On Feb 8, 8:23 pm, brilton <
notl...@yacht.net> wrote:
> On 8/02/12 4:25 PM, abe slaney wrote:
>
> > On Feb 8, 1:11 am, brilton<
notl...@yacht.net> wrote:
>
> > I didn't find it that bizarre. Most of it was stuff I would have
> > expected to hear from Lennon at that time.
>
> I'm really talking about his behaviour and attitude here. You seem to
> want to give him a "free pass" simply because he's Lennon. But I see a
> married father of a small child, drifting dispassionately through his
> life, detached from responsibility, splurging heaps of money on all
> kinds of toys - from blinking boxes through to expensive cars he could
> barely drive, let alone understand.,
I agree with you . . . . but was John really very different from many
other men who were "forced" to marry a pregnant girlfriend at an
immature age? Many recent bios that I have read indicate that John
really did not want to get married or settle down at the age of 22
with a baby, but he did it because it was the "right thing to do,"
especially back in 1962.
As far as splurging on expensive toys, cars, etc. . . . .yes, that
behavior is sad, but I've seen that all the time. Not all men are the
same, of course, but buying the latest electronic "chachkas" seems to
be a male thing, just like some women splurge on lipsticks or handbags
or shoes. IMO sometimes people do that because they are bored or
because they feel as if something is missing in their lives.
When I read an article like the one about Lennon, I get the impression
that he was an unhappy person who, at the time, was drifting aimlessly
and who knew he wanted to do something else. He had not found himself
yet. Money really can't buy happiness.