You've obviously never loaded a container before, "son"....
My suggestion:
Weld a pyramid-shaped steel support with a tow ball on top to support the tongue without the weight being on the jockey wheel.
Buy three minimum 2" wide ratchet straps with hooks on the ends, or long thread-through >2" ratchet straps with no hooks.
If the trailer does not have tiedown points at the tail that the webbing will thread through, get/install hardware to allow that.
Back the trailer in, aligning best you can with the hard points in the container.
Chock the wheels with nailed-in 2x4s or greater, 2-high works well (4"/100mm high).
Put the tongue on the pyramid stand. Chock the stand with nailed-in 2x4s.
Run the three ratchet straps across: Tongue, axle (careful around brake lines) and tiedown points on the tail, to the hard points at the bottom of the container wall.
Thoroughly tighten the ratchet straps. Tighten them again.
Barring the not-so-unusual "oops, I dropped the container", you should find the load looks the same at the other end.
Don't pay for additional insurance. They're really good at "that didn't happen on my watch".
Jim