I am Jeffrey, the person who started this thread back in 2001. My current e-mail address for contacting me about this subject if you wish to is
peacefu...@gmail.com
I am still open to discussing this subject (regardless of what aspect, be it happy memories or the more solemn issues that surrounded Sky Life), if anyone cares to.
I don't know when the last time I checked this thread out was, but I was pretty stunned to see that I started it over 16 years ago and that there was a comment left as recently as October 2017. Amazing!
If my getting a discussion about Sky Life started has helped people achieve a needed catharsis about what may have been done to them by Lee Barnes (whom I now know had been a pedophile), I am very glad.
I feel a little guilty about not having posted any updates to this thread over the years, myself. Here is a little more about me.
I attended Sky Life on the recommendation (indeed, on the referral) of a Mr. Steve Wilansky, who was a private pilot and an educator who taught "Flight and Aerospace" at my high school, Smithtown High School East, in Smithtown, NY (on Long Island).
My dad was already a Private Pilot. I was the youngest of the four kids in my family, and my only brother was nine years older and already out of the house and out of college when Dad got his license to fly, so I got the privilege (and it was a privilege!) of getting taken flying by Dad. I believe that I was even in the back seat of a few 172s when Dad was still taking dual instruction. Later, we flew in both 172s and 152s. This was all out of Long Island Islip MacArthur Airport (KISP). Dad and I used to fly all over Long Island, out east to Montauk and Block Island, north to Connecticut, and even up the Hudson River VFR corridor (which I don't even know if you can do anymore).
I got ten hours of flight instruction with Jay Treat III as I mentioned earlier, but CORRECTION: I attended in the summer of 1987, not 1986 as I had posted initially. It was the summer after my sophomore year in high school. (Freshman '85/'86; Sophomore '86/'87; Junior '87/'88; Senior/graduated '88/'89. I had miscalculated when I first posted.)
After that, I flew with my Dad (not logging time because he was not a CFI) and was a Civil Air Patrol cadet, although I was not particularly dedicated to CAP and didn't go far with it. However, my involvement with CAP got Dad interested: He joined, and became a mission pilot with them. I am proud to say that my dad was the first pilot airborne in the search for JFK Jr.'s downed plane when the ELT got picked up. The search was handed off to Massachusetts wing before long, however, and they're the ones who eventually made the find. Dad got involved with CAP in the late '80s and I am proud that he remains active with Squadron 10 on Long Island to this day. He loves educating kids about aviation, and he's quite good at it.
When I was in high school, I entertained the idea of trying for an appointment to the U.S. Air Force Academy, flying in the military, becoming an astronaut ... probably in part because of my fascination with aviation combined with my love of comic books. I didn't pursue that course seriously for long, though. I think that I just let laziness get the best of me. I'll say more about where I ended up later.
I had a definite aptitude for flying, physically and intellectually, but I didn't maximize it or develop it as I probably should have.
<<<<<It's my biggest regret in life.>>>>>
At the very least, I should have gone on to be a professional pilot in some regard, whether as a CFI, a corporate pilot, an airline pilot, a seaplane charter pilot, a bush pilot--something!
I was a little bit daunted by the studying aspect. I've always been a good student, in as much as I learn easily, and I retain well. But I believe now that I had an undiagnosed problem with attention deficit that made it hard to focus and retain info that I read. So I kind of shunned the studying of the books that had to be done to become a pilot. In particular, there is one thing that stands out as something that discouraged me from becoming a professional pilot. It was a gross misapprehension on my part. I was handed the FAR/AIM book--AND I THOUGHT THAT I HAD TO READ AND KNOW THAT ENTIRE THING.
If I had made clear that this was my concern, I'm sure that SOMEONE--my dad or otherwise--would have laughed and reassured me that no, you don't have to read the entire FAR book! And then I would have possibly (not definitely, but possibly) felt less pressure and anxiety about the studying, and been able to get it done.
When I was a senior in high school, my dad paid for me to take flying lessons with the commander of my CAP squadron, a great pilot and instructor named Jacques Heinrich. We used a CAP 172, N202NY. I logged a modest number of hours with him and learned a lot, but always felt that my knowledge as a developing pilot was an incomplete patchwork. I'm sure that had I kept at it, I would have filled in the gaps. I think that at the time, Jacques was really just developing my physical control of the airplane, for the time being.
I didn't complete a rating with Jacques. For some reason, we just sort of tapered off.
In the summer of my sophomore year at college, Dad resumed paying for me to take more flying lessons. It's so long ago, I don't recall how or why it happened. I flew with Jacques once again, and with my hours in the low 30s, he soloed me one day at Brookhaven Airport on Long Island.
It was funny. We had been doing pattern work, with Jacques calling out reminders to me at some points, stuff like when to apply flaps, when to throttle back, etc. We were taxiing back for another takeoff when Jacques looked at me and asked, "Do you think you can do it without me this time?"
I answered back without any hesitation that yes, I felt that I could--but here's the thing: I thought he was asking whether I believed I could do it with him SHUTTING UP and not giving me tips! I didn't know he meant "without him in the plane" until he said to pull up along the grass and let him out!
When I realized what he meant, I played it REAL COOOOOL like I had never been under any confusion. I didn't want him to yank away the offer to let me SOLO-FLY AN AIRPLANE! So I dropped him off, centered myself, found my confidence, and went and did that takeoff and landing! It went perfectly! I think that he had me do two or three more before signaled for me to pick him back up.
That was in 1991. I'll have to check my logbook to see whether I did any further flying with Jacques after that day. I cannot remember whether I did, but I know that I did either drop off or taper off and didn't do any flying again until 2002. Using money that I inherited when my mother died in 2001, I fulfilled my ambition of getting my private pilot's license. I passed the written exam with only one answer wrong, after studying with the King DVD course and making several 100% scores on practice tests with the Gleim book. I passed my flight exam on September 21, 2002 and became a licensed private pilot.
I have never earned a sufficient income to be able to sustain recreational hobby flying, unfortunately. (Refer to my regret that I didn't pursue a career as a pilot.) I was always using that inheritance money to fly, and using my modest income to live. My income didn't provide for both. The money I was using to finance my flight instruction and hobby flying dried up around 2007, and so that was the last time I was current. As I said, it's a huge regret.
I've stayed somewhat active in skydiving, though. I had done my first skydives in 1991 (around the time when I soloed) but didn't go on to get licensed (I was a college student and it was quite expensive.) I got licensed to skydive in 2003, not long after I got my pilot's license. My most recent skydives were some time this past summer (2017).
I DO hope to one day be able to resume flying. I don't have a plan for making it happen just yet, but one never knows what the future will bring. Of course, a huge amount of that has to do with the deliberate steps you take to make something happen. I just don't have any ideas yet.
Again, if this thread has helped you in any way to achieve catharsis or peace, that's excellent and it exceeds my hopes. May all who read this be well and healthy and happy. Please stay in touch.