Steve Russo <
sru...@nycap.rr.com> wrote:
> On 5/16/2012 4:23 PM, Laura Gilbreath wrote:
>
>> Steve,
>>
>> Thank you for the update...I was wondering how everything was going for
>> you. There will be good days and bad...on the bad days please
>> remember that we're here and we care!
>>
>> So, are you meeting with Admiral Boom in June? ;-)
>>
>> Laura
>>
>
> Thanks, Laura.
>
> Things are going as well as they can be. I'm blessed with a great family
> - Barb, our kids and their spouses, and a great group of friends and
> cousins that are like brothers and sisters.
>
> It's hard and will be for a while. Every morning I get up and walk past
> Pop's room. I'm so used to looking in to check on him... and stepping
> over Gunnar, who took up a nightly vigil outside his room. He was Pop's protector.
>
That is the toughest part about losing a loved ones (two-legged or
four-legged); seeing the places they used to be and those daily routines of
interaction are hard to deal with.
> I know that, with time, it all gets easier. I also know that getting out
> of the house for a few days would be a good thing.
>
I think that's why some people move. A friend of Katie's died last year in
a car wreck and her parents moved. They just couldn't stand to see their
daughter's empty room. Of course there's the opposite reaction where
people refuse to leave behind anythng - house, clothes cars, etc. My
grandfather refused to even remove my grandmother's toiletries from the
bathroom and her clothes were still ithe closet until the day he died.
Jan's mother was quite the opposite; a few weeks after Jan's dad died, she
cleaned out his stuff. She sold his car and gave his ECV to a neighbor who
needed it. She still missed him, she just didn't need his Earthly
belongings anymore. People just have to deal with grief in their own way.
> Alas, no Admiral Boom (unless she's back in the USA and would agree to my
> request for an interview).
So let's see...this is a surpise that Keane will be jealous about. Hmm,
and it's not meeting Boom. Really, unless you have bought a Maxima and are
driving from New York, I'm at a loss here! :-)
--
- Rodney