Danger to Ms Harris & Family

[Charlie Mckenzie]

For what its worth, I agree with those who suggest that, by the tone and
content of his messages, this Tom Slocum person may pose a serious
physical threat to Ms Harris and members of her family. Apparently he is
known to some people in this news group and if they would be good enough
to post some basic information - i.e., in which city is he located - I
would be only too happy to alert the appropriate authorities.

C McKenzie

[TriTooHard]

That is a key.... knowing which city this character lives in.... I am not to
the end of this listserve, hopefully someone will respond to Mr. McKenzie's
posting... either publically or privately.....

[XSweetSue]

Tom is whom he says, that i can guarantee you. Maybe Meghann will tell
you where he lives :) How you folks come to the conclusion that he is
a threat to what is his own family, is beyond reasoning.

Seems folks here are not seeing the whole picture. You see eh from a
fans' viewpoint, and he, from an ex. -- big friggin' difference
there, and what makes one right and the other wrong. I still can't
understand why you don't just listen and learn... oh well.

It it entirely irrelevant whether he is liked/disliked,
respected/disrespected, sane/loonie, whatever... there is a story and
you are missing it. someday you will kick yourself in the asses for
it. here is real info no one else is offering and you're not
listening, only reading the words.

>>perhaps Tom should start his own newsgroup OR visit alt. celebrity-gossip and
post there for awhile. I am still looking for his "story to tell" as you stated
but so far all I see is vicious mean-spirited vindictive petty gossip and
vulgarities.
So he's her X ? Apparently he has not moved on much in his life. I enjoy her
music and frankly could care less about her private self. Tom seems not to
respect himself very much; if he did he would not want to injure her daughter
Meghann with his meanness. This I find horribly offensive.<<sue

[JamesRStewart]

>someday you will kick yourself in the asses for
>it.

Who care's? Right now I'm up for kicking the ass of some idiot who is a
menace!

>i am honored to know Tom.
Sure sounds like a personal problem to me!!

[nos...@usc.edu]

troglobyte wrote:

Tom is whom he says, that i can guarantee you. Maybe Meghann will tell
you where he lives :)

yes, i know in what city he lives, and so do the people Emmylou chooses to surround herself with to aid in her career, her life, and threats to it.  it is not my place to start a public manhunt against a man simply because he has voiced some insane ramblings, no matter what my personal feelings about his previous actions and words are.  people are aware of what has been going on here, no thanks to me, and frankly, it would be pretty stupid to make a threat against someone on a public newsgroup, posting under an actual name, and then follow through with it.  but, crazy people have been known to do stupid things.  so we are always on guard.

How you folks come to the conclusion that he is
a threat to what is his own family, is beyond reasoning.

he is NOT a part of this family and has not been for a very long time.  i think the reasons for that should be evident to all who read this newsgroup.  i'm very sorry that you think you've found some insider source of dirty information, but believe me, you need to look around some more if you're that desperate.  yes, Emmylou is a human being, but why do people need the inaccurate ravings of someone left behind a long time ago and obviously vengeful (and therefore not trustworthy) to get justification for it?  is it maybe because he's the only source you can find for really nasty dirt?  stories that go beyond her acting LIKE ANY OTHER NORMAL PERSON on this planet? did you ever think WHY he might be the ONLY source?  even a court of law needs corroboration, and from a witness who won't fall apart upon cross-examination.

Seems folks here are not seeing the whole picture. You see eh from a
fans' viewpoint, and he, from an ex. --  big friggin' difference
there, and what makes one right and the other wrong. I still can't
understand why you don't just listen and learn... oh well.

people should listen and learn from the TRUTH.  i am quite aware of the whole picture and i see the point you're trying to make.  you're just choosing the wrong person to get behind to make that point.  see above.

It it entirely irrelevant whether he is liked/disliked,
respected/disrespected, sane/loonie, whatever... there is a story and

you are missing it. someday you will kick yourself in the asses for

it. here is real info no one else is offering and you're not
listening, only reading the words.

yes, there is a story.  a fiction created by someone who has long ago lost his claim to make that fiction and give it credulity.  and i don't think a single person here has missed it, they all simply see it for what it really is.  if you honestly have such an intense desire to need to believe such things about another human being, i suggest you find another source.  i'm afraid this one will end up kicking YOU in the ass, and no one deserves that without some kind of warning.  whether or not you choose to listen, that is another matter.

i am honored to know Tom.

really?  i wonder about your definition of honor.  this man has caused great amounts of pain and aggravation to members of my family, not just to Emmylou, and no matter what has happened between the two of them as husband and wife, his actions towards other innocent members of this family who have had no cause to feel his wrath are inexcusable.  indeed, one in particular made every effort for several years after the breakup to have an unconditional, loving, caring relationship with this man, and he stomped on it. this attitude is what makes him a man without honor, and you dishonor yourself by putting your encouragement behind him.

also, i well understand the relationship of
ex's,

as do i.  she has three ex's, and only one attacks her and her family publicly with vicious lies.  the other two actually still talk to her, not to mention are still very much a part of our lives.

the world really is round <g>

yes, and it is not just black and white, either.  look a little deeper, color can be rewarding.

--
=) Meghann
**********
I just haven't been the same since that house fell on my sister.

[JamesRStewart]

How amazing and wonderful that someone so close to Emmylou would take time to
provide such a noteworthy reply. I am impresssed and appreciative.
Obviously there are some wonderful genes there...at least from Emmylou's side.
thanks,jim

[CynthiaAAndrews]

Amen Meghann!!!
<//><
Cynthia / Southern California
"It's God's kindness that leads us to repentance"

[Sandoz]

Just to clarify something.---Mehgann has no genetic connection to Tom
Slocum. Her father is Brian Ahern.---Sandoz--On 17 May 2000 13:01:27

[Road Damaged]

Hi Meghann, As one who has baited Tom i just want to say i'm a music fan
only with no desire for the type of gossip tom thrives on or to infringe
on any member of your family and i do hope you will continue to share
what music related info you think relevant to this group. I've withheld
any further conflict with tom [with the last post exception] and will
continue to ignore him with the hopes that he will go away and leave
the rest of us to enjoy and share the music. Especilly now with the
release of some vintage Emmylou.

[Tom Slocum]

Where Meghan gets her info is interesting. I also find her version of
fiction and or truth, yearning for credibility.. Considering, she has
taken some Shots at me, I'll take this time to return her, the favor, I
do not find The and or her GAY Lifestyle appealing at All. No Judgement
intended. Being, that I am not dependent upon her Mother, the way her
other 2 ex-husbands are, there is no reason,for me to lie, on any level,
nor is there any reason, to protect or uplift, or demonize. Meghan comes
from a very Fucked up Angle, one that has nothng to do with me, She grew
up, where she grew up, and I'm glad she is not my daughter, thou I do
find it somewhat fascinating, watching her allow herself to be
manipulated, into holding conversations about her perceptions, about
someone, she has never known, namely me. There are no FACTS, to Confirm
anything she has communicated. She talks about Abuse, she should talk to
her mother and her father about that, She grew up with them not me!.Draw
your own conclusions.She has never had any experience first hand, with
me, because I've never spent any REAL time with her, nor have I ever
really been interested in her. But I have, as well my daughter, been
victimized, by Meghans jealous, selfish, and delusional sense of self
importance. She has done everything in her own limited time to subvert,
destroy, Exploit, and LIE about my relationship to my own Daughter. Like
any kid who has had a fucked up family life, she feels the litany of
emotions that any sibling might feel toward, anyone, other than her own
family. She is naturally hostile, protectie and decietful, not my fault.
She hates! She masks her pain, with the typical and predictable elixirs
and temporal judgements of a dis-connected child from both reality,
ethicical behaviours, spirituality and creativity. She would make a good
con thou, who knows maybe shes taking lessons from her mother or father.
It twas not I, who screwed up her life, her own parents, did a great job
on their own. Thank you very much..

[Blix]

If There is a Danger, it must be from the DANGER that comes with growing
up in a household, where dysfunctional, out of balance, chemical and
physical mental behaviours are acceptable, Where a lack of severe MORAL
COMPAss simply over-rules, love, compassion ,kindliness, rationality and
spirituality. It is tragic, to take a observation into a young girls
mind, her anger at her Mother, Father, and their collective in-
abilities to communicate honestly. I guess the only thing one can do, is
say a prayer for this poor tormented girl.

[Belkis]

Maybe we should just say a prayer for all of them, The Screwy Families
of Celebrites. I wonder if they PRAY, for those that PRAY for them. I
doubt it.

[nos...@usc.edu]

Tom Slocum wrote:

Where Meghan gets her info is interesting. I also find her version of
fiction and or truth, yearning for credibility..  Considering, she has
taken some Shots at me, I'll take this time to return her, the favor, I
do not find The and or her GAY Lifestyle appealing at All. No Judgement
intended.

um, who said i was gay?  i'm sure my boyfriend would be very surprised to hear that one.  i don't think i need to say anything else, that pretty much covers it.  you don't know anything about me or the current relationships this family has with each other, including other ex-husbands, and therefore the rest of that post is bogus.

[Thewebchyk]

TP...@webtv.net (Tom Slocum) wrote:

>holding conversations about her perceptions, about
>someone, she has never known, namely me.

So, then how do you know her well enough to spew your vitriol toward her? If
she has never known you, then you have never known her. Don't be such a
dumbass, Tom. (I know it will take some work, but it seems like you have time
on your hands. :^)

And Meghann, I've been reading this newsgroup since its inception... anybody
who has hung out here for more than two minutes and has an ounce of common
sense doesn't believe a word he says (I'm sure you've figured that out by now,
but just to be sure you know).

Now, will y'all PLEASE start talking about the music again so I can go back to
lurking? Thanks. :^)

Cheers,

Rose