Peter Trei <
pete...@gmail.com> wrote:
>On Friday, June 2, 2017 at 1:00:04 PM UTC-4, Dorothy J Heydt wrote:
>> In article <
epdhqd...@mid.individual.net>,
>> John F. Eldredge <
jo...@jfeldredge.com> wrote:
>> >In the novel "Our Lady of Darkness", Fritz Leiber uses the expression
>> >"scholar's mistress", referring to books and papers piled on a bed,
>> >taking up the space where a second person would otherwise lie. A Google
>> >search for this term turns up mostly references to the novel, and I
>> >haven't found any that predate the publication of the novel. I did find a
>> >few earlier cases that referred to an actual person, rather than a pile
>> >of books. Did Fritz Leiber coin this expression?
>>
>> He may have done. A quick google shows references only to
>> Leiber's book or to blogs reading "I picked up this phrase
>> somewhere last year...."
>>
>> I suppose we could refer to the pile of books and things that
>> slowly accumulate on Hal's side of our bed as "the writer's
>> husband," since he gets up in the morning and sits at his desk
>> all day, whereas I stay in bed (because of the CFS) except to get
>> up and find a book I need for a reference. And then I have to
>> get up and clear them all off in the evening.
>
>Wouldn't that be 'The writer's lover'? (which is also gender neutral).
Yes, except that in this case he *is* my husband. :)