On Feb 17, 2023, Hamish Laws wrote
(in article<
5565da9f-6c84-4dbd...@googlegroups.com>):
> On Thursday, February 16, 2023 at 1:30:48 AM UTC+11, WolfFan wrote:
> > On Feb 15, 2023, Jaimie Vandenbergh wrote
> > (in article <
k53siu...@mid.individual.net>):
> > > On 15 Feb 2023 at 07:01:35 GMT, "Hamish Laws"<
hamis...@gmail.com>
> > > wrote:
> > >
> > > > On Saturday, February 4, 2023 at 9:08:09 AM UTC+11, Lynn McGuire wrote:
> > > > > “When You Should Ban Someone From Your Convention” by Michael Z.
> > > > > Williamson
> > > > >
https://www.michaelzwilliamson.com/cms/index.php/22-writing/516-462
> > > > >
> > > > > “Here's the scenario. You're running an event, and on TWITter or
> > > > > Fecesbook, someone calls out a guest and states, "I wouldn't feel safe
> > > > > with this person at the con!""
> > > > >
> > > > > “You must immediately ban this person from the convention.”
> > > > >
> > > > > "No, not the guest. The person making the public scene.”"
> > > > Yeah, it's not like there's ever been any convention guests that have ever
> > > > done anything wrong...
> > >
> > > Indeed. It's the "nazi pub" story. You've got to kick the nazi's out
> > > immediately even if they seem to be inoffensive when they first sit
> > > down, otherwise your pub becomes a nazi pub. The pub is the con, in this
> > > case. The nazi is the guest who makes people unsafe.
> > How, exactly, is the guest making the idiot unsafe? The quote was that the
> > idiot _felt_ unsafe, not that the idiot _was_ unsafe.
>
> Dunno, maybe sexual harassment like Asimov and Ellison
Heave their asses out the instant they go touchy-feely.
>
> maybe it's Vox Doy, a white supremacist, misogynist who called N. K. Jemisin,
> "an ignorant. half savage", and who says women shouldn't have the vote?
If he says this at the con, heave his ass out.
>
> Maybe it was David Eddings who spend time in jail for abusing his adopted
> children
Was it at a con? If at a con, heave his ass out. If not... not the con’s
business.
>
> Maybe it's somebody who's called for violence against a minority
If at a con, heave him out. If not, don’t.
>
>
> 'An informal 2014 survey found that 13 percent of fans and professionals had
> been on the receiving end of “unwanted comments of a sexual nature” at
> conventions. And a horrifying eight percent said they had been “groped,
> assaulted, or raped at a comic convention.”'
There’s a wide spectrum from ‘groped’ to ‘assaulted’ to
‘raped’, and for groped, heave his ass out, for the other two, have
security (if the con has it, or hotel security if not) sit on him until the
cops arrive and send his ass out in handcuffs.
>
>
> The point is that there are options other than immediately
> 1) ban the guest based on a complaint
> 2) ban the complainant
I wouldn’t have done either. The idiot was proposing to bank the guest
before the guest had done anything to the idiot. If the idiot feels that
strongly, stay away.
>
>
> the idea that the correct reaction to every complaint is to ban the
> complainant is as ludicrous as the idea that the correct response is to ban
> the guest in all cases.
> Complaints need to be investigated
>
> > The solution to the idiot’s problem was one of the following:
> >
> > 1. Don’t go to the con. If enough idiots don’t go to the con because of
> > the guest, con management will get the message.
>
> a) Don't you normally rant about that being cancel culture?
[citation needed]
>
> b) so people who were harassed by Asimov or groped by Ellison should have
> just stayed away until they died?
Nope. Asimov and Ellison should have been heaved out until they promised to
behave. And, if they broke their promise and did it again one being let back
in, banned for life. I don’t give a shit who they are.
But... that’s for an actual offense, not one that exists only in the
imagination of an idiot.
>
> >
> > 2. Go to the con, but stay away from the guest. Unless the guest actively
> > stalks the idiot, they’ll be fine... and if the guest does that, THEN toss
> > him. And call the cops.
>
> Again, Asimov did it for decades.
He should have been tossed.
>
>
> > >
> > >
> > > Blaming the messenger is such a shitty thing to do, and hallmark of a
> > > con that has incompetent management.
> > Nah. Listening to idiots having the vapors is the hallmark of a con that has
> > incompetent management.
>
> Until you actually investigate you don't know whether it's an idiot with the
> vapors or a real issue
I bloody know it’s vapors as THE DAMN CON HASN’T HAPPENED YET AND THERE
LITERALLY COULD NOT HAVE BEEN AN OFFENSE YET.
>
>
> > Tossing the guest BEFORE s/he does anything is an act
> > of extremely shitty management.
>
> Yeah, it's not like it's possible that the guest has done things before that
> the complainant is aware of but the con management isn't
Cool. So inform the management of prior bad acts. Management can then look
and see. If there’s anything to it, warn the guest to be on best behavior
and keep an eye out. If the guest has been banned elsewhere for repeated bad
acts, _then_ consider heaving him. If there isn’t anything, or if bad acts
weren’t repeated, tell the idiot that no action will be taken.