Dolores Aguilar, born in 1929 in New Mexico, left us on
August 7, 2008 in Napa, California.
She will be met in the afterlife by her husband, Raymond,
her son, Paul Jr., and daughter, Ruby.
She is survived by her daughters Marietta, Mitzi, Stella,
Beatrice, Virginia and Ramona, and son Billy; grandchildren,
Donnelle, Joe, Mitzie, Maria, Mario, Marty, Tynette, Tania,
Leta, Alexandria, Tommy, Billy, Mathew, Raymond, Kenny,
Javier, Lisa, Ashlie and Michael; great-grandchildren,
Brendan, Joseph, Karissa, Jacob, Delaney, Shawn, Cienna,
Bailey, Christian, Andre Jr., Andrea, Keith, Saeed,
Nujaymah, Salma, Merissa, Emily, Jayci, Isabella, Samantha
and Emily. I apologize if I missed anyone.
Dolores had no hobbies, made no contribution to society and
rarely shared a kind word or deed in her life. I speak for
the majority of her family when I say her presence will not
be missed by many, very few tears will be shed and there
will be no lamenting over her passing.
Her family will remember Dolores and amongst ourselves we
will remember her in our own way, which were mostly sad
and troubling times throughout the years. We may have some
fond memories of her and perhaps we will think of those
times too. But I truly believe at the end of the day ALL
of us will really only miss what we never had, a good and
kind mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. I hope she
is finally at peace with herself. As for the rest of us
left behind, I hope this is the beginning of a time of
healing and learning to be a family again.
There will be no service, no prayers and no closure for
the family she spent a lifetime tearing apart. We cannot
come together in the end to see to it that her grandchildren
and great-grandchildren can say their goodbyes. So I say
here for all of us, GOOD BYE, MOM.
You forgot Marisela, or is she the one Dolores disinherited
along with her children, Seamus and Shakeela?
Good old Dot.
Once again, the link you site doen;t actually point to an official
website. Screams hoax to me....
I snoped it . . . if it's a hoax (probably) it's really well written.
Lynn in Fargo
If you Google her name, the same story comes up in different newspapers. If
it is real, it is pretty rotten, but then, I have known people who deserved
obits like this and worse.