On Sat, 5 Dec 2020 07:29:03 -0800 (PST), Eli Kesef
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nastyho...@gmail.com> wrote:
>On Friday, December 4, 2020 at 6:34:27 PM UTC+2, The Horny Goat wrote:
>> On Mon, 30 Nov 2020 05:41:10 -0800 (PST), Eli Kesef
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nastyho...@gmail.com> wrote:
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>> For me the worst was always the long drive home after a last round
>> blunder.....it was even worse when I had committed to helping with
>> site cleanup after the event and had to stay to the bitter end...
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>Bs"d
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>Isn't it amazing how the joy of winning doesn't even come close to the pain of losing?
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>I think you have to be a masochist to be a chess player.
Probably my worst was when I was playing in a Toronto tournament while
living in Hamilton (about 90 minutes away) where my loss was in round
5 on a 3 day long weekend tournament and I thought about withdrawing
but stayed as I knew I was NOT in a bye position so waited 4 hours
downtown with everything closed (which was typical of Toronto in those
days in the early 80s) only to arrive for my last round and be told I
had the bye!! I was an experienced TD by then and KNEW under the Swiss
pairing rules I was NOT in line for a bye but the TD said "I don't
give byes to juniors!" - which was completely against the rules but he
was the TD and games were already starting so...... I made the very
long trip home both frustrated at my round 5 result and outraged at
the blatant cheating by the TD to benefit a local player.
It was tempting to take it out on the TD years later when I was on the
national federation executive but took the high road. :)
>Or, of course, you must be playing a lot weaker opponents, so that you don't lose too often. But Lichess is making that now a lot harder. :(
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>The best thing a person can do is to forget his losses as fast as possible, and enjoy his winnings a lifetime.
Well that may be the best for mental health but how many players see
things that way?!?
>I print out my chess games, and on days like today, the shabbat, when I cannot go on the computer, then I play over old games. Of course I make sure I only print out winning games. I don't want to torture myself and get all depressed.
>The saying is that by studying your lost games you get better. No way; I never look at them again, and just forget 'm. I want to have fun, not make myself miserable.
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>Chess is not about getting better, it is about WINNING!!
I think we all like to win but most of us "fish" we enjoy the swindles
we have executed most. :)