Gay Day (GET A LIFE PEOPLE)
IIDaRcYII
Seriously....WHO CARES????????????? I am so sick of homophobic people it makes
me want to puke. I have a few gay/lesbian friends and they're no different
from anyone else. So IMHO GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!
Ariel
Zipadidoo
Thanks for your input, Ariel, but the situation DOES go a little deeper than
just homophobia.
Carli,
"There's enough land here to hold all the ideas and plans we can possibly
imagine"-
Walt Disney, talking about Walt Disney World
TDC Zipadidoo, Keeper of the Geosphere
BigLug ®
IIDaRcYII wrote:
> Seriously....WHO CARES?????????????
> I am so sick of homophobic people it makes me want to puke.
Well, obviously, *you* care. Or it wouldn't make you retch...
> I have a few gay/lesbian friends and they're no different
> from anyone else.
Actually, they *are* different. Otherwise, some folks wouldn't
feel the need to treat them differently. Right?
Sorry, but anyone that chooses to stick their penis into someone
else's rectum IS different (IMHO). Sorry if you don't agree...
> So IMHO GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!
Thanks, I have a great one. :)
Have a nice day....
In our next installment, we'll discuss the intellectual vacuity of the
term "homophobe" (hint: "scared of homosexuals?" Think not...)
The Rev. Patrick J. Z. Kucera
> Sorry, but anyone that chooses to stick their penis into someone
> else's rectum IS different (IMHO). Sorry if you don't agree...
Don't be too alarmed when you find out that a lot of straight couples
participate in this activity as well.
The Rev. Patrick Kucera
Brooklyn, NY
TDC High Priest of the WDW Wedding Pavillion and Keeper of the Sacred
Relics Therein
IIDaRcYII
>Thanks for your input, Ariel, but the situation DOES go a little deeper than
>just homophobia.
>Carli,
>"There's enough land here to hold all the ideas and plans we can possibly
>imagine"-
I dont mean to flame or be a b*tch but what's so 'deep' about it?
Ariel
Stew Barnes
> In our next installment, we'll discuss the intellectual vacuity of the
> term "homophobe" (hint: "scared of homosexuals?" Think not...)
Or we could discuss the intellectual vacuity of those that believe the the
suffix -phobe *only* means "scared of".
:)
Stew
Michael Kelleher
BigLug ® wrote in message <356236...@netcene.com>...
>IIDaRcYII wrote:
>
>> Seriously....WHO CARES?????????????
>> I am so sick of homophobic people it makes me want to puke.
>
>Well, obviously, *you* care. Or it wouldn't make you retch...
>
>
>> I have a few gay/lesbian friends and they're no different
>> from anyone else.
>
>Actually, they *are* different. Otherwise, some folks wouldn't
>feel the need to treat them differently. Right?
>
>Sorry, but anyone that chooses to stick their penis into someone
>else's rectum IS different (IMHO). Sorry if you don't agree...
>
>
>> So IMHO GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!
>
>Thanks, I have a great one. :)
>
>Have a nice day....
>
>
>In our next installment, we'll discuss the intellectual vacuity of the
>term "homophobe" (hint: "scared of homosexuals?" Think not...)
Main Entry: ho·mo·phobe
Pronunciation: -"fOb
Function: noun
Date: 1975
: a person characterized by homophobia
Main Entry: pho·bia
Pronunciation: 'fO-bE-&
Function: noun
Etymology: -phobia
Date: 1786
: an exaggerated usually inexplicable and illogical fear of a particular
object, class of objects, or situation
Main Entry: 1fear
Pronunciation: 'fir
Date: before 12th century
transitive senses
1 archaic : FRIGHTEN
2 archaic : to feel fear in (oneself)
3 : to have a reverential awe of <fear God>
4 : to be afraid of : expect with alarm
intransitive senses : to be afraid or apprehensive
Entry Word: fear
Function: n
Text: 1 agitation or dismay in the anticipation of or in the presence of
danger <living in fear of what the future might hold>
Synonyms alarm, cold feet, consternation, dismay, dread, fright, horror,
panic, terror, trepidation, trepidity (gee any of these seem like SCARED???)
Mike
Michael Kelleher
Stew Barnes wrote in message ...
>In article <356236...@netcene.com>, BigLug ® <mah...@netcene.com>
wrote:
>
>> In our next installment, we'll discuss the intellectual vacuity of the
>> term "homophobe" (hint: "scared of homosexuals?" Think not...)
>
>Or we could discuss the intellectual vacuity of those that believe the the
>suffix -phobe *only* means "scared of".
>
>:)
>
>Stew
Main Entry: ho·mo·phobe
Zipadidoo
I didn't say it was deep, just that the issue goes deeper than just homophobia.
Read the posts; there are issues of crowded parks, special interest groups
being too powerful, etc. I'm not saying I agree with any of it, but you should
realize that homophobia is really just the tip of the iceberg.
"There's enough land here to hold all the ideas and plans we can possibly
imagine"-
Stew Barnes
In article <6jtsf1$lr7$1...@supernews.com>, "Michael Kelleher"
<kell...@bitstorm.net> wrote:
Of course you could have saved yourself some work (and not have had to
repeat essentially the same post three times) by just looking up the
suffix -phobe; using your site (http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary) we
find a definition of:
Main Entry: -phobe
Function: noun combining form
Etymology: Greek -phobos fearing
: one fearing or averse to (something specified) <Francophobe>
Even if you wanted to go back to the root, "phobia", M-W lists it's use as
a suffix as:
Main Entry: -phobia
Function: noun combining form
Etymology: New Latin, from Late Latin, from Greek, from -phobos fearing,
from phobos fear, flight, from
phebesthai to flee; akin to Lithuanian begti to flee, Old Church Slavonic bezati
1 : exaggerated fear of <acrophobia>
2 : intolerance or aversion for <photophobia>
S
Stew
IIDaRcYII
>I didn't say it was deep, just that the issue goes deeper than just
>homophobia.
>Read the posts; there are issues of crowded parks, special interest groups
>being too powerful, etc. I'm not saying I agree with any of it, but you
>should
>realize that homophobia is really just the tip of the iceberg.
>Carli,
Oh, Okay, Let's invite the KKK to WDW...huh??? talk about special intrest
groups at the park....
Ariel.....
Dennis Metcalfe
On 20 May 1998 16:23:55 GMT, iida...@aol.com (IIDaRcYII) wrote:
<snip>
>Oh, Okay, Let's invite the KKK to WDW...huh??? talk about special intrest
>groups at the park....
Disney did not do the inviting.... a group of people with similar
interests said "Let's get together on such and such day at such and
such place" ... apparently it worked.
Darn near nobody invites the KKK anywhere but if they follow the
rules, they have the same rights as any other group, as distasteful as
they may be to you or me .... at Disney or even on your city streets.
Dennis Metcalfe
Zipadidoo
What are you talking about? I try to clarify the argument for you and you go
off on a kkk tangent?
IIDaRcYII
>What are you talking about? I try to clarify the argument for you and you go
>off on a kkk tangent?
>Carli,
Sorry...I'm just really touchy on this subject. It's like a bunch of
Christian's decide to go to the park one day. All I'm saying is WHAT'S THE
DIFFERENCE???? It's no worse than watching teenage or even adult couples grope
and make out at the park...now THAT'S revolting!!! I mean...get a room people.
:)
Ariel (still putting in her $.02)
Zipadidoo
And I wasn't giving my OPINION- I was just telling you what people were arguing
about.
Stew Barnes
In article <6k06p4$4p6$1...@supernews.com>, "Michael Kelleher"
<kell...@bitstorm.net> wrote:
> Of course I also could have consulted my Psychology text which also states a
> phobia as "an unrealistic fear of a specific situation, activity or thing.
> Then goes on to state that "Some phobias are extremely common such as a fear
> of heights (acrophobia); fear of closed spaces (claustrophobia); fear of
> dirt and germs dirt and germs (mysophobia); and fear of animals, especially
> snakes, dogs, insects and mice (zoophobia). Others are rarer such as fear of
> purple (porphyrophobia), fear of the number 13 (triskaidekaphobia) and a
> fear of interaction with homosexuals (homophobia)." from Psychology Wade
> and Tavris Fifth edition. But I was trying to avoid all that typing.
As well you should, since it doesn't bolster you original point.
Homphobia certainly includes a fear of interacting with homosexuals. It
is a sub-set of the entire definition.
Do you still contend that people who claim Mr. Johnson is a homophobe are
being intellectualy vapid? Do you still contend that homophobia only
refers to a fear of homosexuals?
Stew
Holyamos
> All I'm saying is WHAT'S THE
>DIFFERENCE???? It's no worse than watching teenage or even adult couples
>grope
>and make out at the park...now THAT'S revolting!!! I mean...get a room
>people.
I agree that any excessive displays of public affection are rude and
inconsiderate. However, homosexuality, contrary to some suggestions, is not
normal, period. Whether it is caused by environmental factors or you are
"born" gay, it simply is not a normal activity. (although if you look to the
animal kingdom, the "born gay" argument is very weak, most acts of what would
be considered gay activity, is really an intricate way of comunicating
hostility, fear, and social status) Do I fear Homosexuals? No. Do I choose
not to support their lifestyle or want my children exposed to their lifestyle?
No. If this makes me a homophobe, so be it.
Mark Johnson
Well, I for one thing they are being "intellectualy vapid" as you said. By
simply calling one a homophobe, you are excusing the fact that somebody has
a different view, a view in which they are against homosexuality. It's like
yelling fire, when there isn't any smoke. I feel it's a pathetic attempt to
reply to somebody who actually doesn't agree with it. Here's a scenario, in
which I hope I can demonstrate it to you people who yell homophobe at every
corner. I don't like spiders, and I don't like them in my house, but that
doesn't make me an arachnphobe does it? Well the same goes for being a
homophobe. I don't agree with the gay's sexual preferences, and I don't like
them or any group for that matter hanging out in a public place and rallying
to promote their views, but I don't hate them or am scared to be by one.
Perhaps, your own personal defintion of homophobia is different includes the
reasons you have given, but your personal definition means nothing in this
world except to yourself, so keep it to yourself if you plan on applying it
to other people.
-Mark
Stew Barnes wrote in message ...
>In article <6k06p4$4p6$1...@supernews.com>, "Michael Kelleher"
Stew Barnes
In article <6k1tca$77ni$1...@newssvr04-int.news.prodigy.com>, "Mark Johnson"
<Mar...@hotmail.com> wrote:
> Well, I for one thing they are being "intellectualy vapid" as you said. By
> simply calling one a homophobe, you are excusing the fact that somebody has
> a different view, a view in which they are against homosexuality. It's like
> yelling fire, when there isn't any smoke. I feel it's a pathetic attempt to
> reply to somebody who actually doesn't agree with it. Here's a scenario, in
> which I hope I can demonstrate it to you people who yell homophobe at every
> corner. I don't like spiders, and I don't like them in my house, but that
> doesn't make me an arachnphobe does it?
Yes, of course it does. It's the very definition of the word. You don't
like them. Neither do I. I'm an arachnophobe too. Whether you want to
view that fact as good, bad or indifferent is up to you.
>Well the same goes for being a
> homophobe. I don't agree with the gay's sexual preferences, and I don't like
> them or any group for that matter hanging out in a public place and rallying
> to promote their views, but I don't hate them or am scared to be by one.
> Perhaps, your own personal defintion of homophobia is different includes the
> reasons you have given, but your personal definition means nothing in this
> world except to yourself, so keep it to yourself if you plan on applying it
> to other people.
No, words have very set meanings. That's what a dictionary is for.
Whether or not a label is derogatory is subjective.
Stew
Robert
Who made you god and let you decide what "normal" is? Anyone who thinks
they can decide what is right and wrong for everyone else has a major
problem. I think you need to cool your egotistical head before it explodes.
Robert
DCm63
>However, homosexuality, contrary to some suggestions, is not
>normal, period. Whether it is caused by environmental factors or you are
>"born" gay, it simply is not a normal activity.
By your logic, then, are deaf people not normal? They are a minority due to
environmental factors or are "born" that way. Did you know that many of them
don't want to be able to hear? Would it be wrong for them to try to start a
"Deaf Day?"
>Do I fear Homosexuals? No. Do I choose
>not to support their lifestyle or want my children exposed to their
>lifestyle?
>No.
Could you please explain what the homosexual lifestyle is? And what is the
heterosexual lifestyle? Which one do bisexuals live?
Rende
"Robert" <sk...@deltanet.com> wrote:
>"Who made you god and let you decide what "normal" is? Anyone who thinks they
can decide what is right and wrong for everyone else has a major problem. I
think you need to cool your egotistical head before it explodes."
Normal is not some abstract concept that is not quantifyible. Things that fall
within the norm are normal. Simple statistics speak for themselves. If there
is a tendency to become a heterosexual in adult life, guess what...that's the
norm. Skirting the issue by stating someone is egostical or believe they are
god-like is not going to change the facts, nor is some condescending comment
about who-decides-what-for-whom.
Rende
dc...@aol.com (DCm63) wrote:
>"By your logic, then, are deaf people not normal?"
That would be a logical conclusion. And let's be clear...we are talking about
one characteristic of a person, and not the person as a whole. There are
normal and abnormal behaviors. There are normal and abnormal physical
characteristics. Everyone has normal and abnormal traits about them. I
personally would not get a bunch of people together to celebrate "People Who
Sweat Excessively Day", but that's just me.
>"They are a minority due to environmental factors or are "born" that way. Did
you know that many of them don't want to be able to hear? Would it be wrong
for them to try to start a "Deaf Day?"
There can be any number of "Days" as there are people in the world...but some
people would like to avoid some "Days" that do not agree with their moral or
religious (or any other) belief. If there were ever a white supremicist day, I
certainly would avoid it...and that is my right. Just because someone feels
strongly about an issue does not grant them rights to trample on other people's
rights (as you can see, this argument works in both directions). If there is
to be respect for the gay community, there must be respect for those who do not
agree with their lifestyle...otherwise the whole issue is one big hypocracy.
Rende
dc...@aol.com (DCm63) wrote:
>"Could you please explain what the homosexual lifestyle is? And what is the
heterosexual lifestyle? Which one do bisexuals live?"
At the risk of answering what I would expect would be a rhetorical and obvious
question, I will reply this way:
The homosexual lifestyle is a lifestyle in which a person (or persons) partake
in sexual relations with members of the same sex; the heterosexual lifestyle is
a lifestyle in which a person (or persons) partake in sexual relations with
members of the opposite sex; and the bisexual lifestyle is a lifestyle in which
a person (or persons) partake in sexual relations with either the same or
opposite sex.
Now that I have stated the obvious, what more clarification is necessary?
Perhaps you are challenging the previous poster's comments about not exposing
his or her children to the homosexual lifestyle. It would be presumptuous to
question a parents' decisions, their right to decide, or to imply that this
sort of avoidance is not proper or normal.
jam...@peganet.com
People against "mixed" or bi-racial marriages are considered "racist".
Since you are "against" homosexuality", and you don't *like* the term
homophobe (even though it fits you to a *t*), I hereby coin a new term
of "homosexualist: one who is against homosexuality".
Perhaps I should get "lude" with you and wait for you to "aversity" me.
Also Mr. Johnson, can you explain the difference between "orientation" and
"preference"? (I'd use another dictionary - your Funk and Wagnall's appears
to be defective). And could you explain to us exactly what a "gay lifestyle"
is? You keep using this term, but I cannot figure it out.
Todd - The Unintelligent, Stupid, Town Drunk
In article <6k1tca$77ni$1...@newssvr04-int.news.prodigy.com>,
"Mark Johnson" <Mar...@hotmail.com> wrote:
>
> Well, I for one thing they are being "intellectualy vapid" as you said. By
> simply calling one a homophobe, you are excusing the fact that somebody has
> a different view, a view in which they are against homosexuality. It's like
> yelling fire, when there isn't any smoke. I feel it's a pathetic attempt to
> reply to somebody who actually doesn't agree with it. Here's a scenario, in
> which I hope I can demonstrate it to you people who yell homophobe at every
> corner. I don't like spiders, and I don't like them in my house, but that
> doesn't make me an arachnphobe does it? Well the same goes for being a
> homophobe. I don't agree with the gay's sexual preferences, and I don't like
> them or any group for that matter hanging out in a public place and rallying
> to promote their views, but I don't hate them or am scared to be by one.
> Perhaps, your own personal defintion of homophobia is different includes the
> reasons you have given, but your personal definition means nothing in this
> world except to yourself, so keep it to yourself if you plan on applying it
> to other people.
> -Mark
>
> Stew Barnes wrote in message ...
> >In article <6k06p4$4p6$1...@supernews.com>, "Michael Kelleher"
> >Do you still contend that people who claim Mr. Johnson is a homophobe are
> >being intellectualy vapid? Do you still contend that homophobia only
> >refers to a fear of homosexuals?
> >
> >Stew
>
>
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Stew Barnes wrote in message ...
>In article <6k06p4$4p6$1...@supernews.com>, "Michael Kelleher"
><kell...@bitstorm.net> wrote:
>
>> Of course I also could have consulted my Psychology text which also
states a
>> phobia as "an unrealistic fear of a specific situation, activity or
thing.
>> Then goes on to state that "Some phobias are extremely common such as a
fear
>> of heights (acrophobia); fear of closed spaces (claustrophobia); fear of
>> dirt and germs dirt and germs (mysophobia); and fear of animals,
especially
>> snakes, dogs, insects and mice (zoophobia). Others are rarer such as fear
of
>> purple (porphyrophobia), fear of the number 13 (triskaidekaphobia) and a
>> fear of interaction with homosexuals (homophobia)." from Psychology Wade
>> and Tavris Fifth edition. But I was trying to avoid all that typing.
>
>As well you should, since it doesn't bolster you original point.
>Homphobia certainly includes a fear of interacting with homosexuals. It
>is a sub-set of the entire definition.
>
>Do you still contend that people who claim Mr. Johnson is a homophobe are
>being intellectualy vapid?
I have proven they are using teh term incorrectly.
>Do you still contend that homophobia only
>refers to a fear of homosexuals?
I have proven it as such.
Do you still not know how to read?
>>a fear of interaction with homosexuals (homophobia)."
Are you saying than that porphyrophobia should also be used to refer to
people who just don't like the color purple? That claustrophobia also
applies to people who just want to protect their personal space? It is
obvious from the way the sentence is structured, and the other terms defined
therein, that the text is stating that "a fear of interaction with
homosexuals" is THE definition of homophobia. A phobia is a very serious
condition, one which can cause a person to cease simple normal day
activities just to avoid the thing that causes the phobia. It is obvious
that if Mr. Johnson frequents the Disney and has gay friends (as he has
stated, though I am sure some question the validity of the statement) than
he does not suffer from a PHOBIA. Either that or he has a damn good shrink.
Mike
Stew Barnes
In article <6k35ep$52n$1...@supernews.com>, "Michael Kelleher"
<kell...@bitstorm.net> wrote:
> Stew Barnes wrote in message ...
> >Do you still contend that people who claim Mr. Johnson is a homophobe are
> >being intellectualy vapid?
>
> I have proven they are using teh term incorrectly.
No, you have gone to great lengths to choose your sources, but you can't
contradict the basic meaning of -phobe :fear or aversion. Heck, you were
even kind enough to look up the word at F&W web site; you conveniently
left out the actual definition in order to further your goal. Instead,
you chose to present
> >Do you still contend that homophobia only
> >refers to a fear of homosexuals?
>
> I have proven it as such.
By selective editing of your sources you certainly have attempted to do so.
>
> Do you still not know how to read?
> >>a fear of interaction with homosexuals (homophobia)."
>
> Are you saying than that porphyrophobia should also be used to refer to
> people who just don't like the color purple? That claustrophobia also
> applies to people who just want to protect their personal space? It is
> obvious from the way the sentence is structured, and the other terms defined
> therein, that the text is stating that "a fear of interaction with
> homosexuals" is THE definition of homophobia. A phobia is a very serious
> condition, one which can cause a person to cease simple normal day
> activities just to avoid the thing that causes the phobia.
Really? I guess everyone with claustrophobia has a very serious condition?
You are confusing a medical diagnosis with a common English term.
>It is obvious
> that if Mr. Johnson frequents the Disney and has gay friends (as he has
> stated, though I am sure some question the validity of the statement) than
> he does not suffer from a PHOBIA. Either that or he has a damn good shrink.
No, he does not suffer from a medical condition. He does of course meet
the definition of a homophobe: someone with an aversion to gay folks.
Stew
Stew Barnes
> Stew Barnes wrote in message ...
> >Do you still contend that people who claim Mr. Johnson is a homophobe are
> >being intellectualy vapid?
>
> I have proven they are using teh term incorrectly.
No, you have gone to great lengths to choose your sources, but you can't
contradict the basic meaning of -phobe :fear or aversion. Heck, though you were
kind enough to look up the word at a web site you conveniently
left out the actual definition in order to further your goal. Instead,
you chose to present definitions of the root rather than usage of the
actual suffix. That you conveniently didn't present.
K...@nospam.com
On 22 May 1998 01:49:09 GMT, re...@aol.com (Rende) wrote:
>certainly would avoid it...and that is my right. Just because someone feels
>strongly about an issue does not grant them rights to trample on other people's
>rights (as you can see, this argument works in both directions).
How is anyone trampling your rights by merely going to Disney? No one
said you can't go. No one said you had to go.
Rende
I wrote:
>"certainly would avoid it...and that is my right. Just because someone feels
strongly about an issue does not grant them rights to trample on other people's
rights (as you can see, this argument works in both directions)."
K...@nospam.com wrote:
>"How is anyone trampling your rights by merely going to Disney? No one said
you can't go. No one said you had to go."
The rights in question (in my case) is not whether or not I have the right to
go to the Disney parks, but whether I have the right to object to behaviors
based upon my moral or religious beliefs. It is hypocritical to say that the
gay community has the right to believe whatever they want but I am not allowed
to believe that their behavior is unacceptible based upon my moral or religious
beliefs.
Holyamos
>>However, homosexuality, contrary to some suggestions, is not
>>normal, period. Whether it is caused by environmental factors or you are
>>"born" gay, it simply is not a normal activity.
>
>environmental factors or are "born" that way. Did you know that many of them
>don't want to be able to hear? Would it be wrong for them to try to start a
>"Deaf Day?"
I would really like to meet a deaf person who does not want to hear. I think I
could safely say that all deaf people would like hear. While your argument is
correct that deaf people are not normal, most would gladly like to hear, if
there was a cure....I could but will not, follow that logic to Homosexuals. I
responded to this thread simply to point out my opinion and not nessisarily to
bash gays.
K...@nospam.com
On 22 May 1998 15:50:56 GMT, re...@aol.com (Rende) wrote:
>The rights in question (in my case) is not whether or not I have the right to
>go to the Disney parks, but whether I have the right to object to behaviors
>based upon my moral or religious beliefs.
Who's stopping you? Are there some gay folk at your house who stick a
cattle prod in your ribs everytime you think a bad thought? You can
object with anything you want, you just can't make other people suffer
for your personal beliefs. Your rights stop where other's begin.
Still, what's this have to do with a bunch of gay people in the park?
From someone who is there every day, gay day is not the ONLY time
there are gay people in the park. What do you want, for Disney
security to stop any potential gays before they come in? The park
won't run too well with less than half of it's cast members plus I'd
love to see the "test" to prove that you are straight.
kodo...@nyx.net
In article <barnesw-2105...@barnes-mac5.rockefeller.edu>,
bar...@rockvax.rockefeller.edu (Stew Barnes) wrote:
>
> In article <6k1tca$77ni$1...@newssvr04-int.news.prodigy.com>, "Mark Johnson"
> <Mar...@hotmail.com> wrote:
>
> > Well, I for one thing they are being "intellectualy vapid" as you said. By
> > simply calling one a homophobe, you are excusing the fact that somebody
has
> > a different view, a view in which they are against homosexuality. It's
like
> > yelling fire, when there isn't any smoke. I feel it's a pathetic attempt
to
> > reply to somebody who actually doesn't agree with it. Here's a scenario,
in
> > which I hope I can demonstrate it to you people who yell homophobe at
every
> > corner. I don't like spiders, and I don't like them in my house, but that
> > doesn't make me an arachnphobe does it?
>
> like them. Neither do I. I'm an arachnophobe too. Whether you want to
> view that fact as good, bad or indifferent is up to you.
>
I'm not getting into the middle of this argument. I'm just going to explain
what was meant by the poster's analogy. The poster doesn't care for spiders.
They don't want them in their house. That does not make them an arachnophobe.
To be an arachnophobe, you have to be a person like me. I'm terrified of
spiders. I don't simply have a dislike for them, they make me truly
afraid. My memory blanks whenever i see them. Whoever is with me has to
describe my actions to me after the incident. Mostly they involve a lot of
screaming in utter fear, flinging objects at the spider, etc. That is fear of
spiders, which fits the literal translation of the word aracnophobia. The
"arachno" part of the word is derived from the Greek "arachne" meaning spider.
The "phobia" part of the word is from the Greek term, "phobos" meaning fear.
I'm not saying that everyone who has arachnophobia has severe reactions like
mine, but its a bit more than a dislike for those nasty beedy-eyed 8-legged
creatures. *yuck*
The poster is using this analogy to express the view that Homophobia is a fear
of homosexuals (not that people with this fear black out and fling objects at
them or anything, but they would have a genuine fear of them). Personally, I
think the term has more political meaning than that and another term for the
phenomenon should be found in order to adequately express its intended
meaning. Just thought I'd put my two cents in. I wouldn't want a bunch of
people classifying anyone as an arachnophobe when they simply have a dislike
for spiders....same goes for any other fear....
Mark Johnson
First of all, Stew, your posting shows you are a little paranoid and
suspicious of somebody editing it to make it sound like it's to their
benefit (the definition). You're wrong, and Mike is not going to waste his
time making definitions up just for this agrument, I doubt anybody will.
Second of all, you don't seem to understand that an aversion is when you
can't stand to be by something, not a hatred. I don't fit the quliafications
of a homophobe. How hard is that to get to your thick head? A homophobe is
one who doesn't like to go near gays due to their extreme fear of aversion
to them. I'm not scared of being by them, and I don't have an aversion to
being by them. I just don't agree with the lifestyle, and I don't agree that
any group should hold a day in a public place where tens of thousands of
people go each day to promote and force their views on everybody else. Say
what you want, but when you wear a shirt or a sign showing what religion you
are, what sexuality especially when it's a large group, you are forcing the
rest of the population to hear what you are saying and see your shirts. Some
might say it's not forceful.. but it is. If it were a gathering that you
went by choice, such as a political rally at a college auditorium, or any
auditorium, you go there by choice because you agree with this person's
views. It's not like they are holding it at the mall where everybody who
goes is subjected to hear and see what this person's views. The same should
be done here, especially for large groups at a public place who represent a
very contrversial issue nowdays. They should hold it at a convention center,
or a park that they can rent out for the day for themselves. Then there's
the argument about the gay agenda.. and it does exist in some extent. The
gay day website's has this agenda that by going to Disney World they will be
fighting bigotry and making the world better. How are they going to do that?
Are they going to threaten everybody that those who oppose will be
anihilated like some futuristic movie or like the Nazis did? I mean those
who don't agree won't change their views. This day has gone way further than
just a gathering of gay people enjoying the park.. it's now a political way
they can force people to listen to them to follow through with their hopless
agenda. People will never agree to homosexuality this way, if these pride
groups keep doing this. The current status will always be the same. You have
to learn that people don't listen when they're being shouted at... you have
to talk to be heard in reasonable terms, at least that's they way I and most
of the population feels or else homosexuality would be more widely accepted.
-Mark
Stew Barnes wrote in message ...
>In article <6k35ep$52n$1...@supernews.com>, "Michael Kelleher"
Rende
K...@nospam.com wrote:
>"Who's stopping you? Are there some gay folk at your house who stick a cattle
prod in your ribs everytime you think a bad thought? You can object with
anything you want, you just can't make other people suffer for your personal
beliefs. Your rights stop where other's begin. Still, what's this have to do
with a bunch of gay people in the park? From someone who is there every day,
gay day is not the ONLY time there are gay people in the park. What do you
want, for Disney security to stop any potential gays before they come in? The
park won't run too well with less than half of it's cast members plus I'd love
to see the "test" to prove that you are straight."
Overexaggeration is not necessary. Besides, I am attempting to take a neutral
position in this argument. My reasoning should apply to either side of the
discussion.
This discussion came about because so many people have stated that homosexual
behavior should be accepted and/or ignored, and that it is improper for anyone
to actually stand up and object to it. I have not stated my opinion on the
homosexual issue one way or the other...I have simply stated that just as gays
have the right to speak their mind, so does the other side...without being
branded as prejudiced, homophobic, or promoting hate (although we cannot rule
these out completely).
People's behavior does not occur in a vacuum, and it affects people around
them...like it or not. Whether we are talking about loud people in movies,
aggressive drivers, religious zealots, etc...other people have to react to
behavior (good or bad) and make decisions about how they will act themselves.
If someone says that displays of affection by same sex couples causes stress,
anxiety, confusion, etc. within their family, isn't that causing the suffering
that you are referring to?
Okay...a thought to ponder. What happens when a same sex couple kisses in
public? They have made their statement that they are not going to follow
society's views about what is appropriate for public behavior. Now, can
someone go over to them and tell them that their behavior contradicts their
moral and/or religious beliefs? If you say no, then there is the stoppage you
suggest. If you say yes, then you are acknowledging that it is okay to express
themselves, which may cause a conflict with the other side.
You can't have things both ways. If people behave overly affectionate or
sexually in public (whether straight or gay), we have the right (and possibly
the obligation) to alert them to their conflict with accepted behavior, right?
If not, then the only ones with free speech are the ones that have perpetrated
the act in the first place.
Michael Kelleher
Stew Barnes wrote in message ...
>
>Really? I guess everyone with claustrophobia has a very serious condition?
True claustrophobia, yes they do!
>You are confusing a medical diagnosis with a common English term.
It seems to me as if people have taken a medical diagnosis and applied it to
whatever they feel like. I would imagine that the medical diagnosis of
homophobia has been around longer than the people who claim anyone who
disagrees with something is a homophobe.
Mike
DCm63
>I would really like to meet a deaf person who does not want to hear. I think
>I
>could safely say that all deaf people would like hear.
You can find many of them at Gallaudet University (it's a college geared to the
deaf).
DCm63
>The homosexual lifestyle is a lifestyle in which a person (or persons)
>partake
>in sexual relations with members of the same sex; the heterosexual lifestyle
>is
>a lifestyle in which a person (or persons) partake in sexual relations with
>members of the opposite sex; and the bisexual lifestyle is a lifestyle in
>which
>a person (or persons) partake in sexual relations with either the same or
>opposite sex.
You stated simply what it means to be straight, gay, or bi. Why do you use the
word "lifestyle?" You are not explaining any style in which someone goes about
their day to day existance. Unless, of course, you have sex 24 hours a day.
Gosh, if you do, you must be exhausted.
Rende
dc...@aol.com (DCm63) wrote:
>"You stated simply what it means to be straight, gay, or bi. Why do you use
the word "lifestyle?" You are not explaining any style in which someone goes
about their day to day existance. Unless, of course, you have sex 24 hours a
day. Gosh, if you do, you must be exhausted."
So to use your reasoning, if a person does not partake in sex 24 hours a day
they have no lifestyle? Okay...we are arguing semantics and people can have
many lifestyles. I was simply responding to the previous poster who asked for
a definition of the various life styles.
kodo...@nyx.net
*sigh* Ok. As far as I know, Websters is still considered to be one of the
best references used to define terms. According to Websters New Collegiate
Dictionary Copyright 1985 (a bit old I know, but its the only thing I have
handy at this point), phobia is defined as the following: "an exaggerated
usu. inexplicable and illogical fear of a particular object or class of
objects". If the person in question has an illogical, exaggerated, and
inexplicable fear of homosexuals, then, yes, he can be classified as a true
homophobic. Otherwise, I can see no reason to classify him as such. Unless,
you want to write a letter of complaint to G and C Merriam Co. in Springfield,
MA, the company who published this particular edition of Websters.
Also, just as a point of interest because I have not been conversing with
people in a news group format for very long (about 3 or 4 days), could you
please tell me where the definition of the word, "homophobia", you are using
came from? I mean this as no point of controversy and I am by no means trying
to refute your source, I was just curious as to where the definition came
from.
Oh...and just for curiosity's sake, in my last post I pointed out the meaning
for the earliest form of the word, "phobia"...It comes from the Greek "phobos"
meaning fear or flight. There is no mention of aversion. However, I can see
where you are coming from. The current usage of the term due to the political
nature of the times is the usage you described. I'm not saying that it is
right to describe someone who may have an aversion (no matter how slight) with
a word that has such a clinical nature to it. I'm just pointing out that the
current usage of the word, for better or for worse, is as such.
Respectfully,
Kelley
In article <barnesw-2205...@erskine1-092.cybernex.net>,
bar...@rockvax.rockefeller.edu (Stew Barnes) wrote:
>
> In article <6k35ep$52n$1...@supernews.com>, "Michael Kelleher"
> <kell...@bitstorm.net> wrote:
>
> > Stew Barnes wrote in message ...
> Really? I guess everyone with claustrophobia has a very serious condition?
>
> You are confusing a medical diagnosis with a common English term.
>
> >It is obvious
> > that if Mr. Johnson frequents the Disney and has gay friends (as he has
> > stated, though I am sure some question the validity of the statement) than
> > he does not suffer from a PHOBIA. Either that or he has a damn good
shrink.
>
> No, he does not suffer from a medical condition. He does of course meet
> the definition of a homophobe: someone with an aversion to gay folks.
>
> Stew
>
jam...@peganet.com
It is not really arguing semantics at all, if you think about it.
Plenty of gay/straight/bi folks are in committed relationships and do not
have sex. When someone uses the term "gay lifestyle", they are implying
that ALL gay people live their lives in the exact same fashion. You will
agree that this is not true. Your answer would have been correct if the
question had been: What is the difference between gay/straight/bi
"orientations". And if you had read Dcm's response carefully, you would have
noted that Dcm said: " You are not explaining any style in which someone
goes about their day to day existance."
I'm not nitpicking you per say, but can anyone tell me how a gay person lives
their life any different than a straight or bi person - MINUS the sex
differential?
Doug Swallow
As the person who is responsible for starting and organizing Gay Day at
Disney, I thought it might be time to put to rest some of the misconceptions
which are being thrown about concerning the origins, intents and purposes
behind Gay Day at Disney.
In 1991, I and a small group of friends conceived of meeting at The Magic
Kingdom one day "in the near future" as a social gathering. Much like many
groups of 15 to 20 people might conceive of going to Disney together. I
simply took one extra step, promoting it in gay nightclubs in Orlando, since
we had set a date that was a few months in the future. The media,
specifically The Orlando Sentinel, then various morning radio talk shows in
Orlando, got hold of the plans and thought it newsworthy enough to make
mention of it in their respective forums. About 1,000 to 1,500 gay men and
women ended up at Disney that day in June 1991.
Since then, the event has grown explosively... for two specific reasons: (1)
groups on the religious right of the spectrum constantly make noise about
it, which generates enormous publicity... remember, the press likes
conflict; and (2) gay people who have gone have a lot of fun (as does most
anyone who goes to Disney) and when they returned home, they told friends,
who then gathered together the following year, had fun, went home, and each
told more friends, and so on, till we get to Gay Day #8 in 1998 where we
expect anywhere from 100,000 to 120,000 people to show up throughout the
weekend.
I won't deny that many find the mere presence of a large number of gay
people in one place to be political in nature. However Gay Day at Disney
started out specifically and solely as a time to gather together and HAVE
FUN at Disney. We have never sought to turn it into any sort of political
forum whatsoever, and in the subsequent years, the only time any gay politic
concept comes into play with Gay Day at Disney is when addressing the
politically inspired complaints against the event's mere existence by groups
in the religious right.
Gay Day at Disney is not now, nor has it ever been, nor will it ever be a
political event in purpose or design.
The quotes which have been borrowed out of context at various times trying
to justify claims that this is a political event are referring to a campaign
called "Stand Our Ground" (which I should add was started by a straight
woman in Massachusetts who became thoroughly fed up with all the anti-Disney
redderick spread by certain groups), and the reference "we stand together
against bigotry, hatred and intolerance nationwide" is in reference to that
campaign, not to Gay Day at Disney. If the religious right and extremist
groups such as Operation Rescue could learn to keep their mouths shut and
let others enjoy what Disney offers in peace, we would not be forced into
the position of responding to their misguided actions. But, do not expect we
will not respond in some manner. We will.
Frankly I will immediately discount any straight person arguing against Gay
Day at Disney unless they have personally attended Disney during the event.
If one has something to say, it should be based upon reality, not upon
heresay. And I will say that with very few exceptions, the conversations
going on here about "what goes on at Gay Day" which are held by those
espousing an opinion against the event, are generally without much factual
basis.
If you will momentarily blind yourself to the gender if any particular
individual, then Nothing, Absolutely Nothing, goes on at Disney during Gay
Day that does not happen every other day of the year.
But it is not apparently reasonable to ask that one momentarily blind
oneself to gender. In fact, because gay men and women have for so long in
this country been ostracized by groups in the religious right, among others,
suddenly it becomes quite "noticeable" when two adult men or two adult women
might be holding hands while visiting Disney, whereas hundreds of couples
consisting of a man and a women doing exactly the same thing go completely
unnoticed. That's because ever since we grew up, we had role models
throughout our lives in the friends and strangers around us, and this
behavior, a man and a women holding hands, was so common, we tend to just
tune it out. But differentiate from that, and suddenly it's like being in
the spotlight.
It is not hard to understand that it is a difficult thing for two men or two
women to simply hold hands in public under such a spotlight of scrutiny. The
idea of attending Disney as a group of gay men and women was to provide that
same sense of commonality with sheer numbers. In other words, to permit
these many otherwise completely normal people to "have a day" when they can
enjoy the experiences offered at Disney without feeling that there is some
majestic spotlight identifying such simple behaviors as holding hands in
public with your loved one.
That's entirely what Gay Day at Disney is all about. Nothing more. And
nothing less. While it SHOULD BE quite acceptable for two men or two women
to hold hands in public any time of the year (and it is certainly and
legally quite permissible), that spotlight it puts people under can become
traumatic. Moreso with some of the nastier people who find they must go out
of their way to snort rude comments about that behavior when they become
aware of it. It is NOT a comfortable environment to be in. It should be. But
it is not. One day, it will be, and when that day finally is upon us, Gay
Day at Disney will likely still be around because of the social atmosphere
it has created, but it will no longer be NEEDED.
We try very hard to let as many people know about Gay Day as we possibly can
with the resources we have. Sure, there are people that don't like being
around gay men and women in such numbers. And while we can argue forever
about calling them names, they exist, and all we can do to try to help them
get through Gay Day is to help them plan around it. Disney does not help
very much in that regard, because for them, this is just another day in the
business they run. They have nothing to do with it, and have no problem with
it. They simply do what they do every other day of the year.
Now, I won't deny we have always had reasonable access to Disney management
(at least as of 1993), but it is not because Disney was doing anything for
us or helping us. It was because we worked together to try to find ways to
ensure this did NOT turn into a political event, and did NOT become anything
more than a time to have fun at Disney, like every other day. I could cite
case after case, actually, where normal business decisions were made by
Disney management to AVOID appearing to be doing anything at all for Gay
Day. Any other company (and many in Orlando during Gay Day do take advantage
of the gay tourists in town, as they rightly should) would recognize the
market that exists that weekend and work towards opportunities to provide
entertainment and make some additional money from it. But this fever-pitch
nonsense spouted left and right by the religious right and similar groups
has caused them to look almost too closely at everything they might
otherwise do. For example, the week after Gay Day, at Downtown Disney
Pleasure Island, Vibe Magazine and Disney are bringing in all sorts of live
entertainment to celebrate Black History month. Why won't Disney bring in
entertainment that might be specifically attractive to a gay crowd? Would
any straight person really object to more live entertainment at Pleasure
Island? Do only gay people go to Madonna concerts? Or, for that matter,
Village People concerts (Disney booked Village People for Pleasure Island
New Years Eve one year, in fact... certainly raised no eyebrows then, so why
would it during Gay Day?)
With absolute certainty, I am sure that Disney does not deserve any of this
boycott nonsense. It is grossly unfair to them as a company, and to every
guest who spends their hard earned money at Disney.
Now, on to the shirts: we never expected to be the majority of the park
population when Gay Day first began (and frankly, I'm not sure I would ever
have believed back then that Gay Day would become so big so fast), and the
"wear red" idea was one I came up with as a means of us being able to "find
eachother" easily and feel more comfortable in general. Contrary to some
people's beliefs, you generally cannot tell a gay person from a straight
person if you were to just look at them. Since then, the t-shirts have taken
on a life of their own. Another fact: Disney management first got involved
with us directly in an attempt to defuse what they thought might be
happening as we came in larger and larger numbers, and the red became more
of an issue, especially with other guests who happened to wear red without
realizing the meaning we had given it that weekend. So we tried to eliminate
it in 1994. Well, it didn't work. But also in 1994, Disney started feeling
more comfortable with people's behavior. It was obvious that it was not
turning into a political platform for the gay community, but was continuing
on its course as an entirely social gathering to have fun. And I got so many
complaints about not having red shirts that we went back to that in
following years.
Disney management bends over backwards to address every complaint they get,
even those made with certain malicious intent. For several years, they gave
away free shirts to those guests wearing red who were upset to find
themselves in the park on Gay Day. They provided free tickets and
transportation to any other park (even non-Disney parks) to guests who
didn't want to be there. And those wonderful people at places like City Hall
had to endure endless hateful comments, too. Yet, they didn't flinch, they
smiled, and helped everywhere they could.
These last few years, Disney has gotten some backbone on those issues, as
word spread about how easy it was to get "something for nothing" out of
Disney just by acting like a bigot, Disney has clamped down more and more,
and nowadays is less likely to blanketly do those sorts of things to
everyone complaining, yet they still do bend over backwards to be helpful.
I hope that answers a few of the questions people have had, and with some
facts rather than innuendo, hearsay and simply wrong information.
So before you blindly bash Disney for something they have absolutely nothing
to do with, you might think first, and realize that Disney HAS gone out of
their way to assist people who have problems with Gay Day, without any real
reason except that they want every guest, gay or straight, to enjoy what the
parks have to offer. But some people are simply never satisfied unless the
entire world fits the exact framework for it which they have created in
their own minds. The United States was formed mostly because of religious
persecution in other countries, so before you just blindly start persecuting
people for being different, think what a wonderful place this country is
compared even today to many countries elsewhere in this world. Think how
much nicer it could be if everyone could simply exist day to day being who
they are and feeling welcome wherever they might go. And think about the
traumatic effect on those who must suffer because others do not permit them
that basic human right to be who they are. Gay Day at Disney is a very tiny
attempt to provide a glimpse of such a wonderful ideal world in a very
magical resort to a number of people that do not have the benefit of
enjoying their lives in peace. Perhaps Gay Day's apparent success at this in
so little time is a sign that there's more wrong in the rest of the country
than many people admit.
---
Doug Swallow
Founder/Organizer, Gay Day at Disney
http://www.gayday.com
(To reply by email, remove the "nospam." from my email domain name)
BigLug ®
[Ummm... anyone else see the irony in the fact that GayDay
was started by a guy named Doug SWALLOW? Just asking...]
Doug Swallow wrote:
> If the religious right and extremist groups such as Operation Rescue
> could learn to keep their mouths shut and let others enjoy what Disney
> offers in peace,
Here we see the true motive.... silence the critics. Interesting.
> Frankly I will immediately discount any straight person arguing against
> Gay Day at Disney unless they have personally attended Disney during the
> event. If one has something to say, it should be based upon reality, not
> upon heresay.
Invalid thesis --- I've never shot up heroin, but I know that's bad.
> It is not hard to understand that it is a difficult thing for two men or
> two women to simply hold hands in public under such a spotlight of scrutiny.
> The idea of attending Disney as a group of gay men and women was to provide
> that same sense of commonality with sheer numbers.
To "desensitize", "normalize", and "numb" the public.... Interesting.
> But some people are simply never satisfied unless the entire world fits
> the exact framework for it which they have created in their own minds.
Sounds like *your* goal. (change the mindset of Americans towards
homosexuals)
BTW, America was "founded" to spread Christianity (and stop the
persecution
thereof). Read the Mayflower Compact and the inscription on Plymouth
Rock.
Thanks, and have a nice day...
Mark :)
Charles McGuinness
Doug,
I enjoyed reading your post and finding out about the history of the event.
By now you must either feel proud or scared of the event you've created. Or
maybe both. In any case, you're one of the few people who gets their 15
minutes of fame once a year!
Best,
-- charles
Jason Travis
>[Ummm... anyone else see the irony in the fact that GayDay
> was started by a guy named Doug SWALLOW? Just asking...]
I'm not sure I get it. Most people swallow up to a few hundred times a day.
Nothing really unusual in that. Oh, perhaps you're referring to the fact
that Disney serves *food*...which would make it necessary for anyone at the
park to SWALLOW...I get it now! You're quite a funny guy!
>> Frankly I will immediately discount any straight person arguing against
>> Gay Day at Disney unless they have personally attended Disney during the
>> event. If one has something to say, it should be based upon reality, not
>> upon heresay.
>
>Invalid thesis --- I've never shot up heroin, but I know that's bad.
Most of the people you're getting your "heroin" information from say it's
bad, right? Heroin is a bad thing. Going to Disney is not in any way
life-threatening. Invalid rebuttal.
>> It is not hard to understand that it is a difficult thing for two men or
>> two women to simply hold hands in public under such a spotlight of
scrutiny.
>> The idea of attending Disney as a group of gay men and women was to
provide
>> that same sense of commonality with sheer numbers.
>
>To "desensitize", "normalize", and "numb" the public.... Interesting.
Why is it bad to get used to something that you can't change? Homosexuality
will continue whether you like it or not. Just as attitudes towards hetero
"normal" sex become less and less repressed, so will they towards
homosexuality. While I agree that this isn't necessarily all good (we had
to kick two teenagers out of the bookstore I work at for having sex in the
children's department) doesn't it make sense to not be so hung up about tame
affectionate contact? Love (meaning love, not sexual contact) should never
be a reason to hide.
>> But some people are simply never satisfied unless the entire world fits
>> the exact framework for it which they have created in their own minds.
>
>Sounds like *your* goal. (change the mindset of Americans towards
>homosexuals)
Um...in case you've forgotten, those two groups overlap. "American" is not
the opposite of "homosexual".
>BTW, America was "founded" to spread Christianity (and stop the
>persecution
>thereof). Read the Mayflower Compact and the inscription on Plymouth
>Rock
So it's okay to persecute a different group for their beliefs which don't
pose any threat or damage to you personally? Freedom of religion was only
ONE of the freedomsthe Pilgrims wanted by coming to America. The basic idea
was to get away from any sort of monarch who could tell the populace what to
do or not do. Far as I know, that's still in effect.
Your message was rude, ill-conceived, and did not manage to refute any of
the points in the original post. Try again if you think you can do better.
--
--Jason
Theatre Forum
http://forums.msn.com/Theatre
Rende
"Jason Travis" <jctr...@do.not.spam.msn.com> wrote:
>"Most of the people you're getting your "heroin" information from say it's
bad, right? Heroin is a bad thing. Going to Disney is not in any way
life-threatening. Invalid rebuttal."
I believe the poster was using a metaphor to prove the point. The poster
simply stated that one does not have to partake in an activity to know that it
is bad (or maybe just not right for that person). Stretching the statement and
judging it as invalid is not logical.
>"Why is it bad to get used to something that you can't change? Homosexuality
will continue whether you like it or not."
Conversely, why can't the homosexual community get used to the fact that not
everyone will accept their behavior, whether they like it or not.
>"Just as attitudes towards hetero "normal" sex become less and less repressed,
so will they towards homosexuality."
Reminds me of a history lesson about the way things were before the fall of the
great Roman empire.
>"Love (meaning love, not sexual contact) should never be a reason to hide."
I'll take displays of love over displays of hatred any time...but too much of
anything can be annoying.
>"Um...in case you've forgotten, those two groups overlap. "American" is not
the opposite of "homosexual".
I think the poster was referring to the majority of Americans being
heterosexual
>"So it's okay to persecute a different group for their beliefs which don't
pose any threat or damage to you personally? Freedom of religion was only ONE
of the freedoms the Pilgrims wanted by coming to America. The basic idea was
to get away from any sort of monarch who could tell the populace what to do or
not do. Far as I know, that's still in effect.."
I think the term "persecute" is a little strong. Most of these posts refer to
opinions, not persecution. In terms of posing any threat or damaging people, I
think that is a bit more subjective. Parents may feel uncomfortable and/or
stressful trying to explain to their children why two people of the same sex
are behaving affectionally (heck, the same may be said for explaining them
about two people of the opposite sex).
Holyamos
>Why is it bad to get used to something that you can't change? Homosexuality
>will continue whether you like it or not.
Unfortunately, many things in our society will always be with us, like drug
addiction, alcholism, mental illness, etc. does that make it ok?
>So it's okay to persecute a different group for their beliefs which don't
>pose any threat or damage to you personally? Freedom of religion was only
>ONE of the freedomsthe Pilgrims wanted by coming to America. The basic idea
>was to get away from any sort of monarch who could tell the populace what to
>do or not do. Far as I know, that's still in effect.
Put another way the pilgrams did not want a loud and vocal minority trying to
immpose its beliefs on the majority...Hmm sounds kinda familar?
> Heroin is a bad thing. Going to Disney is not in any way
>life-threatening. Invalid rebuttal.
>
>
I do not think the poster argument that going to Disney is a bad thing, his
argument was the use of Disney by gay groups to promote their lifestyle was
offensive to many people.
>Your message was rude, ill-conceived, and did not manage to refute any of
>the points in the original post. Try again if you think you can do better.
I disagree, the