, sounds like an empty threat to me.
not to mention a pathetic one.
> I wanna kill the boss, but at the same time, I don't want
> tom to lose his job...he makes good money there.
but his boss treats him like shit, which really makes the money not worth
it. regardless of promming or not promming, tom should really start
looking for another job. and he should let his boss know that he won't
take that kind of crap.
Aimee Lortskell
> Aimee Lortskell (ai...@rmta.org) wrote:
> : once a boss of mine wanted me to work instead of going to my sister's baby
> : shower. like it was worth it to do a minimum wage shift to miss that. no
> : way.
> Hey Aimee! Why don't *you* go to the prom with her?
i dunno, does meaghan really want to bring a fat old chick to prom? sure,
that would be a dream come true to many, but given the nostalgia riding on
prom, it might be a letdown to have your evil date pointing and laughing
at all the promlike activities. there was a reason i didn't go to my own
prom, even though jason's mom begged and begged us. OTOH, i could get
meaghan alcohol. ;)
maybe i could fill in for tom that night. i'd straighten his boss right
out for him.
Aimee the Magdalene
& can't stop this wonderful girl/this woman now &
& this mother in us/can't stop where we come from &
& and i held you close when you hurt me once &
& - Tori Amos &
~~meaghyn
Aimee Lortskell wrote:
> maybe i could fill in for tom that night.
i appreciate the suggestion, but now I have the stupid date and i can't find a
stupid dress. Now I'm just pissed because they must think that only flat girls go
to the prom. know how some dresses are sewn with a line that's supposed to go
under the bust? I tried on a 13/14, and it was only halfway down my chest.
PEOPLE HAVE BREASTS!! argh. I hate it...it's totally unfair. I"m not that
fat....ugh...and to top it all off, I just lot 8 pounds this week....but I can't
tell. argh.......but thanks, aimee...I'll keep you in mind! by the way, the
date is the guy I went to his junior prom with, Kevin Miller...I went as a
Freshmeat...this will be my 3rd prom, if I can find a stupid dress.
~~meaghyn
Aimee Lortskell
> Aimee Lortskell wrote:
> > maybe i could fill in for tom that night.
> i appreciate the suggestion, but now I have the stupid date and i can't find a
> stupid dress. Now I'm just pissed because they must think that only flat girls go
> to the prom.
oh yeah. finding formalwear for big hooters is a nightmare. been there,
done that. the only dress to fit my bust properly has been my wedding
dress, and that only because it was made just for me.
[snips]
> and to top it all off, I just lot 8 pounds this week....but I can't
> tell.
um...don't lose weight that quickly. it's bad, m'kay?
i've lost 15 pounds this year, and i can't tell. i dunno where it was or
where it went. jason says it's noticeable, but i can't see it.
Chat2pat
>i've lost 15 pounds this year, and i can't tell. i dunno where it was or
>where it went. jason says it's noticeable, but i can't see it.
>
Thanks a whole hell of a lot.
:)
*marci*
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Jupiter
>
> my prom is in about 3 weeks, which isn't much in prom time. I don't
> his boss refuses to give him the night off. The boss's reasoning is
> that he asked tom (my fiance) in JANUARY if he was going and he said no,
> things change in _5_ months. I'm so pissed. Tom's upset, but he still
> wants me to go, so I had to send a pathetic email to my friends to see
> if someone will go with me. Because I was supposed to be going with
> tom, no one thought of me as a potential date, and now everyone is
> paired. so now I have to sorta import someone. I asked the only guy at
> work I know well enough, but he can't. argh.
>
> ~~meaghyn
I suppose I know how my girlfriend (soon to be fiancee) feels. Her
prom is coming up, but I did not really want to go. I remember when I
was in HS and I just hated all the cliches. Everybody had their group
here and there and I was the outcast. I sat alone. Anyway, my love was
planning on not going, but I told her I would. So, now I have to fly
out to take her to the prom. She said she would not go if I did not
come, but she was tempted to take someone else, but I felt jealous and
I did not want her to go with someone else. Hmmm...maybe you can make
him feel jealous or something and get him to find a way to take you.
Most unlikely, but you never know.
jupiter
JB Bridge
<ai...@rmta.org> which said:
>i've lost 15 pounds this year, and i can't tell. i dunno where it was or
>where it went. jason says it's noticeable, but i can't see it.
well I certainly can. lately you've had a more "hourglass" shape than
usual. okay, it's as big as the hourglass that Batman and Robin was
trapped in during one of the 60's series' cliffhangers. ;) but still,
i have definately noticed that you've lost some on the wasteline.
every so often when I visit my parents, they comment that i've lost
some, but hell if I can tell where!
JB Bridge
"I'm not animated to do that!!" - Brak
Jeni Grant
: i appreciate the suggestion, but now I have the stupid date and i can't find a
: stupid dress. Now I'm just pissed because they must think that only flat girls go
: to the prom. know how some dresses are sewn with a line that's supposed to go
: under the bust? I tried on a 13/14, and it was only halfway down my chest.
: PEOPLE HAVE BREASTS!! argh. I hate it...it's totally unfair. I"m not that
: fat....ugh...and to top it all off, I just lot 8 pounds this week....but I can't
: tell. argh.......but thanks, aimee...I'll keep you in mind! by the way, the
: date is the guy I went to his junior prom with, Kevin Miller...I went as a
: Freshmeat...this will be my 3rd prom, if I can find a stupid dress.
a little off the wall, but have you considered making, or having your
dress made? i did it for both my proms. finding a seamstress and buying
the fabric yourself really isn't that much more expensive (in a lot of
cases, it's less expensive) than buying a dress off the rack. plus, you
get a spiffy outfit that's everything you wanted to be, plus it fits! it's
the way to go, i tell you. =)
-jeni-
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~~meaghyn
Jeni Grant wrote:
> a little off the wall, but have you considered making, or having your
> dress made? i did it for both my proms. finding a seamstress and buying
I did...I bought a pattern and everything. But I figured I made the decision to go to
prom to late to have the dress made.
~~meaghyn
~~meaghyn
In other prom related news, I tiredon more dresses last night. As I was dragging my
fiance through the mall, yet again, I ran into my only big-chested friend nora...she's a
little heavy like me, but we both have big chests...she's the only one I can borrow
clothes from. Anyway, she said she had to buy a dress that was a size 18! and have the
bottom hemmed up.....all because of her chest...now I'm only 5'2"...if I get a dress
that big, I'll have enough material left over to make a purse and a stole! :) I
finally found a dress that did fit, but it didn't look right on me...I"m too short to
wear a lot of these. And I got my period....I"m just a walking ray of sunshine. I was
drowning my miseries into a low-fat ice cream sundae, and some girl was walking by
saying "I can't stand it...I haven't lost any weight, just inches..." I was just like
"fuck you" and I took another bite of my ice cream. argh. So my mom's taking me dress
shopping again tonight, after I go to the gym and do treadmill like a friggon hamster.
ah.
~~meaghyn
Elin Dreaming Girl Sjoelie
15:33:51 -0400, ~~meaghyn <tori_...@usa.net> wrote:
[snip the whole thing]
I'm sorry! *bighig* I hope things works out and that you get to the
prom! I'm sending all the good thoughts I can in your direction! Good
luck!
Elin
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Elin Dreaming Girl Sjoelie
18:19:53 -0400, ~~meaghyn <tori_...@usa.net> wrote:
>to the prom. know how some dresses are sewn with a line that's supposed to go
>under the bust? I tried on a 13/14, and it was only halfway down my chest.
>PEOPLE HAVE BREASTS!! argh. I hate it...it's totally unfair. I"m not that
Oh, I know your feeling! Isn't that annoying? I can't believe that
they actually think women comes in three sizes: small, medium and
large. No breasts, no hips, no arse. I know your problem when it comes
to dresses. They often don't fit, b/c of that. *sigh* Why don't they
make clothes for real women?
Dances With Cars
sjoe...@cf.ac.uk (Elin "Dreaming Girl" Sjoelie) wrote:
<snip not being able to find clothes that fit properly>
>Oh, I know your feeling! Isn't that annoying? I can't believe that
>they actually think women comes in three sizes: small, medium and
>large. No breasts, no hips, no arse. I know your problem when it comes
>to dresses. They often don't fit, b/c of that. *sigh* Why don't they
>make clothes for real women?
Well, they do make clothes for real women - unfortunately they just
assume that there's way more of one specific type of real woman than
there actually is. :P
As ever I remain
-Dances With Cars (short and assy, with a sister who's straight, thin,
and model-worthy. we _both_ hate shopping for clothes. that's just
fucked up right there.)
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to say that I have no grasp of it whatsoever."
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Aimee Lortskell
> <ai...@rmta.org> which said:
> >i've lost 15 pounds this year, and i can't tell. i dunno where it was or
> >where it went. jason says it's noticeable, but i can't see it.
> well I certainly can. lately you've had a more "hourglass" shape than
> usual. okay, it's as big as the hourglass that Batman and Robin was
> trapped in during one of the 60's series' cliffhangers. ;) but still,
> i have definately noticed that you've lost some on the wasteline.
erm...spelling, JB. it should be waistline. the above rather suggests
that my anus is shrinking. and i'd certainly like to know how you'd know
that!
> every so often when I visit my parents, they comment that i've lost
> some, but hell if I can tell where!
jason says my ass has gotten smaller, too. my upper back is dying for my
teats to shrink, but i have the feeling they'll be the last to go, since
they were the first to grow. it used to be that *any* weight i gained
went right to my bust.
Aimee the Magdalene
~~~~~~~the willfully misunderstood lyrics .sig~~~~~~~~
~ nipples come and nipples go and nipple back to me ~
~ 6:58, are you sure where my spork is? ~
~ - not quite Tori Amos ~
~ weep not for the mammaries - sorta Sarah McLachlan ~
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Talamasca
<ai...@rmta.org> loudly cursed:
>jason says my ass has gotten smaller, too.
Noooooooooooooo!!!
8^)
(It's not a one-liner if it's about Aimee's ass, since said
ass would surely take up more than one line.)
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"You underestimate the power of the clenching butt!"
--Aimee Lortskell
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Aimee Lortskell
> <ai...@rmta.org> loudly cursed:
> >jason says my ass has gotten smaller, too.
> Noooooooooooooo!!!
> 8^)
> (It's not a one-liner if it's about Aimee's ass, since said
> ass would surely take up more than one line.)
don't worry, my ass will remain powerful, regardless of its size. and
really, my ass has never been small, even when i was thin.