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leno...@yahoo.com

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Apr 16, 2020, 3:32:37 PM4/16/20
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https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/the-new-normal-is-getting-old-fast/ar-BB12FXfH?li=BBnb7Kz&ocid=mailsignout

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...Silvia Manrique is up at all hours. The 43-year-old Chicagoan has always been a night owl, a tendency her marketing job used to keep in check before it went telework-only. Each night, she aims to go to bed before midnight. “The next thing I know, I watch five episodes of ‘Terrace House’ until three in the morning,” she said. Staying up so late might be connected to her anxiety. Or maybe it is related to her other recent indulgence: sugary cereal.

“On top of my refrigerator I have Lucky Charms, Strawberry Rice Krispies and Fruity Pebbles,” she said. Every night, she promises herself that the next morning she will eat the kind of grown-up breakfast she would have made in the long-ago days of February, like an egg sandwich. Every morning, she breaks that promise. It is not so much days that have been shuffled by the pandemic; it is decades. “It’s wild,” Manrique says. “I’m a child again.”...

...“My routines around eating have fallen apart completely,” said Carl-Magnus Kjellman, 32, of Washington, D.C. He used to eat breakfast at 7 a.m., lunch at 12:30 p.m. and dinner at 7:30 p.m. “Now it’s like, yeah, sure, breakfast at 10, why not? I’ll eat lunch at 3:30.”

But reader, what difference does a few hours make, anyway? As long as we are all exercising some discipline and maintaining a balanced —

“I ate an entire bag of Ruffles today.”

Oh.

Look, we are trying. “I think a lot of us are mentally exhausted, because the energy it takes to mentally manage everything that’s happening is very draining,” says Vaile Wright, director of clinical research and quality for the American Psychological Association.“The habits that we’ve worked to develop over time to keep us healthy and productive can fall by the wayside.”...

(snip)



Lenona.

Ed Pawlowski

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Apr 16, 2020, 4:40:10 PM4/16/20
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On 4/16/2020 3:32 PM, leno...@yahoo.com wrote:
> https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/the-new-normal-is-getting-old-fast/ar-BB12FXfH?li=BBnb7Kz&ocid=mailsignout
>
> Excerpts:
>
> Look, we are trying. “I think a lot of us are mentally exhausted, because the energy it takes to mentally manage everything that’s happening is very draining,” says Vaile Wright, director of clinical research and quality for the American Psychological Association.“The habits that we’ve worked to develop over time to keep us healthy and productive can fall by the wayside.”...
>
> (snip)
>
>
>
> Lenona.
>

Probably harder on people working than retired as my waking/sleeping
have not changed. Even tougher with kids. I'd still want to get out
more. I keep in touch with people though, probably a bit more than in
the past.

Simple things like a trip to the store are more focused, in and out, not
so much the browsing looking for what to have for dinner that looks good
at the moment.

Long distance trips I had planned are on hold for now. Would be better
to travel now with lighter traffic and cheap gas but when I get to the
destination we could not even go out to dinner.

Dave Smith

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Apr 16, 2020, 4:45:51 PM4/16/20
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On 2020-04-16 3:32 p.m., leno...@yahoo.com wrote:
> https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/the-new-normal-is-getting-old-fast/ar-BB12FXfH?li=BBnb7Kz&0.
>
> But reader, what difference does a few hours make, anyway? As long as
> we are all exercising some discipline and maintaining a balanced —
>
> “I ate an entire bag of Ruffles today.”
>
> Oh.
>
> Look, we are trying. “I think a lot of us are mentally exhausted,
> because the energy it takes to mentally manage everything that’s
> happening is very draining,” says Vaile Wright, director of clinical
> research and quality for the American Psychological Association.“The
> habits that we’ve worked to develop over time to keep us healthy and
> productive can fall by the wayside.”...


It's bad enough for me to have had to change my routine so much. No more
morning trips to the corner coffee shop for a nice coffee and to do the
crosswords. No pickleball 3-4 times per week, not being able to go to a
store for anything other than groceries, and having to line up for that.
At least we have a good sized house to live in, a large property and
open access to our dog walking trail through the woods. I can't imagine
what it is like for people with kids living in a small apartment. As
much as this has me feeling down, I am sure that it is a lot worse for
other people.


jmcquown

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Apr 16, 2020, 5:19:53 PM4/16/20
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On 4/16/2020 3:32 PM, leno...@yahoo.com wrote:
All I can say is I'm sticking to the same routine I always have. Why
would this virus make any difference in when (what time) you eat or sleep?

I do like Lay's Kettle Cooked potato chips with a nice 1/3 lb.
home-cooked medium-rare cheeseburger. :) The virus doesn't make me eat
more of them.

Why should working from home suddenly make people eat at weird hours of
the day? 12PM is still 12PM. The Earth didn't spin off its' axis. Eat
when you normally do. Go to sleep when you normally do. If you
normally stay up until 1AM, okay. You can't blame a virus if you decide
to stay up all night watching TV or doing whatever.

I've never much cared to eat breakfast first thing in the morning. I
wait until around 20:30 before I eat. The Covid-19 outbreak has nothing
to do with it.

What to eat? I make breakfast for dinner a few times a year, not because
I'm confused. Because I like it.

Tonight I'm pan searing a beef petite filet (filet minon). I'll have
boiled buttered new potatoes and green beans to go along with it. Usual
dinner time: between 6-7 PM. The pandemic hasn't changed my perception
of when it's time to cook and eat dinner.

Jill

Bruce

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Apr 16, 2020, 5:27:58 PM4/16/20
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On Thu, 16 Apr 2020 17:19:25 -0400, jmcquown <j_mc...@comcast.net>
wrote:

>All I can say is I'm sticking to the same routine I always have. Why
>would this virus make any difference in when (what time) you eat or sleep?
>
>I do like Lay's Kettle Cooked potato chips with a nice 1/3 lb.
>home-cooked medium-rare cheeseburger. :) The virus doesn't make me eat
>more of them.
>
>Why should working from home suddenly make people eat at weird hours of
>the day? 12PM is still 12PM. The Earth didn't spin off its' axis. Eat
>when you normally do. Go to sleep when you normally do. If you
>normally stay up until 1AM, okay. You can't blame a virus if you decide
>to stay up all night watching TV or doing whatever.

You're a stay at home biddy who's set in her ways. You just continue
as you always have. Other people are more outgoing and actually do
things during the day. They can't right now.

>I've never much cared to eat breakfast first thing in the morning. I
>wait until around 20:30 before I eat. The Covid-19 outbreak has nothing
>to do with it.

You have breakfast at 20:30?

Hank Rogers

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Apr 16, 2020, 6:48:19 PM4/16/20
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Dave Smith wrote:
> On 2020-04-16 3:32 p.m., leno...@yahoo.com wrote:
>> https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/the-new-normal-is-getting-old-fast/ar-BB12FXfH?li=BBnb7Kz&0.â€
>>
>>
>> But reader, what difference does a few hours make, anyway? As
>> long as
>> we are all exercising some discipline and maintaining a balanced —
>>
>> “I ate an entire bag of Ruffles today.â€
>>
>> Oh.
>>
>> Look, we are trying. “I think a lot of us are mentally exhausted,
>> because the energy it takes to mentally manage everything that’s
>> happening is very draining,†says Vaile Wright, director of
>> clinical
>> research and quality for the American Psychological
>> Association.“The
>> habits that we’ve worked to develop over time to keep us
>> healthy and
>> productive can fall by the wayside.†...
>
>
> It's bad enough for me to have had to change my routine so much. No
> more morning trips to the corner coffee shop for a nice coffee and
> to do the crosswords. No pickleball 3-4 times per week, not being
> able to go to a store for anything other than groceries, and having
> to line up for that. At least we have a good sized house to live
> in, a large property and open access to our dog walking trail
> through the woods.  I can't imagine what it is like for people with
> kids living in a small apartment. As much as this has me feeling
> down, I am sure that it is a lot worse for other people.
>
>

Look at the bright side. You'll save hundreds of dollars ... BN
won't barge in for a while.


Hank Rogers

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Apr 16, 2020, 6:58:34 PM4/16/20
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Bruce wrote:
> On Thu, 16 Apr 2020 17:19:25 -0400, jmcquown <j_mc...@comcast.net>
> wrote:
>
>> All I can say is I'm sticking to the same routine I always have. Why
>> would this virus make any difference in when (what time) you eat or sleep?
>>
>> I do like Lay's Kettle Cooked potato chips with a nice 1/3 lb.
>> home-cooked medium-rare cheeseburger. :) The virus doesn't make me eat
>> more of them.
>>
>> Why should working from home suddenly make people eat at weird hours of
>> the day? 12PM is still 12PM. The Earth didn't spin off its' axis. Eat
>> when you normally do. Go to sleep when you normally do. If you
>> normally stay up until 1AM, okay. You can't blame a virus if you decide
>> to stay up all night watching TV or doing whatever.
>
> You're a stay at home biddy who's set in her ways. You just continue
> as you always have. Other people are more outgoing and actually do
> things during the day. They can't right now.
>

Yes, she is. If it weren't for you coming around regularly to sniff
her ass, we wouldn't know if she died.

Thank you Pruce.

You may go now.





Creme Fraiche

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Apr 16, 2020, 7:14:17 PM4/16/20
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Bruce has brought this to us :
> You're a stay at home biddy who's set in her ways.
>
Another irony meter toasted.

GM

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Apr 16, 2020, 7:42:06 PM4/16/20
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LOL...Bruce is the most *prolific* poster here by far, he is always the first to *immediately* respond to *any* post...

I am always thinking, "Does this guy have a "life"...!!!???"

Jill, in comparison, is a wide - ranging "world traveler" compared to Bruce...

<chuckle>


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Best
Greg

Creme Fraiche

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Apr 16, 2020, 7:46:21 PM4/16/20
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GM submitted this idea :
It's really funny when he calls anyone
"judge-mental". If I didn't know any better
I'd think Bruce is the moderator in here.

Pretty strange from someone that doesn't
eat meat.

Bruce

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Apr 16, 2020, 7:46:35 PM4/16/20
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All these people who have me killfiled but can't stop talking about
me. It's good to know that they miss me.

Bruce

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Apr 16, 2020, 7:50:30 PM4/16/20
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You're not judging me are you? I mean, that's all you do here, judge
people.

Creme Fraiche

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Apr 16, 2020, 7:51:52 PM4/16/20
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It happens that Bruce formulated :
Chicka boom Chicka boom, don't ya just love it?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5mwkxVfUYp4

Creme Fraiche

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Apr 16, 2020, 7:54:05 PM4/16/20
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Bruce formulated the question :
Oh heavens no, lets have a Ribeye steak and
shake on it.

Bruce

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Apr 16, 2020, 7:56:28 PM4/16/20
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Ok, I'll have a Tofu Extravaganza.

Creme Fraiche

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Apr 16, 2020, 7:59:32 PM4/16/20
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on 4/16/2020, Bruce supposed :
For a topping on your baked potato instead
of sour cream?

Ed Pawlowski

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Apr 16, 2020, 8:43:03 PM4/16/20
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This is true. Got my stimulus money but no place to go stimulate.

Hank Rogers

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Apr 16, 2020, 10:05:12 PM4/16/20
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Druce is a funny man.

And he's got a real hard on for mcquown.

Cindy Hamilton

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Apr 17, 2020, 5:39:41 AM4/17/20
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Largely self-induced.

My alarm still goes off at 4 am every morning. I work from home in the
mornings (there isn't enough to keep me busy all day with the other
developers hunkered down) and take a half-day of vacation in the afternoon.
Mealtimes are still the same, and meals are still the same sorts of things
I cook when I'm working. Although I did make sloppy joes for lunch last
Friday, which is more time-consuming than a normal weekday lunch.

Cindy Hamilton

Gary

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Apr 17, 2020, 9:48:58 AM4/17/20
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Bruce wrote:
> All these people who have me killfiled but can't stop talking about
> me. It's good to know that they miss me.

Killfiles are only for babies that can't deal with reality and/or
listen to opposing opinions. IMO :) Many that used to post here
have run off (with hands over butts) to the safe moderated
Facebook RFC. Good place for crybabies.

Terry Coombs

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Apr 17, 2020, 10:32:12 AM4/17/20
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  Our lifestyle has hardly changed . My "alarm clock" still jumps up on
the bed and slaps me with his paws at first light until I either get up
or tell him it isn't time to get up . I still make coffee then take him
for a walk while it brews . The only real change is that we can't go to
our favorite restaurant for lunch right now and we've minimized our
trips to town to essential needs . I consider a nice long motorcycle
ride "essential" to my mental health ... and how much more "socially
distanced" can ya get ? In a few minutes I'll be putting on my "woods
clothes" (treated to keep ticks away) and Max and I will be socially
distancing out in the woods . We'll be looking for and marking trees to
be cut down for firewood . To quote John Denver , "Thank God I'm a
Country Boy" .

--
Snag
Yes , I'm old
and crochety - and armed .
Get outta my woods !

Ophelia

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Apr 17, 2020, 11:00:58 AM4/17/20
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"Terry Coombs" wrote in message news:r7cel8$llr$1...@dont-email.me...
Snag

====


Apparently in the cities here, you can be stopped and asked where you
are going. If it is not essential you can be charged and sent back!!

Bonkers if you ask me but the rules are becoming ridiculous:( Some
damned senior copper was saying that his cops could search your chopping
trolley and if there were non essential stuff they would take them off you.
Another sent up an drone to keep an eye on anyone who is walking in the
mountains paths, even if alone :( I think some police are feeling they have
more power than they are allowed.

Fortunately a minister has put a stop to that but lots of nonsenses are
still going on. We are lucky as are you, at we can have a nice run out if
we want too. Enjoy!!



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jmcquown

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Apr 17, 2020, 2:01:26 PM4/17/20
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Who is talking about Bruce? My reply was to an article *Leona* posted.
Once again you're over-trimming which causes a thread to lose context.

Jill

Bruce

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Apr 17, 2020, 3:07:04 PM4/17/20
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On Fri, 17 Apr 2020 09:32:24 -0500, Terry Coombs <snag...@msn.com>
wrote:

>On 4/17/2020 4:39 AM, Cindy Hamilton wrote:
>> My alarm still goes off at 4 am every morning. I work from home in the
>> mornings (there isn't enough to keep me busy all day with the other
>> developers hunkered down) and take a half-day of vacation in the afternoon.
>> Mealtimes are still the same, and meals are still the same sorts of things
>> I cook when I'm working. Although I did make sloppy joes for lunch last
>> Friday, which is more time-consuming than a normal weekday lunch.
>>
>> Cindy Hamilton
>
>   Our lifestyle has hardly changed . My "alarm clock" still jumps up on
>the bed and slaps me with his paws at first light until I either get up
>or tell him it isn't time to get up . I still make coffee then take him
>for a walk while it brews .

Strange coffee that takes so long to brew. Unless your walks last 5
minutes.

Bruce

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Apr 17, 2020, 3:10:52 PM4/17/20
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On Fri, 17 Apr 2020 16:00:43 +0100, "Ophelia" <oph...@elsinore.me.uk>
wrote:

> Apparently in the cities here, you can be stopped and asked where you
>are going. If it is not essential you can be charged and sent back!!

Same here, although we haven't been stopped yet on one of our 3-weekly
trips into town.

> Bonkers if you ask me but the rules are becoming ridiculous:( Some
>damned senior copper was saying that his cops could search your chopping
>trolley and if there were non essential stuff they would take them off you.
>Another sent up an drone to keep an eye on anyone who is walking in the
>mountains paths, even if alone :( I think some police are feeling they have
>more power than they are allowed.
>
> Fortunately a minister has put a stop to that but lots of nonsenses are
>still going on. We are lucky as are you, at we can have a nice run out if
>we want too. Enjoy!!

If they're taking some things too far, I wouldn't worry about it. It's
very temporary. I'm sure they'll relax the strictest bans and orders
once "the curve flattens". I'm guessing a month max. No government
wants a population that's going stir crazy :)

dsi1

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Apr 17, 2020, 3:59:07 PM4/17/20
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Breaking news: The chump is suspected of being the antiChrist - in addition to being Putin's puppet, of course.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8230031/Trump-tells-Dem-governors-LIBERATE-Michigan-Virginia-Minnesota.html

Bruce

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Apr 17, 2020, 4:15:54 PM4/17/20
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He's trying to talk like those idiots with their beer guts and their
guns. The embarrassment never stops.

Cindy Hamilton

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Apr 17, 2020, 4:23:18 PM4/17/20
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I don't know how Snag makes coffee, but I usually give my automatic-drip
coffeemaker 10 minutes. It's probably done in less time, but it stays warm
as it waits for me.

Cindy Hamilton

Bruce

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Apr 17, 2020, 4:32:38 PM4/17/20
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Yes, that would work for me too. But if it becomes much longer, the
coffee starts to deteriorate from being heated up too long.

Ed Pawlowski

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Apr 17, 2020, 5:11:59 PM4/17/20
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Thermal carafe. Can keep it fresh and hot for a long time.

Bruce

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Apr 17, 2020, 5:43:33 PM4/17/20
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I just don't go for walks after I've started the coffee. I start it
and 3 minutes later I drink it.

itsjoan...@webtv.net

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Apr 17, 2020, 6:05:46 PM4/17/20
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You took the words right off the tips of my fingers.

Hank Rogers

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Apr 17, 2020, 7:27:35 PM4/17/20
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Won't work in the world of the bove, and the dutch ninja.


Gary

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Apr 18, 2020, 11:22:27 AM4/18/20
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I didn't crop anything about you, Jill. I was responding to Bruce
who was responding to someone else. Way back in the thread, you
got snipped

Gary

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Apr 18, 2020, 11:23:02 AM4/18/20
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Bruce wrote:
>
> Terry Coombs wrote:
> My "alarm clock" still jumps up on
> >the bed and slaps me with his paws at first light until I either get up
> >or tell him it isn't time to get up . I still make coffee then take him
> >for a walk while it brews .
>
> Strange coffee that takes so long to brew. Unless your walks last 5
> minutes.

The early morning dog walk is just to let him out to poop/pee.
Just a quick exit. He's been holding all night.

Later comes the nice long dog walk for exercise.

Bruce

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Apr 18, 2020, 4:33:02 PM4/18/20
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How do you know this? :)

Hank Rogers

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Apr 18, 2020, 5:00:14 PM4/18/20
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Druce, People have routines and know them.

HAVE YOU NOW STARTED TO SNIFF DOG'S ASSES ??????

Order some knee pads for the smaller breeds Gruce.

I can offer you to come and sniff a mare's ass. She's a pretty
gentle animal, but don't try to grab her tits. She don't like that.


Gary

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Apr 19, 2020, 8:46:28 AM4/19/20
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I had a dog (collie) once. Cats and even ferrets are the same
way, just like humans. Everyone wants to pee when they first wake
up. Dogs need to go outside, others can go
inside.

Also, I get out very early each day. So many neighbors taking
their
dogs out early. The longer exercise walks come later.

Terry Coombs

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Apr 19, 2020, 9:09:50 AM4/19/20
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You have a very severe case of TDS . Might want to seek medical help for
this phobia . One of the symptoms is a childish calling of names ...
looks like about 3rd grade level in your case .

Terry Coombs

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Apr 19, 2020, 9:13:25 AM4/19/20
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  Mine takes about 10 minutes , we walk for probably 15 . Up the road
marking the roadside grasses and bushes every few feet . Take a dump
(Max, not me . I take a dump before we go.) and head home marking the
stuff on the other side . I love coming in to the aroma of fresh-brewed
coffee !
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