One thing our band does every year is have the seniors wake up the freshmen
at an ungodly hour in the morning a few days before school starts. They then take
the freshmen to the school, where they have breakfast, watch a movie, play games,
and some other stuff--though I am sure this can be modified for whatever you want
to do with your freshmen. Each senior had three freshmen to wake up. One senior
woke their freshmen up with the loudest airhorn you have ever heard--at four thirty
in the morning. He then drove them around town for a few hours, keeping them awake,
eventually getting them to the high school for the festivities starting around
6:30, 7:00. Hope this helps some.
Here's an idea for ya; instead of "torture", why not accept them and help
them out? Seems to me that they'll respect you a whole lot more.
J.L. Vala
"Just when you got it made
And all your bills are paid
You stumble and fall into your grave..." V. Furnier
Chuh!, Duh!, and Whatever!,
Devon Tutak
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Student, Actress, Trumpeter Extraordinaire
Kearny High School, Class of 1999
"Always look on the bright side of life."
"You gotta be sincere."
The official trumpet greeting: "Hi, I'm better than you."
What we do in our band is wrap (or "TP") the freshmen's houses before the
first football game. Everything is legal--we have each parent's concent,
and the directors are aware of what we do, as long as we have a chaparone
(yes, a chaparone). It's loads of fun for the upper classmen, AND the
freshman. Another thing is the annual (anal i think) "Yank Them Out of
Bed at 6:00 am for Breakfast and 'lots of fun activities'" I was too
tired to enjoy the expirience, but the freshmen and the rest of the upper
classmen loved it. I helped them to become closer with each other.
Instead of dogging someones ideas J.L., try to make sense of them and
respond appropriately.
-rob-
"without football, we'd all be preparing for concert season"
> Geez, you sound like a band dad or something. Were you picked on as a
> kid? Freshman initiations are a rite of passage into high school. They
> have been since the dawn of time.
Preexistance is no justification for anything. An idea must stand upon
it's own merits, not just "that's what we've always done."
> Yes, they will be accepted into the
> spirit of the band's family atmosphere, but for the first week or two,
> they are expected to "learn" their place in the band.
And what place would that be? Some kind of correlation to "the back of
the bus" or "in the kitchen"?
> The last thing the
> band needs is for a freshman to think he's hot-shit.
Yeah, they got you for that, right?
> That ruins the
> entire band--the upper classmen sure don't want a freshman to make a scene
> of themselves every rehersal, and noone wants their attitude to rub off
> onto other freshmen. This may not be hand-in-hand with freshmen
> initiations, but it sure helps to teach them FAST where their place is in
> the band.
Gee, when a judge marks off somebody for a mistake, do they consider what
class they are in? NO
When, your band director considers people for first chair or section lead
does being a freshman disqualify him? I would certainly hope not.
If a freshman can play better than an upper classman (something I have
seen a lot of time) are you going to waste the talent and have him play
something beneath his talent? You would be foolish to do that.
> Instead of dogging someones ideas J.L., try to make sense of them and
> respond appropriately.
Instead of treating people by virtue of their inclusion in a certain group,
be it race, sex, religion, age, weight, height, or any other classification
why not treat them as individuals.
-- And now for something completely different...
-- The penguin on your computer will explode.
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-- Drew B. McPheeters dr...@velveeta.apdev.cs.mci.com , dr...@frii.com
HAZING : Hazing is defined as any actions taken or situation created,
intentionally or unintentionally, to produce mental or physical discomfort
on or off campus involving members and/or prospective members, which may
cause embarrassment, harassment, and/or ridicule.
With people willing to sue for just about anything these days, maybe you
should think twice before you jeopardize the financial status (and
REPUTATION) of your band, your school, and your county. (or parish for my
Louisiana friends) How would you like to no longer have a band
organization because you shot shaving cream into someones eyes and blinded
them?
Even if you have consent from parents, band directors, etc., you are still
embarrassing, harrassing, and ridiculing those new members. The TRUST and
RESPECT that your freshman give you should be earned by the ATTITUDES and
ACTIONS of the upperclassmen - not by fear. Respect based on fear is
false.
You can flame me if you want. This is not just someone being an old
fogie. These are the facts -- don't say it can't happen to you - it can.
Sorry guys, I'm with J. L. Vala on this one.
Kathy
A member of the think before you act club
Tau Beta Sigma Life Member
Instructor, Kathleen High School Color Guard (Lakeland, FL)
and....
a former high school and college band member
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>"without football, we'd all be preparing for concert season"
>
I'm not sure where you are comming from. Does your band function for the
purpose of a 'half-time show'? My band uses the football game as a rehersal.
We only play at home games which usually fall on a Saturday we have a
competition. We simply play (usually without uniforms) and get the hell out of
there. When we play, many people come just to see the 'half-time show', not
the football game. Sorry all you football players, you still have the
cheerleaders.
Orientation/Initiation is meant in all good fun. In most cases, it is not
to completely maim and scar a person for life, it is to welcome them into
the group. Sure, its a weird way of welcoming the group, but if your band
is anything like mine, you're weird, too. If someone severely objects to
initiation, then you don't initiate them. If they don't want to
participate, don't make them. Initiation does not mean kill the person,
it means play a little practical joke or dress them in drag. Initiation
is not throwing someone into a pool of sharks, which is what some of you
are making it out to be. If you don't like it, go sue someone's ass off
for all the money they have. So, if you're my band director, and I can
"sue for anything these days", I'll sue you for telling me I'm out of
step. Because that cuases "mental discomfort" to me, so I guess that's
Hazing, right? Wrong! With all the serious work we put in at band and/or
band camp, we deserve a little fun. And I am sure that no one here meant
fun as ripping a freshman's head off!!!!!!!!!!!!!
> Does anyone have any really good ideas for freshmen initiation? I'm going to
> be a senior and band camp is next month and I really want to torture some fresh
> meat. Post or e-mail
How about something really unique. Make them feel welcome, needed, and
important, rather than hated despised, stupid, untalented, and ugly.
Some of those you will "torture" will not see it as a fun, joking or
inclusive right of passage. To them it will be mean, demeaning, and
embarrasing.
That you would even be allowed to do something like this is revolting.
I'm not a touchy, feely, lovey-dovey new-ager either (no offense), but
there is no reason for these ridiculous rituals anymore.
-- I'd rather have a bottle in front of me, than a frontal lobotomy!
A lot of things seem like harmless fun to the people
doing it. Ever hear the people arrested for date rape?
> If someone severely objects to
> initiation, then you don't initiate them. If they don't want to
> participate, don't make them.
Do they know they can opt out of participation? Will they be made
the object of ridicule if they do? Peer pressure is a great force
at that age. I know of many stories where young people are arrested
for doing something they wouldn't do on their own, because they wanted
to go along with the gang.
> Initiation does not mean kill the person,
> it means play a little practical joke or dress them in drag. Initiation
> is not throwing someone into a pool of sharks, which is what some of you
> are making it out to be.
Emotional damage of humilitation can take longer to heal than physical
scares. Making someone dress in drag may be funny to you, but some
people could find it humiliating beyond belief.
> If you don't like it, go sue someone's ass off
> for all the money they have.
Yeah, that's a real good attitude, and a true indication of the trouble
this country is in.
> So, if you're my band director, and I can
> "sue for anything these days", I'll sue you for telling me I'm out of
> step. Because that cuases "mental discomfort" to me, so I guess that's
> Hazing, right? Wrong!
Apples and Oranges. When you join band, part of what defines a marching
band is marching in step. When you join marching band you assume the
responsibility to follow certain guidlines of performance.
> With all the serious work we put in at band and/or
> band camp, we deserve a little fun.
Fun is fine. Why must it be at the expense of others?
> And I am sure that no one here meant
> fun as ripping a freshman's head off!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You make a lot of assumptions, cause I have seen or been told of many
seperate instances of physical injury from your kind of so-called
"harmless" initiation.
>> Does anyone have any really good ideas for freshmen initiation? I'm
>going to
>>be a senior and band camp is next month and I really want to torture some
>fresh
>>meat. Post or e-mail
Remember that the freshmen will be the leaders of the band program in
four years. If they are treated negatively in band camp, then they
will take out their hostilities once they get the chance. Negativity
can and will KILL a marching band. I know it sounds corny, but as a
Senior, you are a person in authority, and you will be much more
respected if you are accepting of the freshmen and cnthusiastic about
the year. Just my 2 cents.
Adam Duritza
Senior Drum Major
L'Anse Creuse High School Marching Lancers
So, who are you, anyway? Some geek who got picked on too much? Some
person who couldn't march for shit and paid for it? Someone who got
laughed at? Get used to it, that's real life. But you don't live in the
real world, do you? You live inside your tiny, pathetic, close-centered
mind!
If you had a brain you would learn how to properly quote what others had said.
> And by the way, speaking of apples and oranges, DATE RAPE?
> What the hell is wrong with your mind that you can not see the huge
> difference!!!! I'm sorry, but you must belong to some sick, twisted band
> who rapes freshman for initiation.
I don't belong to any group which demands I take part is some kind
of stupid initiation. That's what I am arguing against.
> That's a very serious offense, and the
> last time I heard, it wasn't meant all in good fun without intention of
> hurting, and don't give me crap about how it isn't cause I'll fight even
> harder.
If you will take time to read, you will know that I never said
anything like that. Physical abuse is physical abuse, emotional abuse
is emotional abuse. I don't distinguish between circumstances. Do you?
> So, who are you, anyway? Some geek who got picked on too much? Some
> person who couldn't march for shit and paid for it? Someone who got
> laughed at? Get used to it, that's real life. But you don't live in the
> real world, do you? You live inside your tiny, pathetic, close-centered
> mind!
Actually I am someone that volunteers my time without pay to help a high
school band, because I think it's an important and fun thing to do. Not
that I need to justify any of my opinions whatsoever.
This tirade shows your real attitude.
1. Those with power and positions of authority can do what they want.
2. Those without should shut up and take it, or else.
3. Dissenting opinions are not tolerated.
> Chuh!, Duh!, and Whatever!,
You said it, you obviously live it.
AOL.... I should have guessed.
> Student, Actress, Trumpeter Extraordinaire
Let me guess...
You were passed over for the lead in `Clueless'
Should have told them that was your life's story.
-- I'd rather have a bottle in front of me, than a frontal lobotomy!
As a School Board Director and Band Parent, I have to agree with Kathy. As
well as the Mental or Physical abuse of the Freshman, it can lead to the end
of your band program. Hazing is childish and have no place in any program or
school activity. Incomming new members have enough problems trying to be
accepted and do what is required by the program than to be harrrassed. Have
fun and enjoy your band and its activities. There are too many people just
looking for some excuse to use the band funds for other activites (SPORTS).
Piccolo Butch
>Orientation/Initiation is meant in all good fun. In most cases, it is
not to completely >maim and scar a person for life, it is to welcome them
into the group. Sure, its a >weird way of welcoming the group, but if
your band
>is anything like mine, you're weird, too.
Weirdness is relative.
>If someone severely objects to
>initiation, then you don't initiate them. If they don't want to
>participate, don't make them. Initiation does not mean kill the person,
>it means play a little practical joke or dress them in drag. Initiation
>is not throwing someone into a pool of sharks, which is what some of you
>are making it out to be.
No, initiation is not throwing someone into a pool of sharks. (Unless you
live near Sea World, it is nearly impossible to find a good pool of hungry
sharks, anyway.) "Initiate", the verb is (I defer to Mr. Webster's
college version) - 1) to cause or facilitate the beginning of: set going
(i.e., MOTIVATE) 2) to instruct in the rudiments or principles of
something (i.e. EDUCATE) 3) to induct into membership by or as if by
special rites (i.e., CELEBRATE)
>If you don't like it, go sue someone's ass off
>for all the money they have.
It could happen to not just you, but your band, school, and school
district.
>So, if you're my band director, and I can
>"sue for anything these days", I'll sue you for telling me I'm out of
>step. Because that cuases "mental discomfort" to me, so I guess that's
>Hazing, right? Wrong!
Educating and harrassing are two separate (we all hope) vehicles. Think
of what your band director tells you when you're out of step. At the
worst, it may be "Devon, you're on the wrong foot, what's wrong with you?"
(S)he probably doesn't say "Devon, get in step or the entire band will
think that you are a worthless piece of lowly protoplasm!" Quite a bit of
difference, wouldn't you say?
>With all the serious work we put in at band and/or
>band camp, we deserve a little fun. And I am sure that no one here meant
>fun as ripping a freshman's head off!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Fun is great, just not a someone elses expense. People who have to put
down others to build up themselves are insecure and a lot worse off than
the people they are harassing.
Kathy
PS Did I mention that I was hazed, and even though I WENT THROUGH IT, I
don't think that anyone else should have to. Come on people, think for
yourselves. Start new traditions instead of just being lemmings!
Well, someone made a remark about treating fellow band members like dirt,
and I responded by saying that I thaught that kind of behavior is silly.
Any Questions?
Andrew Bailey
Cary High School Trumpet 94-96
Tarheel Sun Soprano 96'
PS: Drew and BdwyBby, yall can move your little flame war to e-mail so all
of us don't have to read it daily! Thanks!
Last year was my freshman year. I did NOT get initiated. And you know
what, neither did any of the other freshman. What was our response? We
were upset. Of the large percentage of the freshman who commented on it,
about 95% said that they had wanted to be initiated. Do you know why?
Because we don't kill people with initiation at Kearny High School. The
year before my freshman year, I attended band camp to march blanks. The
initiation that year ------- The Freshman Fashion show, which had kids
dress up like homies, the bikers, the Clueless ------ all in good fun and
in good taste (unless you count the female pimp and two male hookers in
drag at the end). Everyone laughed. Everyone had a good time. If you
didn't want to participate you didn't. The year before that, the
initiation was dancing with a pool toy whale. We have a dance at the end
of the band camp, and each freshman danced with the whale. That was it.
Do you see any physical or mental scars? No, unless some now senior wakes
up in the night dreaming of sharks in drag.
So, I hope my point has been made. Just because some cases of initiation
have gone completely crazy, not all have. So please, just understand that
what your life is like, or your views in life, are not necessarily like
everyone elses.
Bari
Jennifer Dunham wrote:
>
> Here's an idea....
>
> How about having a big sister/brother - little sister/brother program?
> Pair up each freshman with a responsible, respected upperclassman. --
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How about having a big sister/brother - little sister/brother program?
Pair up each freshman with a responsible, respected upperclassman. Have
that person write their freshman a letter a week or so before band camp
starts welcoming them to the band program and the high school. Get
several pairs of bigs and littles together during band camp and do "get
accquanted" games, or maybe even do some games with several pairs against
other pairs. Build UNITY between your classes! You can still have fun
and make the freshman feel special without humiliating them. Although I
ended up being pretty outgoing by the time my senior year came, I don't
think I would've enjoyed any sort of initiation that included mental or
physical teasing when I was only 14! As a coach, I wouldn't want my
squad to do that, and as a member of a college sorority, I wouldn't do
that to any of our pledges! I want people to feel welcome and special
when they are a part of any of my organizations!
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Sycamore Spirits Flag Corps
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I AGREE!!!!!
I lived in fear of "Initiation" for a whole year. I would never put any
new comers to my section through that!!!!!
John
Bari
Nathan
Jim Scott
Westerville South
Class of `96
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>Nathan
Nathan, you're assuming that all initiators have the best intentions in
mind. Yes, there are harmless pranks that can be funny and be called an
initiation. However, I can recall several incidents with a couple of
bands that I used to teach where injuries occurred. Is that cool or make
the initiators bad-asses? I think it makes them f***ing scumbag cowards.
>One of the things we always did was had all of the freshman get
>up on the stage at our camp and have them lip-sync to a song that
>our student DJ picked. It was fun for everyone, yes even the
>freshman, and it helped get rid of that fear of being in front of
>people that some people have. Which is not a good thing in the
>Hoosier Dome during BOA Grand National Finals competition.
>
>
This is the kind of initiation that everyone should have. Bands shouldn't
have initiations. You want your new members to feel welcome, not want to
quit after the first day!
Megan
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THAT sounds like a great tradition. I hate to see "initiations" that
humiliate and embarrass freshman though. you should be able to look back on
your years in band and have fond memories:)
>We lock
>them all in the band room with the seniors (of which I am one) and turn
>out the lights and make them run through stuff that feels like things it
>isn't and other harmless things like that.
You turn off all of the lights and make them run? I guess by stuff that
feels like things it isn't you probably mean slippery, gooey, things. How
many times has someone slipped and hurt themselves? How many times has
someone run into something because they couldn't see?
Is there anyone else reading this thread who thinks these things are
*SERIOUS* potential for problems? Perhaps you guys should talk to the
music department at Florida State University and see what kind of problems
they've had because of freshman "initiation." I find it hard to believe
that your band director encourages this kind of thing!!!
Kathy (again)
who hopes that one day you guys will wake up and realize how immature and
dangerous **HAZING** is!!
>In article <Pine.GSO.3.93.96072...@newworld.bridge.net>,
>"Homie D. Clown" <e...@newworld.bridge.net> writes:
>
>>We lock
>>them all in the band room with the seniors (of which I am one) and turn
>>out the lights and make them run through stuff that feels like things it
>>isn't and other harmless things like that.
>
>You turn off all of the lights and make them run? I guess by stuff that
>feels like things it isn't you probably mean slippery, gooey, things.
How
>many times has someone slipped and hurt themselves? How many times has
>someone run into something because they couldn't see?
>
>Is there anyone else reading this thread who thinks these things are
>*SERIOUS* potential for problems? Perhaps you guys should talk to the
>music department at Florida State University and see what kind of
problems
>they've had because of freshman "initiation." I find it hard to believe
>that your band director encourages this kind of thing!!!
Oh I totally agree. No one deserves this kind of treatment. What does
this running through things do to your band room? I would think it would
make it a disaster, a pain to clean up. Who cleans it up? Do the seniors
clean it up, or do other students, or worse yet, the custodians, have to
clean it up? Get a better initation. Something not so dangerous.
Think about it.
I agree with Megan and Kathy. Doing stuff like that has got to make a mess
for someone to clean up. Obviously its not you otherwise you woulodnt do
it.
Zak
Chuh!, Duh!, and Whatever!,
Has anyone ever gotten a freshman, stripped him then tie him to an
elevator and press all the buttons so it will stop on all the floors?
Usually we just toss our freshmen in a fountain.
MRF
Nathan
Finally someone that understands... all the flutes out there, I mean
what's the worst that you guys do to each other...vaseline the mouthpiece
and not tell them so when they pick up their instrument to play they've
got an interesting dilemma on their lips? Geesh, if you were brought up
in the drumline, you'd understand what a right of passage is. There is
nothing fun about band camp usually, why because the drumline gets the
brunt of the jokes, always getting told not to do certain things and
having to do extra practice since the band relys on the drumline to
provide the beat. I swear when we bring in our frosh this year, it's
gonna be so much fun to drill them. Especially since the drum major's
little sister is going to be in the drum line and she's treating me (drum
captain) like I was not her superior. So much fun... In other words,
she's probably going to get iniated as a warning not to piss off the
seniors who really want their final year in band to count. So please,
those of you who aren't in the drum line or are freshman or sophomores,
don't post back to this =) It really gets irritating to listen to the
youth complain after you have been thrased for 2 or 3 years and now what
it means to win a competition and how hard it is to work up to that.
Most frosh come up from middle school expecting competitions to handed to
them. I'm sorry, that's not the way it works. And by the way, the only
hazing that I personally do is to keep the drumline in order and focused
on winning. If you call that initiation, then call it initiation, that's
fine. We call it discipline that the band director hasn't taken care of.
Bari
Bass '93, '94
Quads '95
Snare '96 & Drum Captain
>I remember up at band camp, we used to have this thing called high court.
>One of the staff members would write these hilarious songs to "humiliate"
>anyone who had drawn too much attention that year. For example, all the
>freshman girls who had a crush on a big senior; someone caught peeking in
>cabins of the opposite sex; dating a member of the staff, etc.,
Dating members of the Staff. Unless you have some young staff, I'd say
that's illegal.
Randy Q Snott
you say buttkisser like its a bad thing. - Homer
First, sir, you need to deal with *your* ego before you deal with anybody
else's. Your post, and the previous one, are the perfect example of what
kind of people we *don't* need in a marching band. The way to earn a new
member's respect is not to humiliate him or her. Treat them with respect,
and the same will come in return. You might be surprised to find that the
"egos" you speak of will magically disappear when you treat a freshman
like a human being rather than human excrement.
-Brian
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i needed to be initiated
i expected to be initiated
i dreaded being initiated, but...
i loved being initiated.
my freshman year was the bomb.
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>Listen, this is just getting way out of hand. A lot of people are
>assuming a lot of things. I just want to say one thing and that's
>probably all I'm going to post on this topic.
>Last year was my freshman year. I did NOT get initiated. And you know
>what, neither did any of the other freshman. What was our response? We
>were upset. Of the large percentage of the freshman who commented on it,
>about 95% said that they had wanted to be initiated. Do you know why?
>Because we don't kill people with initiation at Kearny High School. The
>year before my freshman year, I attended band camp to march blanks. The
>initiation that year ------- The Freshman Fashion show, which had kids
>dress up like homies, the bikers, the Clueless ------ all in good fun and
>in good taste (unless you count the female pimp and two male hookers in
>drag at the end). Everyone laughed. Everyone had a good time. If you
>didn't want to participate you didn't. The year before that, the
>initiation was dancing with a pool toy whale. We have a dance at the end
>of the band camp, and each freshman danced with the whale. That was it.
>Do you see any physical or mental scars? No, unless some now senior wakes
>up in the night dreaming of sharks in drag.
>So, I hope my point has been made. Just because some cases of initiation
>have gone completely crazy, not all have. So please, just understand that
>what your life is like, or your views in life, are not necessarily like
>everyone elses.
>Chuh!, Duh!, and Whatever!,
>Devon Tutak
>Bdw...@aol.com
>Student, Actress, Trumpeter Extraordinaire
>Kearny High School, Class of 1999
>"Always look on the bright side of life."
>"You gotta be sincere."
>The official trumpet greeting: "Hi, I'm better than you."
This year is my Freshman year and I did get initiated but only because
I am in the drumline. I got a swirly and a cherry belly. Call me
sick but I was laughing durring the whole thing. I don't have any
physical or emotional scars. Initiation for makes us feel like a
part of the group. Everyone who got initiated didn't mind it. Last
year a guy named Patrick graduated and he never got initiated. He was
the biggest dork to ever go throughthe line. At Cleveland that is
what happens if you don't get it.
> This year is my Freshman year and I did get initiated but only because
> I am in the drumline. I got a swirly and a cherry belly. Call me
> sick but I was laughing durring the whole thing. I don't have any
> physical or emotional scars. Initiation for makes us feel like a
> part of the group. Everyone who got initiated didn't mind it. Last
> year a guy named Patrick graduated and he never got initiated. He was
> the biggest dork to ever go throughthe line. At Cleveland that is
> what happens if you don't get it.
>
"Dork" is relative.
-Brian
Theres an inaitation? Hmmm, I don't think I can run too well with a
bari...oh well. Hi everyone! I'm new to this group, and really to
marching also. My music should come in the mail tomorrow. We start
band camp the 19th of august, and our first festival is september 14th.
(I hafta miss it) I march with one of the best bands (supposedly) in
the state. I have heard that it was the only US band in the Victoria
Day PArade, but I dunno. well, I guess (myabe) I'll be talkin to you
later. (I'll shut up now) Bye!
spacey (do you use nicks or real names in here)
on my dad's account: please don't flood/flame. thanks
>fine. We call it discipline that the band director hasn't taken care of.
Depending on the extent, most states also call it illegal...
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Trombone
Dartmouth High School Marching Band '94
Dartmouth, MA
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>freshman need to be initiated
>freshman expect to be initiated
>freshman dread being initiated, but...
>freshman really love being initiated.
I didn't love to be initiated. I hated it. I hated my entire
freshman year except for winning at NESBA championships. I hated it
so much that I quit for my sophomore year (though I did come back for
my junior and senior years). Some freshman can take the initiation,
especially those with fairly decent egos. Those with frail egos (like
I had) can't and they resent the experience. I despised my freshman
year.
4:00 AM wake up call on a Saturday before practice. Dress them in funny
and Wacky clothes (dresses work well for guys). make them push a penny
at a local store while singing or mess with their heads in an empty field.
Finally deliver them to practice on time and in the funny outfits.
Let me guess; You are from Colorado,right?!
This is the way you get such an outstanding band program. I bet really
helps develop the same attitude you in display in respect for other band
programs and I quote "All the band suck except little Broomfield High in
COLORADO so everybody
can kiss my azz"
I don't think I'll be trying anything you suggest; ever.
MAH
Wow, some of the ideas here sound pretty exciting compared to what the
clarinets and trumpets did my senior year of high school. That year the
clarinets made all the freshmen initiates wear "condom leis" and Burger
King crowns to our first football game. And the trumpets blew up a
condom, tied a string to it so it looked like a balloon, painted a happy
face on it, called it "Dewey the Sperm Cell", and made all the freshmen
run around the stadium (one at a time, of course) screaming "Make way for
His Highness Dewey the Sperm Cell."
Thank goodness I was in the percussion line. Talk about traumatic.
Just my $0.03 worth. Enjoy...
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Heres an idea, must find it abit dumb, but hey. Always talk about it,
and make up things that "happened" in the past, Freak them out a bit. OK
alot!! It makes great for moral. Once in my band, they handcuffed a kid
to the toliet, put a key in his mouth and the boy had to wait untill the
janitor came in.
> Heres an idea, must find it abit dumb, but hey. Always talk about it,
>and make up things that "happened" in the past, Freak them out a bit. OK
>alot!! It makes great for moral. Once in my band, they handcuffed a kid
>to the toliet, put a key in his mouth and the boy had to wait untill the
>janitor came in.
Hey, at least you didn't have a toilet as your bride!
PG>4:00 AM wake up call on a Saturday before practice. Dress them in funny
PG>and Wacky clothes (dresses work well for guys). make them push a penny
PG>at a local store while singing or mess with their heads in an empty field.
PG> Finally deliver them to practice on time and in the funny outfits.
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As long as we're going to bring Corps into the discussion . . .
We had a "rookie shirt." It was an XL plain white t-shirt that hadn't
been washed in years. It had writing all over it like "The Rookie
Shirt" "Respect your Vets" and all the years it had been used. For
every Competition a different Rookie would have to wear it during the
show. I got it in Chicago in 1991. It was rancid, but I like the idea.
--
As always,
James Lorenzen
'Tis not for me to reason why,
But my soul longs to March or Die!
Sacramento Freelancers Drum & Bugle Corps. -- Soprano 1991, 1993, 1994
Edward C. Reed High School -- Trumpet Instructor 1993
Meridian High School -- Assistant Percussion Instructor 1995
Capital High School -- Head Marching Coordinator 1995
Nampa High School -- High Brass Instructor 1996
Life is an External Representation of an Internal Idea . . .
a measurement of your "Commitment to Do."
To do what? Anything. EVERYTHING.
Frankfort OH
Jess
Marimba Mistriss, Windchime Specialist, and the Littlest Tenor Drummer :)
North Penn Marching Knights #1 Hershey PA 1996
Danni
TWHS '97
If you really wanted to be leaders and have a proud organization, treat
you members with respect and be model.
Chris Beason
Saxophone Section Leader
University of Illinois Marching Illini
Dave
-Scott Caster
Baritone Saxophone:
Grove City Symphonic Band
Grove City Jazz Ensemble I
Columbus Youth Jazz Ensemble
Well Scott, I'm sorry that this bores you. But this is a problem that
occurs in quite a few bands. If you're not concerned about the negative
aspects that come out of this then you might want to think about it a
while. Maybe you don't see it as a problem but tell the freshman getting
showered in shaving cream, walking down the street with their trousers
down, being screamed at that it is no big deal. That is VERY mild
compared to the stuff I have heard and seen.
If you have a problem with this I will be glad to discuss the matter with
you.
Chris Beason <c-be...@students.uiuc.edu> wrote in article
<Pine.SOL.3.91.97010...@ux4.cso.uiuc.edu>...
> Is initiation really needed? I mean, you have a group of freshmen who are
> new to the school and basically clueless, and you are hazing them for
> wanting to be in an organization. To me that doesn't show much class at
> all. If you can come up with one good reason why humiliation in this form
> is good for the performance of a marching band I will be surprised. And
> the old "It was done to us so we can do it" saying doesn't work here.
>
> If you really wanted to be leaders and have a proud organization, treat
> you members with respect and be model.
>
> Chris Beason
> Saxophone Section Leader
> University of Illinois Marching Illini
>
I think that I have to agree with Chris on this one. I think that the
whole attitude toward incoming freshmen should be to welcome and make them
feel comfortable with everyone so they can feel like part of the group.
Then the band can work better as a group and everyone benefits. To
humiliate them just ostracizes them and that isn't classy. I'm in the UCLA
marching band and we have a policy of no hazing for new members. As stated
in the handbook, "If an older member tells you to cluck like a chicken, you
can tell him or her were they can put their chicken." I have a friend who
was in the band at a certain rival school of ours (who shall remain
nameless) and he said that it was non-stop hazing for new members. He said
he didn't feel welcome at all and he hated it so much that he quit after
the first performance. Judging from the overall quality of this band, I'd
say that this attitude isn't helping them much. I know that these are
college bands, but I think it applies to high school as well. I think that
for many people, the transition to high school can be very intimidating.
If they are able to meet people and feel like part of a group before school
even starts, it just makes it that much easier, and no sort of hazing or
"initiation" helps this transition
Ben Reuben
UCLA Bruin Marching Band
Well, being a member of a college fraternity and a member of band, I can
say first hand that initiations had nothing to do with the outcome of the
incoming student. In the fraternity, when I was a freshman, there was an
initiation ritual which, the past few semesters, has been done away with.
These groups that came in without the ritual were no different than any
other group. In fact, they were more supportive to new students than the
older guys. This made more people want to join the organization.
Initiation has no postive effects for a student. There is nothing to be
proud about when you humiliate someone...
> Well, being a member of a college fraternity and a member of band, I can
> say first hand that initiations had nothing to do with the outcome of the
> incoming student. In the fraternity, when I was a freshman, there was an
> initiation ritual which, the past few semesters, has been done away with.
> These groups that came in without the ritual were no different than any
> other group. In fact, they were more supportive to new students than the
> older guys. This made more people want to join the organization.
> Initiation has no postive effects for a student. There is nothing to be
> proud about when you humiliate someone...
Well said! It should also be pointed out that initiations can very easily
lead to abuse if not well controlled. There are always a few sadistic
individuals that get their kicks from emotionally (and perhaps physically)
torturing other people. Initiations are just too hard to control from an
administrative perspective. Better that there be a "skills test" to become
a fully participating member of the band.