Best, LT........
"The secret of Education is respecting the pupil."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Two thoughts.
1. Yes, rmo, like any newsgroup, is indeed different from a mailing list or
an AOL group. Moderating is technically impossible (though a new opera
newsgroup with a moderator could be created).
2. What exactly is so bad about the group right now? It seems pretty tame
to me. We've survived some pretty rough times over the years. I don't
think the group is in any danger of extinction.
mdl
> [...] I'm not sure a moderator would be the solution - perhaps the effect
> would have disadvantages in the loss of spontaneity,
> and constraints, that the more civil among us don't need nor deserve!
> But the PLONK sounds dandy - EXCEPT......what if we plonk a real
> "undesirable", and some poster we _wish_ to read - has "quoted" the
> pest?
> So, "what to do" ?
For a start, you might try resisting the urge to respond to every obnoxious
or insulting post.
When someone else says something that you feel insults you or makes you
look bad, the natural human reaction is to want to answer back to "defend"
yourself. But nine times out of ten it is both unnecessary and
counterproductive.
mdl
These seem to be posters who are coming here because of cross-posting from
other ngs, as far as I can see, and that's what concerns me. Great if others
don't feel that there's an infestation from cross-posting, I want to be
wrong, but that was my concern. Also, just to clarify, I'm' certainly not
big on the idea of a moderator, but I do have the sense that gresham's law
can apply here. And I do have the sense that there's a lot more lurking by
those who are relly interested in the topic, and a lot more contributions
and responses to these cross-posters. Look, if it goes away, it's great.
"Mark D. Lew" <mark...@earthlink.net> wrote in message
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--- We've BOTH done that "defense"
of ourselves, so have most, and THOUGH I feel you overestimate in the
above "ratio" of unnecessariness and counterproductivity, your point is
essentially correct!
There's nothing wrong with defending oneself when _honestly_
feeling insulted,
but when your adversary is trying for a marathon event - and this
becomes _increasingly obvious_ - it's time to STOP,
and begin to ignore the would-be "marathon star"!!
So , agreed!!
I'd rather leave the group open to the occasional nut than to give it up to
the opinions of an all-knowing, all-powerful "moderator."
Valfer
In a rare biblical mood today.
"REG" <Rich...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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I've seen worse, and we've survived them all. Let things stand.
--
Matthew B. Tepper: WWW, science fiction, classical music, ducks!
My personal home page -- http://home.earthlink.net/~oy/index.html
My main music page --- http://home.earthlink.net/~oy/berlioz.html
To write to me, do for my address what Androcles did for the lion
Top 3 worst UK exports: Mad-cow; Foot-and-mouth; Charlotte Church
"AMEN-hotep".
==G/P Dave
> --- We've BOTH done that "defense"
> of ourselves, so have most,
True.
> There's nothing wrong with defending oneself when _honestly_
> feeling insulted,
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it. But you mentioned being
"sucked into" flame wars, and that's a good way to avoid it.
mdl
> Just to clarify, it seems in the last very few days that we've had a number
> of people come in who had no interestin in opera or music whatsoever, and
> who just seemed interested in discussions (but that's not really the word)
> of purely political and historical matters (obviously, I've done a great
> deal of that myself recently, but I don't think it's anything like the same
> thing.)
I hadn't noticed. Is that in the current Israel threads? I haven't been
following them.
> These seem to be posters who are coming here because of cross-posting from
> other ngs, as far as I can see, and that's what concerns me.
Sometimes cross-posted threads are on topics that genuinely involve all the
groups involved. Other times, RMO's name is added to the headers even
though no one in RMO participates. In the latter case, I don't think of
that as others invading our group; rather, we're receiving an extraneous
copy of a conversation going on somewhere else.
mdl
REG wrote:
>
> These seem to be posters who are coming here because of cross-posting from
> other ngs, as far as I can see, and that's what concerns me. Great if others
> don't feel that there's an infestation from cross-posting, I want to be
> wrong, but that was my concern.
Oh, yes, a small "infestation" perhaps, but nothing like
we've experienced in the past! So long as people here do
not respond (or at least eliminate the cross-posts) it
should exterminate itself fairly soon.
Mark Zimmerman * Chicago
To reply remove "nospam"
That "oprobrium" was in NO WAY directed at YOU!
I _prefaced_ what I said, with "in this case" - and referred to
SOMEone who had approprated PART OF your "Divamanque"
name-addition for his attempt at literary "cutesiness" !!
I MOST CERTAINLY do NOT regard YOU as a "loser", a "monkey" nor any
other such nouns - so ghastly when misapplied
which was not the case (_in this case_)!!
I hope that is now clear.
--- That "good way" coming into play-
when it becomes obvious that ONE party won't "dry up"......so the other,
as I realize from exasperating recent experience, must be "the sensible
one"..
and turn away....to worthwhile and intelligent posters (who,
fortunately, are still the MAJORITY in rmo)!!
The "Block Sender" command works perfectly on my system, as well as most
probably all systems. That is a very powerful weapon against the boors,
bores & bigots. However, as far as a "modifier" proposal, I do not think it
a good idea with the exception of preventing the lengthy off topic postings.
Besides, the only individual suitable for the position is far too shy,
gentlemanly, kindly & sophisticated to accept the position & thereby
exercise such authority. I of course refer to Monsieur Andre Eduoard.
Regards,
BigPauliePistachio a/k/a DonPaolo
Also, your original post, when it came over on my server, was sandwiched
between LT's priceless description of Domingo's "beauty-mark-mole" as Almaviva
and Luca Logi's sunny post about the temperature where Italian is spoken (and
Karen's, Helen's and Tresbirri's around that same time, too). "Sturm" clouds
evaporate under skies like that (until, of course, they don't, but that's
another topic). And what about A21, AE and romain (wherever ARE you)? Much as I
adore our sister group Opera-L, I don't see all these folks (and some post
there) having this much fun on the other list.
Of course, I suspect that you posed your question to startle everybody into
realizing how valuable our conversation is.
I know I'm being presumptuous, having subscribed to r.m.o for only a few
months, but that's my coupla cents.
In friendship, David
"Valfer" <val...@msn.com> wrote in message
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RE Cassandra G
"Evelyn Vogt Gamble (Divamanque)" <evg...@earthlink.net> wrote in message
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REG the cat's paw
"Don Paolo" <donp...@erols.com> wrote in message
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Mr announcer : I will not hold it against you if you pronounce the name
right, even if it sounds as if you were saying the taboo word "titties."
Yo, bozo, learn the langwich! Nefertiti was not Fluffyan! After all,
English slang was a long way coming 2,000 years BC, capeesh? Youse being
stoopid, or what? May the cheez whiz in your next cheesesteak turn out
sour, you ignant fool!
Valfer
Who has lived here long enough to forget Spanish, and instead of English,
has learned Fluffyan (trans. Philadelphian). Yo, help!
"GRNDPADAVE" <grndp...@aol.com> wrote in message
news:20010606161220...@ng-mm1.aol.com...
--- Nothing wrong "by me" with The Bard , nor any obscure
film-reference,
But NOT "force-fed" WITH accompanying ridicule translating to : "I
know MORE than YOU-OOO, you, you, nothing!!"
--- Yeah,.....we DO have some neat stuff around here!!!!
---AWWWW Shhoooot!!!
An' ah had mah big ol' heart aallll
set ta trah mah hayand at "The Plonk"........Even if only for
that sound-effect!!
Guess I'll have to remain content with operatic sounds!! :-)
Best, LT........
" I Changed Her Oil, But She Changed My Life"
- Country/Western song title.
Anne Baxter did have nice "tiris", though.
Valfer
"Leonard Tillman" <tapef...@webtv.net> wrote in message
news:11354-3B1...@storefull-218.iap.bryant.webtv.net...
Valfer wrote:
"Perhaps. I'm not an expert, and I don't think DeMille was much into
historical accuracy. Every time I watch the movie, I get the mental
image of Moses pulling a gun on Pharaoh, thus sparing Egypt the seven
plagues.
Anne Baxter did have nice "tiris", though.
Valfer
"Leonard Tillman" <tapef...@webtv.net> wrote in message
news:11354-3B1...@storefull-218.iap.bryant.webtv.net...
"Nefertiti" was the gal's correct name...... ......., but wasn't
"Neferti_r_i" the Princess of Egypt (Anne Baxter) in the '50's "The Ten
Commandments"?
And was she the very same character?
Best,
LT........
Best, LT........
DonP.
REG <Rich...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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Leonard Tillman wrote:
>
> "Nefertiti" was the gal's correct name......
> ......., but wasn't "Neferti_r_i" the Princess of Egypt (Anne Baxter)
> in the '50's "The Ten Commandments"?
> And was she the very same character?
Probably, considering Hollywood's rather casual attitude
toward historical accuracy - expecially in those days. And
I think they still had the Hayes office to contend with,
too, so some bozo probably objected to the "titty" part -
even though I'm under the impression her name should be
pronounced "Nefer-tee-tee".
>There's nothing wrong with defending oneself when _honestly_
> feeling insulted,
Here's something else that is worth remembering: if the person who insults
you is an obvious troublemaker, then quite a lot of posters will probably
have him/her killfiled already. If you respond to the insults, you are
repeating these nasty comments to plenty of people who would never see
them otherwise.
I find it very easy to killfile obvious trolls - it's the otherwise
reasonable people who insist on answering them that fill my screen with
junk threads.
Eveleen McAuley
DonP.
Leonard Tillman <tapef...@webtv.net> wrote in message
news:13883-3B1...@storefull-211.iap.bryant.webtv.net...
> Here's something else that is worth remembering: if the person who
> insults you is an obvious troublemaker, then quite a lot of posters
> will probably have him/her killfiled already.
Would that it were so; I killfiled one particularly obnoxious supporter of
a certain performer I now like to call "the squeaky leek" once I decided
that his posts had no value for me, but others kept on answering his
rubbish, so I had to do my best to navigate around the potholes.
--
Matthew B. Tepper: WWW, science fiction, classical music, ducks!
My personal home page -- http://home.earthlink.net/~oy/index.html
My main music page --- http://home.earthlink.net/~oy/berlioz.html
To write to me, do for my address what Androcles did for the lion
Top 3 worst UK exports: Mad-cow; Foot-and-mouth; Charlotte Church
> Plonkless in the grass, alas.
Surely one of Sharpless' assistants? <g>
FWIW, I have discovered that the correspondents in de.rec.music.klassik
use _plonken_ as a verb: "Plonkst du einen, so plonk ihn richtig!" ("If
you plonk someone, plonk him right!")
--
E.A.C. ("Wer am letzten plonkt, plonkt am besten." ["He who plonks last
plonks best."])
"Wer mich plonkst, plonk Ihn weider zweimal zuruck." {He who plonks me, plonk
him back twice}
Mark
(LT's comments in parentheses)
"Leonard Tillman <tapef...@webtv.net> wrote :
"There's nothing wrong with defending oneself when _honestly_ feeling
insulted"
Here's something else that is worth remembering: if the person who
insults you is an obvious troublemaker, then quite a lot of posters will
probably have him/her killfiled already.
(whether or not he/she is killfiled by some, those whose systems lack
that feature are not shielded from the annoyance, and may at times be
targeted. )
If you respond to the insults, you are repeating these nasty comments
to plenty of people who would never see them otherwise.
(whether or not they would does not justify an absolute and complete
"turning the other cheek" on the part of the one attacked, who has more
right to complain than those "witnessing" what HE didn't initiate!!
...Doing so would be up to that person, and not everyone finds that
satisfactory, !!)
I find it very easy to killfile obvious trolls -
(_I_ don't find it very easy, since it's _impossible_ with my system
that doesn't have that feature!!)
it's the otherwise reasonable people who insist on answering them that
fill my
screen with junk threads.
(Again, it's not _unreasonable_ to object to the
objectionable!....though understanding that seems to be a matter of
"whose ox is being gored"!!
The one responsible for filling your screen, and mine, and many
others , with junk threads - is the one who decided to behave rudely and
foolishly to BEGIN with and persisted for a remarkably long while!! -
which might be difficult to know without having read the exchange,
however annoying!!
The one thing that CAN be agreed upon is for the "offended party"
to, in the future, put a LIMIT on his response to such baiting - when
the instigator WON'T STOP!!)
Eveleen McAuley"
"M. Slater" <harpsic...@aol.comedy> wrote in message
news:20010608023948...@ng-mr1.aol.com...
Eric
Leonard Tillman wrote
<snip>
>"Wer am letzten plonkt, plonkt am besten."
["He who plonks last
>plonks best."])
Or, from Falstaff: "Plonka ben chi plonka la plonkata final!"
Ou en francais
"Plonque bien qui plonque le dernier!"
Orphee
Hey, I for one have stopped addressing The Tillman directly. It seems more
effective to let him alienate readers here with his manic posts over time, the
theory being that the more he jumps in with both feet on virtually every
thread, the more heartily sick of him most in the group will become. I do
note, however, that apparently Tresberri and Valfer have taken a shine to him.
I gather they are French.
Ancona
Best, LT
" Telegram: 'Have a wonderful wish -
time you were here!!' "
DonP, Il Vergognato
tresbirri <tres...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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DP
Leonard Tillman <tapef...@webtv.net> wrote in message
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Ahhh,,yes...Brrizheet!!!, a very lovely young lady of that
late-'50's time!!
AND, though not exactly kittenish, there was....ZSA ZSA - which
reminds me:
In the film, "Moulin Rouge" (the old film), her character sang the
gorgeous and famed theme-song....her sound matched her stunning beauty
of face and form,-
BUT, - Was that really Zsa Zsa's VOICE??.....It did seem to match her
speaking-voice!!
Nowadays: Bridget Fonda, Mira Sorvino, Caroline Rhea, Leah Rimini, and
Camryn Manheim. Go figure!
"Eric Jennings" <Eric.J...@icl.com> wrote in
news:9fqdlg$2vmb$1...@news.icl.se:
--
><si...@webtv.net> wrote:
>
>> Plonkless in the grass, alas.
>
> Surely one of Sharpless' assistants? <g>
>
> FWIW, I have discovered that the correspondents in de.rec.music.klassik
> use _plonken_ as a verb: "Plonkst du einen, so plonk ihn richtig!" ("If
> you plonk someone, plonk him right!")
Well, it's better than "schtroumpher" in French!
Advice to Cio-Cio San: "B.F. Pinkerton, plonk, plonk!"
> (You're gonna KILL me)....
> Turandot: Pling Plang Plong
Popolo di Kaplonko.
> Probably, considering Hollywood's rather casual attitude
> toward historical accuracy - expecially in those days.
As opposed to these days? But I suppose you have a point. Disney's
pursuit of historical inaccuracy is anything but casual.
--
In article <28952-3B2...@storefull-212.iap.bryant.webtv.net>,
tapef...@webtv.net (Leonard Tillman) wrote:
> (whether or not they would does not justify an absolute and complete
> "turning the other cheek" on the part of the one attacked, who has more
> right to complain than those "witnessing" what HE didn't initiate!!
> ...Doing so would be up to that person, and not everyone finds that
> satisfactory, !!)
Perhaps the key is not so much in learning to refrain from responding when
offended, but rather to learn to not be so easily offended in the first
place. Of course there is a point where a line must be drawn, and each of
us has his own limits, but much of the petty rudeness that some people feel
a need to "defend" against here is really very trivial stuff that hardly
needs to be noticed.
mdl
>To which E.A.C. replied:
>"Surely one of Sharpless' assistants?
You win E.A.C. I can't top that one. LOL
Job well done, sir. Best John
--- Ahhhemmmm......It seems that the aforementioned Mr.
Plonkless, after taking his "fill" of sunshine on that grassy area for
the day, - has revealed himself to be,
...finally...after all.....none other than
the _great-great-grandson_ of the opera's kindly consul!!!!!
The now-distinguished descendent chuckled that he would have been the
GRANDSON, - But, alas , the consul-progenitor had a stuttering
affliction.....!!
mdl
*frequently, constantly
Go thou and plonk no more.
Ancona
"Va, moribondo, il capestro t'aspetta!!"
tresbirri, still in a Scarpia mood
Don Paolo wrote:
>
> Hay - after AE gets through, there ain't none to be had on the West Coast.
> Anyway, I'm a Pinot Grigio guzzler meself!
>
> DonP.
> REG <Rich...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
> news:c4AT6.4679$wh6.1...@typhoon.nyc.rr.com...
> > Yes, you're right, I think we should force AE to accept the moderator
> > position - perhaps a bottle of Merlot will do...but none for you Don P
> >
> >
> > REG the cat's paw
> >
> >
> > "Don Paolo" <donp...@erols.com> wrote in message
> > news:9fmeen$4co$1...@bob.news.rcn.net...
> > > Look at it this way, Reg. RMO is like the Olive Garden, when you post
> > here,
> > > you're family. And, just like any "family", there are one's favorites &
> > > there are those who fit into the category of "You can choose your
> friends,
> > > but you cannot choose your relatives".
> > >
> > > The "Block Sender" command works perfectly on my system, as well as most
> > > probably all systems. That is a very powerful weapon against the boors,
> > > bores & bigots. However, as far as a "modifier" proposal, I do not
> think
> > it
> > > a good idea with the exception of preventing the lengthy off topic
> > postings.
> > > Besides, the only individual suitable for the position is far too shy,
> > > gentlemanly, kindly & sophisticated to accept the position & thereby
> > > exercise such authority. I of course refer to Monsieur Andre Eduoard.
> > >
> > > Regards,
> > >
> > > BigPauliePistachio a/k/a DonPaolo
> > >
> > >
> >
> >
Best, LT
" Telegram: 'Having a wonderful wish -
time you were here!!' "
Anyway, so much (and plenty it has
BEEN!!) for.....that!!
L "the placated" T
Ancona21 wrote:
>
>
> Hey, I for one have stopped addressing The Tillman directly. It seems more
> effective to let him alienate readers here with his manic posts over time, the
> theory being that the more he jumps in with both feet on virtually every
> thread, the more heartily sick of him most in the group will become. I do
> note, however, that apparently Tresberri and Valfer have taken a shine to him.
> I gather they are French.
You have? Why? He often has some very interesting things
to say.
>
> Ancona
--- Thanks for that!! - but please don't expect an honest, or even
rational answer
from such an incorrigable troll! - You won't receive any!!
Sincerely,
LT
JL
Andre Edouard wrote:
>
> If nominated I will run.
> If elected I will serve.
> _You_ will be sorry...Pinot Grigo...Feh!
> AE
>
i always thought that warning went:
if nominated, i shall flee to mexico.
if elected, i shall resist extradition.
[and then bill buckley, in his quixotic and lightly intended run for
mayor of new york some seasons past, asked what he would do if he won,
gave the riposte: "demand a recount."]
dft the chronicler
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Not fair! Where does that leave Frenchmen who killfile Tillman?
--
Siegfried Pinkerton
* Musik ist eine heilige Kunst *
--- The "point", mired in the doofus-ramblings, was that they WOULD
NOT do that!!
Ah, for shame, Sieg!....and seconds after _I_ admired _your_ choice
of ....(ahem)... Siegnature-quote!! :-(
DonP.
tresbirri <tres...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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The French are a nation of children and collaborators.
Ancona
--- Both above statements are, course, generalizations.
And one will certainly find all four of the abovementioned
categories in EVERY nation ( and, with the possible exception of
collaborators, - in every _community_)
LT
.
Best, LT
" The postman is AFRAID to ring twice in California!!
- The second push might cause a building-collapse!!!"
--- Alas (is he really a lass?) , Ancona21 has "fled the thread" ,
taking refuge back at "Wagner in Israel".....to pilfer a Falafel, no
doubt!!
Best, LT
"If rich people could hire other people to die for them, the poor could
make a wonderful living."
Yiddish Proverb
"Andre Edouard" <and...@bellsouth.net> wrote in message
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"dtritter" <dtri...@bway.net> wrote in message
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"Leonard Tillman" <tapef...@webtv.net> wrote in message
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"If not elected, I will appeal to the United States Supreme Court to have the
ballots of those who voted against me remain uncounted."
==G/P Dave
"If not elected, I will appeal to the United States Supreme Court to have the
ballots of those who voted against me remain uncounted." >>
Get over it, G/P. Bush is in office, and Al Gore has given all his earth-tone
clothes to the Goodwill.
Ancona
Best, LT
"A spoon does not know the taste of soup, nor a learned fool the taste
of wisdom."
French Proverb
--- Considering all of Ancona's nonsense,
I was being genteel!!
I respect you and a great majority on rmo, but this
character/troll wants to play games, he initiated them, is yet contining
them - and I'm waiting for a complete truce before I'll "cease fire"
<G> !!
LT
Leonard Tillman" <tapef...@webtv.net> wrote in message
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Evelyn (in reply to a troll's invective re - LT): "You have? Why? He
often has some very interesting things to say. "
--- Thanks for that!! - but please don't expect an
honest, or even
rational answer
from such an incorrigable troll! - You won't receive any!!
Sincerely,
LT"
Best, LT
>> > > >
>> >
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
--- If neither nominated nor elected,
......I will audition that Naxos Rigoletto!!
... AND continue to cyber-flog rmo's "Crocked-Hairass" wannabe
(ANCONA-20, - demoted from 21)!!