I know that this has been discussed to death and reading some of the
old threads it appears that most people think that Mat was raped by
Tylin. Even though the actual actions might appear as rape to someone
witnessing the incident the whole build up to the act clearly
demonstrates Mat was playing hard to get. Sure Mat must have had a few
reservations about bedding Tylin given she was quite a bit older and
was also a Queen but if Mat seriously did not want to be "raped' then
it would not have happened. Mat is a seasoned fighter. He has beaten
Galad and Gawyn in combat, killed a Shaido assassin (while in the
throngs of passion) and also killed a Shaido Clan Chief. One middle
aged woman with a dagger, however sharp, would have lasted the best
part of 2 seconds against Mat had he wanted to put an end to her
advances. I thing the best interpretation for the use of a weapon in
that scene was as some aggressive foreplay! ;-)
>I know that this has been discussed to death and reading some of the
>old threads it appears that most people think that Mat was raped by
>Tylin. Even though the actual actions might appear as rape to someone
>witnessing the incident the whole build up to the act clearly
>demonstrates Mat was playing hard to get. Sure Mat must have had a few
>reservations about bedding Tylin given she was quite a bit older and
>was also a Queen but if Mat seriously did not want to be "raped' then
>it would not have happened. Mat is a seasoned fighter. He has beaten
>Galad and Gawyn in combat, killed a Shaido assassin (while in the
>throngs of passion) and also killed a Shaido Clan Chief. One middle
>aged woman with a dagger, however sharp, would have lasted the best
>part of 2 seconds against Mat had he wanted to put an end to her
>advances. I thing the best interpretation for the use of a weapon in
>that scene was as some aggressive foreplay! ;-)
'Cept that Mat, like the rest of the two rivers folks, has a serious
Problem with hitting women. He couldn't defend himself and keep any of his
self-respect, so he yielded and only gave up most.
Jasper
Isn't it a bit difficult for a man to have sex against his will? I
doubt a distinguished southern gentleman like RJ would assume his
readers are familiar with pegging.
It is not that simple. When a male attempts to rape a female
there is not a lot on her side that can prevent it, besides
fighting back. In the other direction it is not that reliable,
but arousal without consent is possible in some cases and the
result is just as effective a rape as the other way round.
I think Mat would have been perfectly justified to use any amount
of force necessary (including lethal) to fight this rabid animal
off.
Arno