Substitute "and" for "or" and you get much of 70's.
blacksalt
>>Maybe somebody's looking for a date?
>
>So what if I am. What does it matter?
>
Interesting rhetorical move! Let's run with it.
Sexual preference matters when one is looking for a date. But does it
matter that one is looking for a date in the first place? I'd guess
that would depend on certain circumstances like marital status, degree
of fame (or notoriety), and whether or not one of the potential dates
has taken a vow of chastity. I'm setting aside the off chance that
one is looking for a date outside one's species, of course, but no
matter.
Hearing that Susan Sarandon was looking for a date with a Carmelite
nun would call up questions in my mind. Such as: Will she wear that
dress she wore to the Academy Awards? Will there be a Web site? Do
Carmelite nuns own digital cameras? Not to mention a host of issues
for Tim Robbins.
I know nothing about the marital status, notoriety or clerical
standing of anybody who may be looking for a date with Bobby Flay. So
if your question is what does it matter that somebody may be looking
for a date, I can't say that there is an answer beyond Flay's fame and
a mild curiosity on the species issue. More data is needed.
However, it occurs to me that the answer to the question so many have
put forward on this burning topic --namely: What does it matter if
Bobby Flay is homosexual? -- is that somebody may be looking for a
date. After all, that's one instance in which sexual preference
matters.
OBFood: I haven't eaten any dates in a long while.
modom
>Nancy Young <qwe...@mail.monmouth.com> deliciously posted in
>news:404382A6...@mail.monmouth.com:
>
>> Jarkat2002 wrote:
>>
>>> >My brother insists that he never acted gay at all. Is it just me,
>>> >or was he indeed a flamer when he first started appearing on TV?
>>
>>> Why does it even matter?
>>
>> True, it goes without saying, who cares one way or another.
>>
>> nancy
>
>It matters not a bit. Now, if I could find out about Tyler Florence I
>might be able to create a food crisis he could come and fix ;)
>
>Michael
With all the flirting he does with his female guests, I'd say you're
outta luck, Michael.
Then again, it could all just be an act...
Actor Leslie Howard is a case in point. If I'd assumed anyone was gay it
was this gorgeous 'pretty' man actor from old filmdom. But au contraire...
he was married and fathered two children, one would have to assume with a
woman ;-)
http://www.lynnpdesign.com/classicmovies/howard/bio.html
He was shot down in a plane by the Luftwaffe over the Bay of Biscayne in
1943.
Jill
> When the Bobby Flay first appeared on TV, he , to me at least,
> appeared to be gay. Limp-wristed mannerisms, that gay accent, and
> other things that just made me go "uh-huh".
>
I have never considered how "male" Bobby Flay is (maybe
you're the only one who cares) or if the lack of it could
affect his cooking ability.
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
no, I 'got' it ... it just wasn't funny.
~Kat
What did my hands do before they held you?
Sylvia Plath (1932 - 1963)
You misspelled Liza Minelli.
> Ever hear of homosexuals
> forcing themselves into marriage to appear to be straight to others?
I can't imagine what his motivation would be, but he seems straight
to me, as a matter of fact, he has a reputation as a skirtchaser.
Whether he is or he isn't, I don't think Stephanie is a beard. They
look very happy together, too.
nancy
>I can't think of any men on the Food TV network who are
>appealing.
Michael Chiarello is pretty hot.
Yes, big time!
Yes, I think we are in agreement. You can't look at a person or their
situation and really know their sexual orientation. If you were talking to
me, then I would say was the message being sent to the OP.
OK, you got me there. Funny though, he set off my gayday. I don't know
why. I think this metrosexual thing is responsible.
He *does* seem arrogant, doesn't he? But then, (let's change the topic of
the thread and *really* piss people off) most chefs are arrogant! <veg> =
very evil grin.
kilikini
Well, I'd say that settles the question, then.:)
H
> 95% of the men who act as I describe are indeed gay. If you want
> to call the effeminate, then fine. 95% of the effeminate men are
> gay.
And 96.7234% of all quoted statistics are simply made up on
the spot....:-)
You know the above HOW, exactly?
Bob M.
>
> Pushing a baby carriage does not make one effeminate. Are you
> implying that most men who don't hug and kiss their female friends
> are not gay?
>
> -sw
>WHAT the hell does this have to do with
> cooking??
That's a good question, but here's a better one. Are you making any
birthday plans?? Josiah's experiment bombed, even though you proclaimed
yourself the winner! :)
Elaine
> Wasn't he on 'Grillin' and Chillin' also? I rarely watch any show he is
> on. something about him rubs me the wrong way. No pun intended.
He was downright rude to the chillin guy.
nancy
Wait. Wasn't Jackie Maloof on the show Hot Off the Grill? If so, then I
think you are talking about his Boy Meets Grill show as one that he's not
arrogant or unpleasant. At least it seems that way to me.
Bret
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> I still don't think people recall the earliest of his shows. He
> would wave around his limp-wrists constantly and had that gay
> lip-smaking accent.
>
> I guess I was "fortunate" enough to be one of the first areas that
> was able to receive FoodTV and the earliest of his shows.
Having only had access to the FoodTV network for the past year and a half,
what show are you talking about?
I get his "Boy meets Grill" and Food Nation (or whatever its called) shows
now. No more Hot off the grill piece of shit show of his anymore.
Also, to really change the topic. I'm getting tired of watching a FoodTV
show thats been copyrighted in 2000. Are (and what) shows are actually new
on there? I'm talking actual cooking shows, not the "And the hotdogs at
this place in this city" type of shows. Sorry. Kinda got on a rant there.
Thanks,
I'm not familiar with that show. I just don't like him. I don't "get"
Jacky, either. I don't "get" the goons in bowling shirts and gold chains
that he has talk about meat and wine. I don't understand why he had people
who couldn't cook prepare food. I guess that since I don't subscribe to the
school of cooking that says everything benefits from the addition of
peppers, I couldn't find anything redeeming about his shows.
I agree with your observations. There is very little worthwhile cooking
information on Food TV. Most of it is either "best of" or "top 10" sort of
shows interspersed with "personality" cooking. As much as I like to cook, I
seldom watch Food TV. The PBS cooking shows are much better. Too bad they
are only shown on Saturday mornings.
PBS has better shows and only on Saturday mornings? *sigh* Now I'll have
to get up early then and watch them. The show I like best on FoodTV is Good
Eats. He *explains* things not just "this is how its done". But then, I'm
just a novice cook (except for grilling *eg*) so I want more than "you
always do it this way" kind of thing.
Your mileage may vary.
> Wait. Wasn't Jackie Maloof on the show Hot Off the Grill? If so, then I
> think you are talking about his Boy Meets Grill show as one that he's not
> arrogant or unpleasant. At least it seems that way to me.
You are correct, I always mix those shows up. I had it correct in
another post because I looked it up.
Brian Rodenborn
He lost that competition, as I recall. However a year later, they
actually had him back again. Knowing that he offended his guests by
standing on the cutting board the previous year, he repeated the same
gesture the second time. That time, I believe he actually won the
competition. That sort of arrogance and lack of manners are exactly the
sort of behavior that the term "ugly American" denotes, IMO.
--
Donna
A pessimist believes all women are bad. An optimist hopes they are.
Money talks.
> I think the height of Bobby Flay's arrogance was when he was on the Iron
> Chef. At the end of the competition (but before the judging) he stood up
> on his cutting board and hoisted both fists up in the air - the Japanese
> hosts were extremely offended as they consider the cutting board as
> 'sacred' and not something to be stood on.
You don't think they told him to ham it up? And so what if the Japanese
chefs have some sort of weird reverence for cutting boards? Do you?
Brian Rodenborn
When in Rome, in case you have forgotten good manners, and Flay
displayed the poorest possible..
jim
> When in Rome, in case you have forgotten good manners, and Flay
> displayed the poorest possible..
But how would he even know? Remember, Morimoto pulled his big pout AFTER
the fact. And don't you think Morimoto was hamming it up too?
Brian Rodenborn
When deciphering what someone from a different culture is expressing, I
rarely ever assume. Are you not assuming about Morimoto? BTW, I think
you are right, Flay wouldn't know. Rarely does a week go by without his
making a half-witted comment. He should stay in the kitchen and hire a
PR firm to talk for him.
jim
> When deciphering what someone from a different culture is expressing, I
> rarely ever assume. Are you not assuming about Morimoto? BTW, I think
> you are right, Flay wouldn't know. Rarely does a week go by without his
> making a half-witted comment. He should stay in the kitchen and hire a
> PR firm to talk for him.
Actually, I assume that Morimoto was hamming it up too. I've seen him on
several non-IC things, and he's not a brooding hyper-focused critical
glowering chef at all.
It was all game.
Brian Rodenborn
You're assuming one is the reality and not the other. Unless you know
him personally, you may "suspect" that your view is correct, but proving
it is a long way off. Perhaps the IC is reality and the other "hamming"
it up.
jim
I don't think anyone needs to tell Bobby Flay to ham it up - he does
quite nicely on his own.
I don't have any 'weird reverence' for cutting boards, but I certainly
don't want anybody standing on mine.
And I certainly wouldn't do something I *knew* would be offensive to my
hosts in a foreign country (or anywhere else, for that matter). It's
rude and very poor manners IMO.
Sandra
>Nancy Young <qwe...@mail.monmouth.com> wrote in message news:<40437D50...@mail.monmouth.com>...
>> Vox Humana wrote:
>>
>> > I see lots of effeminate men arm-in-arm with women, many pushing baby
>> > carriages. Your mistake is to assume that effeminate = gay.
>>
>> Definitely, or that masculine = straight.
>>
>> nancy
>
>So what the point of your first post...you said he has a fiance so
>"nuff said." Ever hear of a "beard"? Ever hear of homosexuals
>forcing themselves into marriage to appear to be straight to others?
>Marriage and engagement isn't a "nuff said" to prove a person hetero.
>Sorry!
if stephanie can't give him a stiffinee, he's definitely gay.
your pal,
blake
1. That's more from a bygone era.
2. What would be Stephanie March's reason for doing so?
Brian Rodenborn
Don't you mean New Yawk accent?
> My brother insists that he never acted gay at all. Is it just me,
> or was he indeed a flamer when he first started appearing on TV?
He always seemed straight to me. I *think* he was married before,
but I could be wrong about that. He's got a fiancee, Stephanie March.
nuff said.
nancy
> When the Bobby Flay first appeared on TV, he , to me at least,
> appeared to be gay. Limp-wristed mannerisms, that gay accent, and
> other things that just made me go "uh-huh".
I don't think he's technically a homosexual but he is *definitely* a
fagot...
~john
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more efficient, and the world will follow our lead into the future!"
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"Waiting periods are only a step. Registration is only a step. The
prohibition of private firearms is the goal."
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> I see lots of effeminate men arm-in-arm with women, many pushing baby
> carriages. Your mistake is to assume that effeminate = gay.
Definitely, or that masculine = straight.
nancy
Why does it even matter?
~Kat
What did my hands do before they held you?
Sylvia Plath (1932 - 1963)
And if he was ... ?
Felice
> When the Bobby Flay first appeared on TV, he , to me at least,
> appeared to be gay. Limp-wristed mannerisms, that gay accent, and
> other things that just made me go "uh-huh".
>
> Now he seems almost normal. I hardly ever see the limp wrist
> anymore and he's almost rid himself of the rest of the character
> as well.
>
> My brother insists that he never acted gay at all. Is it just me,
> or was he indeed a flamer when he first started appearing on TV?
>
> -sw
Maybe he just gave you a woody.
--
StocksRus®
> >My brother insists that he never acted gay at all. Is it just me,
> >or was he indeed a flamer when he first started appearing on TV?
> Why does it even matter?
True, it goes without saying, who cares one way or another.
nancy
> And if he was ... ?
This politically correct BS has got to stop. Maybe he's just curious for
his own personal reasons. Why does it matter why it matters?
or that masculine is superior to feminine.
That makes no difference. Effeminate behavior was given as a reason to
think he was gay. I merely point out that there are effeminate straight
people. Get it? Your logic is faulty.
No .. It's a far cry from anything I would ever want to hear ... I'm not
surprised you believe it though.
I just wanted to know why it matters to you ... now I do.
Sad.
> When the Bobby Flay first appeared on TV, he , to me at least,
> appeared to be gay. Limp-wristed mannerisms, that gay accent, and
> other things that just made me go "uh-huh".
>
> Now he seems almost normal. I hardly ever see the limp wrist
> anymore and he's almost rid himself of the rest of the character
> as well.
>
> My brother insists that he never acted gay at all. Is it just me,
> or was he indeed a flamer when he first started appearing on TV?
>
> -sw
Who cares? Did you use your GAYdar to detect this?
nathan
The real question is why is this of any importance to you? Are you
wanting to date him?
jim
>
> > My brother insists that he never acted gay at all. Is it just me,
> > or was he indeed a flamer when he first started appearing on TV?
> >
> > -sw
>
> I've always had the impression he is a neanderthal. Not a gay thing about
> him that I can see.
He gave me the impression that he was an arrogant, obnoxious jerk. I couldn't
handle watching his show.
(laughing!) I have the same problem with Southern women... I think they are
straight and then they turn around and introduce their "girlfriend" ;-) I
can't tell if I'm more confused by living in the South or being around
Southern people.
Jill
Go back and actually read what I wrote. Also, please tell me where you get
your statistics. Do you see men who are effeminate and then ask them if
they are gay? As I point out, I see effeminate men with women and I have no
idea if they are gay or straight. How can you tell?
>
> > Pushing a baby carriage does not make one effeminate. Are you
> > implying that most men who don't hug and kiss their female friends
> > are not gay?
> >
>
> Go back and actually read what I wrote. Also, please tell me where you get
> your statistics. Do you see men who are effeminate and then ask them if
> they are gay? As I point out, I see effeminate men with women and I have no
> idea if they are gay or straight. How can you tell?
I have a good friend who used to teach junior grades. He quit to become an
artist. He hangs around with women. He loves to cook, dresses in a quirky manner
and does sometimes exhibit a bit of a limp wrist. I don't think he is gay. I
had another friend who did all the manly things, hunted, fished, played poker
with the boys. He went to a priest for marriage counseling and ended up having
an affair with the priest. Go figger. The priest being gay was no surprise,
but my friend turning out to be gay was.
> It matters not a bit. Now, if I could find out about Tyler Florence I
> might be able to create a food crisis he could come and fix ;)
>
> Michael
Damn.. I'd fight ya for him! Actually I like Bobby Flay too.. I think
they're both kinda hot in their own way. Emeril.. he's NOT hot. UGH. The
man slobbers and is very unattractive on oh-so-many levels.
Goomba
Until recently all most people knew about gays came from anti-gay forces.
It is no wonder that people think all gays fit some effeminate stereotype.
I read somewhere that 30% of all anti-gay hate crimes are targeted towards
straights who are misidentified as being gay. That is why I doubt the claim
made earlier in this thread that 95% of effeminate men are gay. I worked at
a social service agency and for several months after I got there I assumed
that the director was gay. He turned out to be a womanizer.
You cab have both of them. Flay is too arrogant and Tyler Florence's hair
is too greasy. I can't think of any men on the Food TV network who are
appealing.
> On Mon, 01 Mar 2004 19:54:20 -0000, Dog3 <dognospam@adjfkdla;not>
> wrote:
>
>>No ya' didn't and I didn't take it as wrong. You just wanted other
>>people's impressions of his TV persona.
>
> Thank you.
>
>>Well I'm gay and my cyberdar flunks you as gay ;)
>
> Well - Hrmpff <wrists on hips, head cocked up the air to one side>
>
> Is that better? :-)
>
> -sw
You must be one bored dude. You should clock you hours on usenet.. or
maybe you do.
nathan
It probably doesn't, John. I guess I just don't understand why some people
are "curious" about other people's sexual preferences.
Felice
She was on his latest show one time, and I sat thinking she really
looked familiar but couldn't place her. Then I found out she played the
DA on Law and Order (not anymore though).
For what it's worth, I've never really found Flay to be all that
arrogant or unpleasant. The show he did with Jackie Maloof was just
annoying in general, but FoodNation and Hot Off the Grill have been very
good.
Brian Rodenborn
WHOA! Let's not even start that one!
> When the Bobby Flay first appeared on TV, he , to me at least,
> appeared to be gay. Limp-wristed mannerisms, that gay accent, and
> other things that just made me go "uh-huh".
>
> Now he seems almost normal. I hardly ever see the limp wrist
> anymore and he's almost rid himself of the rest of the character
> as well.
>
> My brother insists that he never acted gay at all. Is it just me,
> or was he indeed a flamer when he first started appearing on TV?
>
> -sw
Who really cares?
Gay or straight, ain't none of my business.
> On Mon, 01 Mar 2004 18:23:12 GMT, "Felice Friese"
> <fri...@comcast.net> wrote:
>
>> And if he was ... ?
>
> Gotta love the misplaced mentality of the people of rfc.
>
> Did I say there was anything wrong with being gay? Did you ever
> stop to consider that maybe I'm gay?
>
> Didn't think so.
>
> -sw
And again....who really cares?
Ain't none of my business either way.
Of course, that would explain a lot....
> Steve Wertz <swe...@cluemail.com.invalid.gov> deliciously posted in
> news:MpCdnb7h54w...@io.com:
>
>> On Mon, 01 Mar 2004 18:03:22 GMT, "Vox Humana"
>> <vhu...@hotmail.com> wrote:
>>
>>> I see lots of effeminate men arm-in-arm with women, many pushing baby
>>> carriages. Your mistake is to assume that effeminate = gay.
>>
>> Ahem. I never mentioned any of that. He never used to have women
>> on his show, nor babies in carriages.
>>
>> -sw
>>
>
> Didn't he have a show a long time ago that babes hung out at the kitchen
> bar and *helped* with the menu? I can't remember the name of the show.
> Don't care enough to look it up either.
>
> Michael
There was Jacqui Malouf, who was his sidekick.
She was, IMO ditzy, but I could see how people would find her beautiful.
He had that show, i think it was called "Boy Meets Grill". I think that's
the one Jacqui Malouf co-hosted with him.
>
>
>
> Who really cares?
> Gay or straight, ain't none of my business.
Gay or straight, Hot Off the Grill with Bobby Flay sucked.
sqwertz spurts:
>
>> When the Bobby Flay first appeared on TV, he , to me at least,
>> appeared to be gay. Limp-wristed mannerisms, that gay accent, and
>> other things that just made me go "uh-huh".
>
>Who really cares?
>Gay or straight, ain't none of my business.
Um, well, sqwertz worries about gays, he's an asshole! <G>
Ahahahahahahahahahahaha. . . .
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Nancree
Hey for once I agree with you.
Although, on Eat America or whatever the fuck he calls it he featured the
region where I grew up. There's at least one place I have to check out the
next time I visit.
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>Jarkat2002 wrote:
>
>> >My brother insists that he never acted gay at all. Is it just me,
>> >or was he indeed a flamer when he first started appearing on TV?
>
>> Why does it even matter?
>
>True, it goes without saying, who cares one way or another.
>
>nancy
Maybe somebody's looking for a date?
modom
So what the point of your first post...you said he has a fiance so
"nuff said." Ever hear of a "beard"? Ever hear of homosexuals
forcing themselves into marriage to appear to be straight to others?
Marriage and engagement isn't a "nuff said" to prove a person hetero.
Sorry!
> It probably doesn't, John. I guess I just don't understand why some people
> are "curious" about other people's sexual preferences.
So they know if the "other people" are fair game or not :)
~john
--
"This year will go down in history. For the first time, a civilized
nation has full gun registration! Our streets will be safer, our police
more efficient, and the world will follow our lead into the future!"
-- Adolph Hitler, 1935
"Waiting periods are only a step. Registration is only a step. The
prohibition of private firearms is the goal."
-- Janet Reno US Attorney General
> What I can't understand is Ron Jeremy.
It needs no understanding. It is as it is...
> No .. It's a far cry from anything I would ever want to hear ... I'm not
> surprised you believe it though.
> I just wanted to know why it matters to you ... now I do.
> Sad.
heheh... That'n went right over your head...
> Um, well, sqwertz worries about gays, he's an asshole! <G>
>
> Ahahahahahahahahahahaha. . . .
(laughing)... Sorry. I couldn't help myself...
>Felice Friese wrote:
>
>> It probably doesn't, John. I guess I just don't understand why some people
>> are "curious" about other people's sexual preferences.
>
>
>So they know if the "other people" are fair game or not :)
>
>~john
Sounds fair to me. The motto of the species: Either eat it, mate with
it, or run away.
modom